08/11/2026
Do you rewrite the caption 6 times and then close the app without posting?
That’s not being busy. It’s the fear of being seen and it’s very good at wearing a disguise.
TOW I was in Vogue Singapore, Glossy and Dazed and posted none of them (yet) 🍵
Matcha Monday Storytime is baaaacccckkkkk 👀
I used to think having the receipts would feel like a permission slip to self promote. Speaking from experience and with many other women It just changes the goal post of fear from here to there.
3 things I keep telling myself when the fear of being seen creeps up on me:
1) Do it scared and climb cringe mountain
2) Share your wins because you are your PR
3) Post it online and be visible
We need to exercise visibility because it’s like a muscle.
🤝 My challenge for us is to pick one thing this week you need to do to get seen
Can you relate to this 👀