04/29/2026
I have been friends with my best friend for over 20 years. We have been through so much in that time. There is literally nothing that I wouldn't do for her. She recently went on vacation, and had asked the 14-year-old down the street from her to check in on her animals and feed them and let them out etc. My friend was in a no service area for a while, and when she got to service, she checked her ring camera and found that the girl had not been there in 3 days, meaning the animals have not been fed or let outside in 3 days. She asked me if I would go over there and feed them, and I said of course. I went over there, and found that their bowls were bone dry, no water, no food, and they were obviously hungry. They have two dogs, both males. They had one dog, a pitbull bullmastiff mix behind a very tall baby gate, and then a Blue heeler that was loose in the house. I fed the blue heeler, and went to go feed the Pitbull bullmastiff mix, but when I went to open the baby gate, as it was too tall for me to step over it, he pushed hard against it to get past me, and immediately went for the other dog's food. They started to fight terribly. It just ripping into each other, I was screaming for them to stop, and tried to grab the pitbulls collar, and ended up getting severely bitten by both dogs on the hand, fingers, wrist and forearm. I was so scared that they were going to kill each other, it was super distressing. I called at 911 immediately, not even registering how bad my injuries were, just to get them to come over and stop the fight, and an ambulance, police officer, and animal control came. I ended up having pretty severe lacerations, and when all was said and done, tendon and ligament damage, as well as nerve damage. I had stitches, and was put in a splint. I couldn't drive, and was removed from work duty. I had previously had a rotator cuff surgery, and my rotator cuff was pulled back out of place. This was all on my right dominant hand. I was getting push back from my insurance company, with them saying they weren't going to cover treatment, and I was already struggling to pay bills with four children, and being the only source of income, still being out of work is not helping. I asked my friend if I could have her homeowners insurance information, so that I could go through it to get some help covering bills as well as compensation for the income that I couldn't generate. She accused me of suing her, blocked me and is refusing to speak to me. 22 years. If the shoe was on the other foot, there is nothing that I wouldn't do to make sure that she was taken care of. She doesn't have the means to cover my bills otherwise, and I guess I thought that homeowners insurance was similar to car insurance, like if we had both been at an intersection, and she blew past the red light and hit me, I would file a claim for it. But she is enraged with me, and I'm wondering if I should just drop it and eat the debt, and try to do like a GoFundMe for the bills, or if she is being unreasonable and selfish. I can't believe she doesn't care that I'm permanently damaged, and potentially have to go through another horrible rotator cuff surgery that took me 4 months to recover from, and then another 6 months of physical therapy. Not to mention all the scarring, and lasting damage to my fingers. Am I the as***le for considering a personal injury claim? Tia