10/14/2025
My sister-in-law took one look at my cardigan and said, "Oh honey, you couldn't afford real buttons from the craft store?"
Standing there in her pristine kitchen, wearing the sweater I'd spent three months knitting, I felt my cheeks burn with embarrassment. The sea glass buttons I'd carefully drilled and polished myself suddenly looked amateurish under her bright pendant lights. The soft blue-green pieces I'd collected during morning walks with my dog felt cheap and homemade.
"They're actually from the beach," I said quietly, watching her face change to that polite smile people use when they're trying not to hurt your feelings.
"Well, that's... creative," she said, the word hanging in the air like an insult.
I'd found these pieces of sea glass after my divorce, during those lonely dawn walks when I couldn't sleep. Each morning I'd scour the shoreline, collecting smooth fragments that had been tumbled by waves until they were perfect. Then I'd spent weeks learning how to drill tiny holes without cracking them, watching tutorials from artisans on Tedooo app who specialized in natural materials.
But sitting in her magazine-perfect home, surrounded by expensive store-bought everything, all I could see was what they weren't. They weren't uniform plastic discs from the button aisle. They didn't match exactly. They were just me, picking up broken glass because I couldn't afford proper notions for my hobby.
I almost went home and replaced them. Almost ordered regular buttons online like a normal person.
Then my coworker Sarah saw me wearing the cardigan at lunch. She stopped mid-sentence and reached out to touch one of the buttons. "These are absolutely gorgeous," she breathed. "Did you make them yourself? They look like little pieces of ocean."
That's when I realized something: the buttons weren't cheap substitutes. They were treasures. Each one carried the memory of peaceful mornings by the water. Each piece held the story of waves and time and transformation.
Last week, a woman approached me at the coffee shop asking where I'd gotten my "beautiful sea glass jewelry." When I explained I'd made the buttons myself, she commissioned a whole set for her daughter's wedding dress.
Now I have my own shop on Tedooo app, creating custom buttons and jewelry from beach finds for people who understand that the most beautiful things aren't manufactured - they're discovered by patient hands and loving eyes.