08/14/2026
Just wanted to share my (cute) Dad and what he did to his office (library).
My parents are now at the age where they are cute again. Dad is 85, going on 86 and he rearranged this place to be both a library/office and a bedroom, after my younger brother and his wife moved into other rooms to help out. (Mom is mentally there, but much slower and there's a lot she can't do anymore, and Dad is pretty independent still, but his cognitive capacities have slowed down. He's partly deaf and no longer has the capacity to explain ideas or things he's read - sad to see, when not so long ago (20+ years?) he was defending a doctor's thesis in philosophy - but he's still good with his hands and pretty good with these kinds of projects. As my Mom said, "He needs to be busy or he'd just... die."
Dad made the bed himself, rearranged everything so it would fit, and has been working on flooring these past few days. (I am with them, as my brother is on vacation.) His style is not exactly mainstream, and I think an interior designer might walk in and have a heart attack, but it works... in a very post war 1950s meets steampunk meets trapper's cabin kind of way. He isn't done yet, there are tiles on his desk.
I love that he has pictures on the wall of my two brothers, us three sisters and himself and my Mom. (And yes, that's a statue of St Theresa and he's a Catholic Deacon.) There are more shelves with more books above his desk. And those are shelves (with books) along the wall, above the clothes hanging up on the left wall. Both my parents are book lovers and there are multiple libraries in the house, (at least 4) as my brother also has a library nook.
That's a pretty small space, but my Dad has certainly made it work.