08/05/2025
“The days are long, but the years are short.”
It’s a phrase we hear when we’re raising kids, caring for aging parents, or navigating life’s milestones, but it applies just as powerfully to the hours we spend working.
Because if you’re going to spend most of your waking hours at a job, shouldn’t it mean something?
Shouldn’t it feel like it fits?
Too many people stay in roles that drain them. Not because they’re lazy or lost, but because they’ve been taught to settle, stay safe, or stay silent.
But here’s the truth:
You deserve to work in a place that aligns with your values, your skills, and your soul.
Because when you don’t, you feel the long days.
And when you do, you feel the richness of the short years.
Here’s why each of these three things must guide your career path:
❤️VALUES
What matters to you at your core.
Your integrity.
Your compass.
If your workplace conflicts with your values, you’ll feel it in your chest and in your gut.
Why values matter in your career:
🧭 They guide your decisions. You know when to say yes, and when to walk away.
🤝 They determine who you surround yourself with. A values-aligned team feels like home.
🔥 They keep burnout at bay. You can work hard, but you’ll never feel hollow.
💙SKILLS
What you’re naturally great at, or what lights you up when you’re learning.
You were given these abilities for a reason. Use them.
Why skills matter in your career:
🚀 They build confidence. You perform better when you’re working in your zone of genius.
🎯 They help you grow. You stretch, adapt, and evolve in ways that feel exciting.
🌱 They make your contribution matter. When you use your strengths, you see the impact.
💕SOUL
That deep knowing.
The spark.
The part of you that knows whether you’re just existing or truly living.
Why soul matters in your career:
💫 It’s your source of joy. Even in hard seasons, purpose keeps you going.
🧩 It creates alignment. The job doesn’t just fit, it feels right.
🌈 It leads to authenticity. You show up fully, honestly, and unapologetically.
You don’t need to find the “perfect job.”
But you do need one that respects who you are.
Because at the end of your life, you won’t remember the status or salary.
You’ll remember how your work made you feel.
So if the days are feeling long, ask yourself:
“Is this job aligned with my values, my skills, and my soul?”
And if not, it might be time to listen to what your life is trying to tell you.
You only get one.
Live the most authentic one possible.
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