05/07/2026
STORY OF THE DAY: One of my teachers had each one of us bring a clear plastic bag and a sack of potatoes ๐ฅ.
For every person weโd refuse to forgive in our life, we were told to choose a potato ๐ฅ, write on it the name and date ๐
, and put it in the plastic bag ๐๏ธ. Some of our bags, as you can imagine, were quite heavy.
We were then told to carry this bag with us everywhere for one week, putting it beside our bed ๐๏ธ at night, on the car seat ๐ when driving, next to our desk ๐ at work.
The hassle of lugging this around with us made it clear what a weight we were carrying spiritually ๐ง ๐, and how we had to pay attention to it all the time to not forget, and keep leaving it in embarrassing places.
Naturally, the condition of the potatoes deteriorated to a nasty slime ๐คข. This was a great metaphor for the price we pay for keeping our pain and heavy negativity!
Too often we think of forgiveness as a gift to the other person ๐, and while thatโs true, it clearly is also a gift for ourselves โจ!
So the next time you decide you canโt forgive someone, ask yourselfโฆ
Isnโt MY bag heavy enough? ๐ฅ๐๏ธ
Carrying Burdens
โSometimes you donโt realize the weight of a burden you are carrying until you set it aside and feel the strength returning to your arms ๐ช.โ
โA river does not always cut through a rock because of itโs strength ๐. It can also cut through a rock because of itโs persistence โฐ๏ธ.โ
Pain and Burdens
Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain ๐, but it is more common and also more hard to bear.
The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden ๐ง : it is easier to say โMy tooth is achingโ than to say โMy heart is broken.โ ๐