12/04/2025
I took my two kids to the family brunch, and just as I was brushing snow off our coats, my dad squinted, smirked and said, “Today is a happy day, why are you even here?” The whole table went dead silent, my son turned to me and whispered, “Mom, can we go home?” I simply answered, “Yeah. Right now.” One hour later… the whole family finally understood what they had just witnessed.
I led my two kids into the family brunch restaurant, and as I was brushing snow off our coats, my dad squinted, smirked and said:
“Today is a happy day, why are you even here?”
The whole table went completely silent.
No one told me to sit down.
No one said, “It’s good that you came.”
Only my son leaned in a little closer and whispered a sentence that still makes my chest ache every time I remember it:
“Mom, can we go home?”
Do you know that feeling of walking into a so-called “family” room and being treated like a stranger?
Since I was little, I got used to my father’s sigh every time I showed up, the lively conversations that suddenly… died out the moment I walked in. The polite smiles, the averted eyes, the “just joking” comments aimed at exactly one person so everyone else could laugh.
It was only when I became a mother that I realized:
What I’d been enduring for years was no longer just dumped on me alone.
My two kids learned to “read the room” faster than they learned to read comics. Just hearing the way their grandfather tapped lightly on his glass, the curl of his lip, and they knew: someone was about to be dragged out as the topic. And usually… it was their mother.
That morning, I was still trying like I always did:
Helping my daughter reach for the fruit bowl.
Politely asking my mother how she was.
Quietly gathering the pile of wet gloves and coats into a corner so they wouldn’t be “an eyesore.”
I thought that as long as I stayed obedient, shrank myself, knew my place… everything would stay peaceful.
Until my dad leaned back in his chair, tapped the side of his glass, and raised his voice just enough for the two tables beside us to hear clearly:
“Today is a happy day, why are you even here?”
No one objected.
No one said, “Don’t go too far.”
My mother kept her head down, adjusting the cutlery. My brother cleared his throat. People kept eating as if it was just an ordinary sentence.
Only my son squeezed my hand tight and asked again:
“Mom, can we go home?”
For the first time in my life, I didn’t laugh it off, didn’t swallow my tears back down.
I just answered:
“Yeah. Right now.”
We stood up and walked away from the dining table my father still believed was his “kingdom.”
And exactly one hour later,
the whole family finally understood what they had just witnessed…
All I know is that from the moment the three of us walked out of that restaurant door hand in hand, the most humiliated person in this story… was no longer us.
If it were you, in a “family” like that,
would you sit there quietly until the meal was over… or would you stand up too? Full text is in the first comment!