06/28/2025
There are men out here paying bills, buying flowers, planning dates, checking in with intention, and genuinely making life easier... not harder. Men who understand that being a provider isn’t just financial... it’s emotional, spiritual, and mental, too. Men who communicate with purpose, who don’t wait for a woman to beg for effort, and who take pride in showing up, not just when it’s convenient, but consistently.
There are men who ask how your day was and *actually listen*... who make space for your feelings, who know your favorite drink, who hold your hand in public and your heart in private. So no... she’s not crazy for having high standards.... she just knows what’s *real* and what’s lazy pretending to be love.
Because the bare minimum? That expired. The “WYD” texts every 5 minutes with no real conversation behind them, the same recycled flirtation with zero follow-through, the lack of emotional depth, the inability to plan one thoughtful date... that’s not effort. That’s access. That’s a man doing just enough to keep her around, but not nearly enough to actually build something *with* her.
Let’s be clear...women are no longer impressed by inconsistent attention. She doesn’t want to be pursued just to end up feeling alone while in a relationship. And if you think she’s going to trade peace, affection, and emotional safety for cheap thrills and surface-level interaction… you seriously overestimated your charm and underestimated her healing. She’s not interested in situationships disguised as relationships. She’s not going to keep entertaining someone who only wants her body but not her soul, her energy, her dreams, her time.
You might think you're good enough because you're available. But being available and being *intentional* are not the same thing. And that “nice guys finish last” narrative? It only exists for women who haven’t healed yet. Because the woman who knows what she brings to the table is not going to waste her softness on someone who makes her feel like she’s asking for too much just by wanting the bare *basics.*
So no.... she’s not going to settle for a man who refuses to grow up, who avoids accountability, who can’t take initiative and sees effort as optional.
Not when there are men out here leading with love, planning real futures, and treating their woman like a queen without being told how to do it. If you think she’s going to keep entertaining energy that drains her when she could be poured into by someone who *gets it*, then yes.... you must be out of your mind.
Because one thing about a woman who knows her worth… she’s not going to argue, beg, or compete.
She’ll just remove herself, protect her peace, and leave you exactly where the “WYD” texts belong… unread and unbothered.