11/30/2025
Mom Texted "We're Skipping Your Kid's Birthday, Things Are Tight". I said "No Problem". A Week Later, At Christmas, I Saw Their Post: Rich Gifts, Balloons, All For My Sister's Kids. My Girl Whispered, "They Forgot Me Again?" I Just Quietly Did This. By 9:00 A.m, Dad Was Banging… On My Door, Screaming.
“Dad and I are skipping the kid’s birthday this year, money’s tight.”
One dry little text. I stared at it, then typed the same two words I always do: “No problem.”
Ellie spent her birthday in our tiny apartment: blanket on the living room floor, cupcakes we baked ourselves, a couple of small gifts I’d scraped together. No grandparents. No call. No emoji. That night she held the last cupcake, looked at the candle and whispered:
“Maybe next year…”
A week later, Christmas. She put on her red pajamas, hugged the drawing she’d made of her with her grandparents, and waited by the window. I finally opened my feed and there it was: giant tree, balloon arch, mountains of gifts, my sister’s kids ripping everything open. My mom in the back, grinning. Caption:
“So blessed to be with our favorite little ones.”
Ellie can’t read English, but she saw enough. She looked up at me:
“They forgot me again, didn’t they, Mom?”
That night I didn’t argue, didn’t beg, didn’t post anything. I just opened my laptop and quietly did one thing.
At 9:00 a.m. the next morning, my dad was pounding on my door, screaming down the hallway:
“What the hell did you do, Scarlet?”
The rest of it – and the way I finally hit back – is in the story below.
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