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05/31/2026

Is working in fast food embarrassing?

So I’m 19 (a college student) and I recently got a job at Dairy Queen to make some money over the summer. I have a few friends who also work but in retail or grocery stores and they’re sh****ng on me for working at DQ. Is it actually embarrassing or am I thinking too much about it?

05/31/2026

Need advice. My husbands family often will not speak in a language I understand and the all speak English fluently

My husband and I have been together almost 10 years. He has some family living here in the US and all of them speak English and their home country’s language. I want to preface this by saying that I lovvve when my husband gets to speak in his first language with family and friends. I have zero problem with it and am not bothered in most circumstances when he is speaking it in group settings even when I can’t understand, but I feel like it has gotten out of hand lately.

My current struggle is two of his family members are staying with us in our house for a couple of weeks and they all constantly speak in the other language to where i can’t understand or contribute to the conversation… i had a breaking point tonight and told my husband how it hurts me and how it sends me a message that they do not care about my ability to get to know them more or to join in on conversations. It’s starting to make my self esteem go down and make me feel unimportant? I think that’s the word I’d use to describe it.

The other night we were all going to go to dinner together and for about 15 straight minutes we were all in the living room together and nobody spoke English and I was feeling uncomfortable. I told my husband off to the side that I was tired and was going to sit this one out. He told them that I was going to stay home because I was tired and Immediately the family member looks at me and said he promises they’ll speak English at dinner… that showed me that they knew they were leaving me out and just didn’t care…

Tonight it happened again and when we were all sitting downstairs on the couch together and i came upstairs and my husband asked what was wrong. When I told him he basically said it is what it is and went back downstairs. I feel out of place in my own house…Am I over reacting? Does anybody have advice or experience with this?

05/31/2026

new friend?

Me (32F) and my boyfriend (32M) went to another couple's house for dinner. I was meeting them for the first time. My boyfriend has been friends with the guy for years. The guys went outside to grill dinner. I grabbed 2 glasses of wine and went to hang out with the girl. I found her facetiming her friend and I told her "oh sorry I'll wait in the kitchen". She says to me "we dont have to be friends just because our boyfriends are." I was kinda surprised and just said "oh" and walked away. My boyfriend told me to keep trying, so I got her number. She has never responded to any of my texts. I asked her about it in person and she just laughed. Is it wrong that I don't want to hang out with her anymore?

05/31/2026

Worried my wife is developing feelings for a friend

We've been married 6 years. Together for 11 amd i guess I just want to know if I'm going crazy, so my wife recently reconnected with an old friend she used to work with. Hes fell on hard times recently and we've been hanging out all together then last couple weeks but recently I find myself getting jealous and maybe paranoid? They used to be close but never dated/fooled around as far as I'm aware. But over the last 2 weeks or so ive started noticing things. About 10 days ago she took him to get ci******es and they were gone for like over an hour. Then gas station he goes to is like 10 minutes away at the most. Then we were supposed to watch a movie a few days ago and our daughter wanted snacks so they went to get some but they seemed like they were gone longer than necessary. Maybe an hour or so. Once again stire is kess than 10 minutes away. Did come back with a bunch of snacks though. Then today she asked if they could go ride around and listen to music together for awhile cause thats what they used to do together. They were gone for like 4 hours. And I just idk. She has never given me a reason not to trust her, and he seems like a legitimately good guy. Ive never been a jealous person, not allowing your significant other to have friends of the opposite s*x just seems so controlling and ridiculous but there's this small part of me wondering if I'm being a fool. But like if im wrong ill blow up our marriage for nothing. She talks about him a lot and is constantly texting him and seems genuinely happier which is great if they're just friends but I can't figure out if thats all it is or if its something more. What do you think? How do I even approach this subject? If im wrong amd she thinks im getting jealous she'll totally cut him off and destroy a friendship which I hate, cause im not that type of guy but like what if im not wrong?

05/31/2026

Gf always worries she’s pregnant and it’s freaking me out

So my girlfriend(18f) and I(18m) have s*x pretty frequently. She’s not on birth control yet, but I’ve wore a condom every single time. On top of that, I always pull out as soon as I cum. However, almost every month she tells me she’s freaking out about being pregnant and specifically this month about a week ago i decided to switch to a larger condom because normal size condoms fit too tight, and now she’s keeps telling me that she’s scared of being pregnant. The condom was tight enough that it stayed on the whole time, and once I started to cm I pullled out, and i even checked for a hole that time and there wasn’t any. Sometimes I worry but like I can’t tell her cuz she already freaks out all the time and it starts to worry me too. I feel like we’re being pretty careful and even if I pull out late I wear a condom everytime, but idk what to do.

05/31/2026

I was unconsensually kissed at a bar and my bf is upset

So, basically the title.

I (30sF) had a friend (30sM) who I thought understood that I had a bf and wasn't interested in him. But then he got kinda drunk and was kissing on me.

As soon as I had a way out of the situation, I left the bar and told my bf because I was super uncomfortable with what happened.

Now my bf seems upset and idk what to do. I told him immediately, and said I wouldnt hang out with this guy friend again.

How do I fix this?

05/31/2026

I saw something I wasn't supposed to see. What do I do?

So today I (19 F) was at my grandparents house and my grandpa (79 M) asked me to help him make a photo shuffle background on his iphone with a picture of each of his grandchildren on it. He was struggling to get the pictures he wanted on it so I suggested we make a photo album with his favorite pictures so then we can just select the album to shuffle though on his background.

I took his phone and go into the photo app and find his photo albums. There were only about 4 that he had on there. I happen to glance at albums and to my shock and horror one of them was named "corn" (I don't know if I can put the real spelling but i think you know what I'm talking about) and the cover photo was a picture of what I think are my older cousins when they were younger on bikes. I didn't look in it because him, my grandma, and my parents were sitting around the table with us but no one could see the phone screen but me. I quickly hit the plus sign to make a new album and show my grandpa how to select the photos he wanted and he said "I will do this later". I don't know if he said that because he knew what was on his photo app or if he just wanted to do it on his own.

I have always felt sort of uncomfortable around him since I can remember. He tends to stare and linger and make weird comments and touch people a lot. I have two very young cousins that live out of town but visit every once in a while and we have lots of younger children in my extended family too . It scares me to think what he could do or even has done with them and/or their pictures or with older relatives in the past.

I don't know what to do. Do I tell my parent what I saw? I don't want the family to fall apart but this could be a very dangerous and scary situation. While he is old, I don't think he could have done this accidentally. For the most part he is still "there" as in he knows what's going on and knows right from wrong etc... Let me know your thoughts and ideas on what to do.

05/30/2026

What to call a grandma who doesn’t want to be called grandma?

My mom (59F) is plenty old enough to be a grandma, but she doesn’t like being called grandma because she thinks that it makes her sound old. For context I’m 23F (I got pregnant when I was 21) and I don’t think that she expected me to have kids this early. She loves my son but we’re unsure of what to have him refer to her as, does anyone know any other names to call a grandma that sound less old? Would it be weird to have my son call her by her first name?

05/30/2026

Are you Pregnant? No I'm Just Fat

So my gf who is a doctor asked a female member at the hospital who happens to be very "high up" if she was pregnant. She replied, "no I am just fat." Now as funny as I found this to be and advised her to just let it be, she is worried that she just insulted someone in a position of power over her and wants to apologize again. What should she do? I suggested to just leave it be but she really wants to call or email or something. I just think no. What does everyone else think?

05/30/2026

I was 8 months pregnant when I found “those” videos on his phone. I still watch them.

These thoughts have been lingering in my mind for almost half a year now and I dont know who to tell. This rainy season makes me emotional, I guessed.

My partner is the best for me, no issue he’s all green in my eyes. But then again, it is what it is and always too good to be true. I was 8 months pregnant when it happened. My partner and I were okay, I can say “at best” - no fights, no signs of problems. We were happy.

Then one night, around dawn, I woke up and saw his phone next to him. I didn’t even know his password, but something told me to try. I guessed. There, three- attempts- and it opened.

My heart is beating so fast. Maybe it was the adrenaline, maybe because it was the first time I ever touched his phone. I started looking through his social media. Clean. Imessage? All clean. I felt relieved. I even smiled at himwhile he slept peacefully.

I was about to go back to sleep when something in me said “Open it again”.

So did I. I don’t even know how and why, but I ended up in his photo albums-saw thousands photos of me-and saw the “hidden” album.

And yeah, I opened it. And saw everything.

Videos. Spicy videos. Of him. With his past women. Why? Why he still have that? Why?

And here’s the crazy part-I didn’t slap him. I didn’t scream. I stayed calm. I watched them. All of them.

These women were from before me. So technically, he didn’t cheat. But my heart still shattered. I was carrying our child, and that emotional pain hit hard. I kept telling myself, “He didn’t betray me. It’s just the past”. I didn’t want to stressed out. I didn’t want my baby to feel that something was wrong.

I can’t go back to sleep. Who the hell crazy woman can sleep after that?

That morning, he woke up, greeted me with a “Good Morning”. I smiled and kissed him like nothing happened. We went on with our day like everything was normal.

Now …. Our baby is turning 3 month old. And guess what? I still haven’t told him. Still checking his phone while he’s asleep. And yes, those videos are still there.

And i still watch them. Over and over and over and over. I don’t even know why.

Soooooo what do you think am I? A bitch? Crazy?

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