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06/13/2026

I 32F) am pregnant by my bf (30M) of 2 months. Need some advice?

Some back story.. I’ve been with my bf for 2 months now. I have 3 children from a previous marriage and he has 1 child from a previous relationship. We have been intimate and recently took a pregnancy test and it came back positive. There have been mixed emotions and we have been going back and forth on whether we should continue with the pregnancy or proceed with an abortion. Morally i struggle with the idea of having an abortion but understand how challenging it may be to move forward with a pregnancy when we are still getting to know one another. He has been supportive and has shared ultimately it is my decision and will be there for me regardless of the decision. We don’t live with one another (30 min commute), we have had challenging co parenting relationships, and have not introduced one another to our families or friends. I’m seeking advice or perspectives to support me in making a decision I ultimately have to make soon. There are a lot of factors to consider and yes we were 2 consenting adults but now that reality has set in… unsure what to do.

06/13/2026

My friend is pregnant and there are rumors going around

I (29F) work as needed at a small organization, I used to work full time and became close with a much younger girl(20F) she is like a younger sister to me. She recently confided in me that she’s 2 months pregnant by a much older coworker (~45M), who is also in a higher position than her. They’ve been seeing each other secretly for months.
She wants to keep it, which I think isn’t the best idea, but it’s her choice. He doesn’t want her to keep it. She also told me that she told two other “friends” at work about the situation.
Yesterday, another coworker came to me with the news. I played dumb because I didn’t want them to know that I already knew. It really bothers me that someone she trusted to keep her secret would start telling people because now it’s the big news in the building. I texted her to give her a heads up that people at the job know, but she already found out because someone at work approached her about it already. And she called out of work today to avoid the drama of people talking about her. Which she will have to face eventually.

But now, because she called out, people started to spread more rumors that she called out of work to have an abortion. Should I warn her of this rumor? I don’t want to become too involved in the gossip

06/13/2026

I (20f) think my boyfriend (20m) of 2 years is cheating

Ive been suspicious for a while but thought i was just being paranoid until this morning when he was in the shower i saw notifications on his phone from someone called Alisha saying “good morning x❤️” I know you shouldnt go through someone phone but I couldnt help myself only thing is his password changed.

Hes gone out a few times where I havent gotten texts back for hours or that one time he said he was going out with the boys but then his best friend texted me asking if he’s with me or just ignoring him which was like 2 weeks ago. I found a pair of sunglasses in his car the other day which he said was his sisters but when I went to give them to her she said they werent hers.

We live together too which makes everything so much more difficult and Ive literally been crying since he left for work but who knows if hes actually there or if hes at Amelias. His name is on the lease so if I say anything I’ll have to find somewhere else to stay. I just don’t know what to Im stuck.

06/13/2026

Should I tell husband I cheated even tho I’m leaving him anyway

My husband has been cheating on me for the past 2 years with escorts. I tried to forgive him but fell into a depression and started drinking heavily and eventually I cheated on him.
I’m currently 1 month sober and it hit me of what I’ve done ( I was drunk everyday for 3 months) I felt disgusted with myself for giving myself to random men. I am currently going sober and being abstinence. He is currently in jail for putting his hands on me for a different matter

When he gets out I’m leaving him, I realize that I can’t move past what he did. And I should have just left instead of doing what I did in self destructing.

I don’t know if there’s any reason to tell him what I did tho. I dont want to be with him anymore, and I’m afraid me telling him is going to result in retaliation in co parenting, since we share two kids together

06/13/2026

How to tell my friend she can't join my family vacation?

My spouse and I purchased a timeshare last year that we use once a year. It’s not just a random vacation for us — it’s basically the one time each year we get to spend real time with my spouse’s kids, who live far away. Plus my kids join too.

My siblings also have timeshares at the same place, so different family members rotate through and we get to see them too. It’s become a family tradition for like 30 years. So last year, we decided to buy our own so that we don't have to rotate and now we get to go every year.

The problem is that my friend found out about the timeshare and now keeps trying to invite herself and her family to stay nearby at the exact same time so “we can all hang out.” She thinks it would be so fun to meet everyone and be part of it. Her kids are our kids ages.

But honestly, we do not want that. My spouse cannot stand her husband, and if I’m being honest, neither can I. My friend also overwhelms us sometimes — she’s loud, doesn’t listen well, and tends to take over the energy of a situation. She's super fun for a girl's night out, but a vacation is a whole other thing. I don’t want our only family vacation of the year to turn into her showing up and getting us annoyed.

I don’t want to be cruel, but I also don’t want to leave the door open. This summer she didn't bring it up because they have other plans but I just know she will bring it up in future years. How do I tell her no? I feel horrible but I will need to say something.

06/11/2026

What to do? Be nice or....

So I was headed out today and found a Samsung phone laying in the street. I grabbed it to try and figure out who's phone it might be.

So I got on the bus headed to where I was going.

A couple of minutes go by and the phone starts to ring so I answered it.

I told the person on the other end that this wasn't my phone and that I found it in the street.

As I was talking I could hear the owner in the background.

I told them that I would be back home in a couple of hours and we could meetup. The owner started yelling about they wanted their MF phone and that I needed to get the phone to them.

I asked why is the guy was yelling at me about his phone, and that I was doing them a favor by picking it up. I said I could just as easily throw it out the window.

I'm thinking about putting it in a nice safe place when I get to where I'm going, I like treasure hunts I wonder if that person does also.

06/11/2026

How can he be a good husband but a big cheater at the same time ?

I found out my husband has been cheating since before we got married, throughout our marriage, during my pregnancy, and even at the hospital while I was in labor. He was on dating apps, kink sites and apps talking s*xually to multiple women, and going on dates. I found out when I was only 7 days postpartum. He admitted everything, begged for another chance, promised to change and explained how he’s an addict , and I stayed mostly because we have a baby together.

Yesterday I found out he started again only a 2 or 3 months later, the messages are nonstop s*x, s*x, s*x with other women every day.

And what messes with my head is that he’s also a loving husband and a great father, he treats me well takes care of me , doing everything a good husband can do and our family looks happy from the outside. I can’t understand how someone can be both.

I’m currently 4 months postpartum, a SAHM, financially dependent and no family or friends nearby. I’m terrified of losing my baby, terrified of leaving, and terrified of staying. I feel completely broken and mostly confused and don’t know what to do. Please don’t judge me for choosing to stay when he did that first time. And if you ask how I didn’t know all that time until I gave birth, it’s because I never checked his phone never ever, until that night when I was up breastfeeding my baby, something in me told me to check the phone while he was sleeping next to me ( and honestly regret checking it at that time, especially at that time of my life), and yeah I found what I was looking for unfortunately.

Give me some advice please😞

06/11/2026

my dad had a kid with a woman that's not my mom, my mom knows and doesn't care and my older siblings say I'm crashing out for nothing.

My (22m) dad (57m) just had another kid with his former assistant (27f) who is now his mistress. My mom (56f) knows, and she has known since around Christmas last year but had everyone keep me in the dark because she thinks I'm "fragile" and it was my last year of college so I had to lock in and she didn't want this news disturbing me.

My mom and two older siblings (30f and 31m) have known since Christmas because that's when she gave birth. My dad has his mistress living like a kept woman in a penthouse with a nanny, chef and maid to care for her and the baby.

My mom says she doesn't care and even sent the mistress some baby gifts. My siblings and my dad have gone to see the baby even. They only told me like yesterday about everything because now I'm graduated and everything is chill. wtf!!! my mom says she's spoken to a divorce attorney and is filing but she's not cut up or sad. Like she was literally just drinking her coffee. Even though my parents have been married for 32 years.

My siblings literally are so chill about this and don't care. and they think I'm being ridiculous for thinking our parents marriage was going to survive because I was the baby they had to save their marriage. My siblings essentially told me that they got to see when my parents were in love and fell out of love. I didn't so why tf am I so pressed because even after I was born, they were both just miserable with each other. which is true, I don't think I can remember seeing my parents kiss or hug or anything romantic.

my dad just told me that if I'm blowing up at everyone because I'm worried about what I will inherit when he passes then I need to chill out because the new kid won't affect that. But it's not about the stupid money. It's about how I go to college, I come back and my family is literally dissolving.

I feel like a big baby for being upset but this is weird. and his assistant (now baby mama) was like cool to hang out with and talk to when i went to my dad's office but whole time she's busy with my dad. should i cancel my grad trip to japan and start therapy? or just move on and mind my business?

06/11/2026

My 19‑year‑old Muslim daughter just came out to me as Bi. What do I do?
I'm (f47) feeling pretty bewildered. Not because she is Bi, but because I didn't see it coming. I remember when she was at school we talked about LGBTQ+ and I told her if she was gay it wouldn't matter to me. She resolutely told me she was straight.

A couple of years ago, we had a similar conversation, no, I'm definitely straight was the answer. She then finally realised how beautiful she is and thereafter the heartbreak of boys started. No boy made it pass the second date... hindsight hey?

A few weeks ago, she started talking about her friend but in a way which was a lot deeper than I expected, how she missed her. She's had intense best friendships before so I really just thought it was that.

Sunday, she says to me she's sooo happy. And she has that look, so I say oh I see, who is making you this happy! We're laughing and giggling, she doesn't really want to tell me then she says I'm Gay. I'm like no you're not and yes, there was abit of panto back and forth.

But yes, she is gay or Bi.

Turns out her friend became her girlfriend the evening before. She then told me about another crush she had on another girl. She says she's never felt like this before and feels how she does about GF as I do about my partner.

I think this maybe is her first love. And I'm happy for her in the sense the GF is lovely and looks after my daughter. I don't think I was ever going to be happy about anyone regardless of gender having any kind of romantic/s*xual feelings towards my baby! And I know, she's not a baby anymore.

I've reassured I love her and it doesn't change anything that I feel but there is a little bit of me who thinks how did I not see this?! Why is this a suprise?

Please no hate or judgement. I'm western bred and born and have brought up my daughter on my own in a liberal way. If someone is going to do something they're going to do it anyway is my belief from being in a severely repressed household myself when I was growing up.

So pretty much she has had full freedom to be her in anyway she wishes. This extends to clothing, clubbing, drinking, w**d. I have a hard line against drugs other than cannabis.

Her Dad and his wife are highly homophobic and so are some/most of her family both sides. The younger ones are alright, some of them.

What can I do?! What should I be doing? Posting here because I'm seeking a wide spectrum of views please and hopefully this might resonate with someone who came out to their parents and can tell me what would be supportive and helpful please

06/11/2026

How to get through the next few months and get over being cheated on?

My husband ended our marriage 3 weeks ago whilst we were on holiday, I’d asked him several times about a close female friendship he had with one of his friends wives and he constantly gaslit me into believing I was crazy. I stayed in our shared house & he moved out when we got home from the holiday into a friends house and has been seen several times with this woman since on dates etc.

I had a pre booked holiday this week with friends and decided I needed to go as I haven’t been able to relax. He found out I was going and said he was moving back into the house for the week with the dog and I sought legal advice which said I couldn’t refuse. He turned up Monday morning and was vile, bad tempered and argumentative, demanding we sell the house and divorce immediately, I calmly told him if that’s what he wanted then to begin the divorce proceedings.

He pretty much ruined the trip before it even started, I was looking forward to switching off from everything but he pushed me into such a state of anxiety before I’d even left. I also asked him to respect the fact it’s our shared house and not to have this other woman round and he agreed, but I haven’t slept at all panicking, wondering if she’s been round in my safe space, around my possessions and my dog.

I can’t afford to move out currently, all my money is tied up in the house which can’t be sold until we come to an agreement around finances. My dream at the moment is to get my money, leave with my dog and build a safe beautiful space of my own, where I can go no contact with him and heal properly.

Just feels so unfair, he’s having his cake and eating it and I’m an absolute anxious crying mess.

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