09/06/2026
Since when did 20% become the “customary” starting point for tipping? 🤔💵
This gratuity guide caught my attention when the check arrived: 18% suggested, 20% customary, 22% suggested.
Yes, the card clearly says gratuity is voluntary and customers can choose a lower, higher, or custom amount. I appreciate that.
But calling 20% the restaurant’s “customary gratuity” still feels like a subtle way of telling customers what they’re *supposed* to leave.
I’ve always thought the tip should reflect the actual service—not whether a restaurant considers a certain percentage customary. Great service? Absolutely reward it. Average or disappointing service? The customer should be able to adjust accordingly without feeling like they’re breaking some unwritten rule.
Restaurant workers may see this completely differently, especially with how much servers depend on tips.
**So where do you stand: Is 20% a reasonable customary tip for table service today, or are restaurants pushing tipping expectations too high?