07/07/2024
Menstrual blood, in terror and glory.
The period that lasted, and lasted, as the weeks rolled on.
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Menstrual blood, in terror and glory.
The period that lasted, and lasted, as the weeks rolled on.
"In camp, we joked that the infirmary doctor was Mengele, the dining hall food our rations. Every authority figure with a stick up his ass was a N**i, every unpleasant setting a labor camp, every tiring activity a death march, every shower a gas chamber."
Competitive Consequential Taboo
In one summer, can you create the tefillin revolution of your dreams? Originally published in 2020, Elana Rebitzer takes us to camp.
That summer, and every summer since, I’ve been one of the only women to wear tefillin at prayer services every morning.
Shabbat shalom—wish we could be enveloped in a tart pomegranate.
Illustration by Jessica Tamar Deutsch from Lilith's Spring 2021 issue.
We love any story that’s nutshell is “it’s complicated!”
…and her previously overlooked N**i connections—in 2024
The Lilith Magazine team is always seeking out ways to nourish—and delight—our hearts and heads. Here are three things we're loving this week! This week's picks are from Justine Orlovsky Schnitzler, Lilith's social media coordinator.
Reading:
I always have a few books in rotation at one time. Right now I’m toggling between “Savage Anxieties” by Robert A. Williams—a really fascinating treatise on the construction of the “savage” in Western civilization—and “Romancing Mister Bridgerton.” I’m not typically a romance reader, but Julia Quinn is beloved by Lilith staff for good reason.
Listening:
I saw Vampire Weekend play the Hollywood Bowl a few weeks ago, and I’ve fallen even deeper into their newest release, “Only God Was Above Us.” OGWAU is not their most Jewish record (that remains “Modern Vampires of the City”), but I got a real thrill out of screaming “beneath these velvet gloves I hide the shameful crooked hands of moneylender” alongside thousands of other fans at the Bowl.
Watching:
Every summer I get a burning desire to rewatch Mad Men, which is precisely what I’m doing right now. I believe it is the greatest show ever made, and I cherish every moment Rachel Menken is on screen.
“I would be a traitor to these poor burned bodies… if I came here to talk good fellowship… The life of men and women is so cheap and property is so sacred…. I know from my own experience it is up to the working people to save themselves.”
Finding role models—-from the turn of the century to last week—-in Jewish women who have tried to change the world.
This Independence Day, we're looking at freedom through alternative lenses--and meditating on those who have put their lives on the line to bend the arc toward justice.
Women in the civil rights movement integrated bus terminals, taught in Freedom Schools, registered black voters and served time in Southern jails. Now they talk frankly about the danger, their moth…
Aspiring to these summer vibes.
This beautiful art by Hannah Lupton Reinhard was featured on the cover of Lilith's Summer 2023 issue. Read about this season of heat & heartache: https://buff.ly/3ztKHKu
"For 259 days, these hostages have felt so horribly far away. Their distance at the root of our despair. And here I was, standing next to one of them! She was home! Alive! With her mother!"
Ariele Mortkowitz on her transformative meeting with Amit Soussana at the White House.
For 259 days, these hostages have felt so horribly far away. Their distance at the root of our despair. And here I was, standing next to one of them! She was home! Alive! With her mother!
"But well before October 7, when empathy was exposed as a luxury, Rabinyan’s novel already marked the limits of empathy, particularly literary empathy. The novel’s Hebrew title, Gader Haya, Border Life, is telling. No end of listening to each other, no amount of affection, love, belief in one another can overcome the border between Liat and Himli (symbolized late in the novel in the construction of the concrete barrier between the West Bank and Israel). No one can fully see the world through the eyes of another."
Whether seen through an Israeli or a Palestinian lens, can Palestinians in fiction be more than symbols?
What is your solace?
In Lilith's spring issue, Yona Zeldis McDonough shares the story of family distress and finding refuge in the familiar ritual of thrifting.
Why, in a time of acute distress, the discount racks of the Salvation Army offer comfort and control.
For decades, Fran Goldin carried her sign, “I adore my le***an daughters: Keep them safe,” written in gracious script, enhanced with glitter, to New York’s Gay Pride Parade. After she died, her friends found her beloved sign in her apartment. Learn what a literary left-wing legend left behind: https://buff.ly/3W9oFpn
Gorgeous portrait of Joy Ladin for our Winter 2009-2010 issue by Joan Roth.
Ladin writes in "Standing Again at Sinai, Again: Jewish Feminism and Transgender Jews": "When we realize that neither God nor humanity fits within the terms of gender, we recognize that being male or female is not essential to being human, an insight that helps us see that transgender people too are created in the image of God."
A must-read this Pride weekend: https://buff.ly/3KZbi4r
These q***r elders paved the way. Now we're looking out for them. In 2023, Carmel Tanaka, founder and executive director of JQT Vancouver, wrote for Lilith about "The BC Jewish Q***r & Trans Seniors Resource Guide," created to help Vancouver’s older adults navigate a challenging landscape of care. Learn more about this amazing resource here: https://buff.ly/3Rpvikt
🌈 Shabbat shalom & Happy Pride weekend🌈 . Art from the cover of Summer 2021 by Art Lush.
Found in the Lilith office: Jewish Women and Their Salons. This 2005 book from The Jewish Museum is all about the long history of Jewish women’s salons where “women of intellect resolved that neither gender nor religion would impede their ability to bring about social change.” You too could channel your inner Gertrude Stein by hosting or joining a Lilith salon! (Check out the link in our bio for how to get involved.)
Image 1: The cover of the book with the title Jewish Women and Their Salons: The Power of Conversations
Image 2: A photo of Gertrude Stein and Alice B. Toklas taken by Man Ray (1923)
Image 3: “The Cathedrals of Art” (1942-44) by Florine Stettheimer
Summer camp season is upon us. Time to play Holocaust games?
From Winter 2017-2018, Rebecca Brill on playing out our trauma at camp.
Competitive Consequential Taboo
Have you checked out our book reviews + recommendations from our spring 2024 issue yet? Find them HERE: https://buff.ly/3IJrhCs
"My grandmother is a limestone temple;
she is a titanium rod, she is an iron lung.
She is not just flesh and blood that will wilt and blacken
over fire, she is the flames;
Tall and hot, dancing in every color,
and impossible to contain. She is the lightning strike
and the brimstone, she is the forget-me-nots
scattered across the prairie. She wrestles with God
and his entire misguided army. She is mistaken for smoke
rising over the treetops when she is really the clouds
that have been there since sunrise.
She is not a star hung on a silver chain
or pinned to a lapel, she is the full moon.
God looked back at Adam and hung his head
after he watched her spin her own self out of heaps
of ashes on the floor; For she is not unclean or untouchable,
she is the lamb for the sake of creation,
she is an emblem of the resilience of her people.
She is not a pilgrim, she is not tied to a holy land
or cursed to wander, she is the soil.
She beckoned Israel to her bones,
and though she lies in Israel today,
she is, she is, she is."
-Kendra Karen
https://buff.ly/4bib1o2
Women's Rabbinic Network's Executive Director Rabbi Mary Zamore today called on the American Jewish University and it’s Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies to “publicly release, in its entirety and without emendation, the external report concerning complaints by former students of sexual harassment and discrimination.” As Rabbi Zamore rightly says, "There can be no meaningful healing without accountability, and there can be no true accountability without transparency."
This prayer—addressed in the feminine—came to Deborah Eisenbach-Budner while she was on the abortion table.
Published in Lilith's Fall 2013 issue, she writes, "The first time I went to the abortion clinic, I couldn’t go through with it and left with my pregnancy still intact. During the six days that followed, I came to terms with the awesome charter of my choice. Okay, this is inescapable, I told myself. I can’t pretend I’m not doing it. “Pro-choice,” “pro-life” — I was taking responsibility for my power." https://buff.ly/3OEY13x
What are the anti-Semitic roots of the current anti-abortion rhetoric? We may have more to lose than our right to choose. Read this classic Lilith from Summer 1990:
What are the anti-Semitic roots of the current anti-abortion rhetoric? We may have more to lose than our right to choose.
Read Days of Wonder by Caroline Leavitt (Algonquin Books), a gripping story of motherhood and love that blossoms in the least expected places. https://buff.ly/3VC4I9c
Today is the second anniversary of the Dobbs v. Jackson decision, which overturned Roe v. Wade across the United States.
Here at Lilith, we’re mourning, remembering--and, as always, organizing. We are proud to have been on the forefront of abortion reporting and writing over the last forty-nine (!) years through a Jewish, feminist lens. Our reporting + storytelling has expanded in inclusiveness as social/political contexts around abortion have evolved--and we’re proud to have been on the pioneering edge of this front, too. We invite you to peruse our abortion archives, linked on our website through our bio. You’ll find galvanizing stories of resistance, rabbinic approaches to halacha and abortion, interviews with those working on the front lines of abortion access today, and essays about abortion care and experiences that transformed the lives of our writers and readers.
If you want a book that will make you laugh out loud—and reconnect with your loved ones— "Worry" by Alexandra Tanner (Scribner Books) is for you. As Kate Schmeir writes in her review for Lilith, "This search for genuine human connection—however impossible it may be in our modern, screen-obsessed world—is at the heart of Worry." https://buff.ly/3VC4I9c
Despite boys’ clubs, gaslighting and discrimination, Babs persisted. Read Lilith's review of our beloved Barbra Streisand’s memoir, "My Name is Barbra" (Viking Books), where she discusses her fame, herself, and how she did it all. https://buff.ly/4cupu1f
For your weekend: sharing the incomparable words and art of , from her debut "As a Burning Flame: The Dream of Regina Jonas." Mishkin's novel explores the life and impact of the first female ordained rabbi in Ashkenazi Jewish history--interwoven with Mishkin's own spiritual path. We can't recommend this book enough. ❤️
🥝 🍓 Shabbat shalom 🍓🥝
Published in Lilith's Summer 2017 Issue, "Look Not Upon Me" by Tamar Messer is inspired by Song of Songs.
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Brand new tote bags arrived today! With gorgeous Lilith illustration by @lianafinck. Get them at lilith.org.
How do we use creativity in the service of caregiving—and caregiving in the service of creativity? These essential roles as a caregiver and creator can feed one another—or exist in continuous conflict for time, energy, and resources. Four Jewish feminist artists and writers, Elliot Kukla, Sarah Lightman, Alicia Ostriker, & Marcella White Campbell, discuss how they navigate their responsibilities to themselves, their loved ones, and their art. These roles as a caregiver and creator can feed one another—or exist in continuous conflict for time, energy, and resources. Co-sponsored by the Jewish Studio Project.
Earlier this month, Lilith's editor in chief Susan Weidman Schneider and NYT bestselling author Anita Diamant joined MAVEN (spirited by American Jewish University - AJU) for a conversation about Lilith's new fiction anthology, FRANKLY FEMINIST. In this clip, Diamant, who wrote the book's foreward, describes the featured stories as a "beautiful bouquet of [women's voices] that have now been made audible."
To celebrate #ReproShabbat this weekend (Feb. 17 & 18) with National Council of Jewish Women (NCJW) & Lilith, make your own uterus challah to fuel the sacred work of creating reproductive justice. Watch Logan Zinman Gerber take you through each and every step. Once you take your beautiful challah out of the oven, snap a photo, share and tag it with #ReproShabbat @ncjw @lilithmagazine so we can reshare your gorgeous creation!
"There has already been progress on transportation, infrastructure, and climate. But when it comes to initiatives to support working families, we’re still lagging. It’s devastating." Sarah Brafman, national policy director of @a_better_balance(ABB), and EJ Bader spoke in late 2022—just before the groundbreaking Pump Act and Pregnant Women’s Fairness act were passed and signed—about ABB’s work to promote a saner work-life balance and win better workplace protections. Link in bio.
"There has already been progress on transportation, infrastructure, and climate. But when it comes to initiatives to support working families, we’re still lagging. It’s devastating." Sarah Brafman, national policy director of @a_better_balance(ABB), and EJ Bader spoke in late 2022—just before the groundbreaking Pump Act and Pregnant Women’s Fairness act were passed and signed—about ABB’s work to promote a saner work-life balance and win better workplace protections. Link in bio.
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