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10/14/2025

.feelings does !!!! The final day of New York comic con was packed. .chan talked about our favorite topic - fandom - at ’s “The Fandom Effect” panel, then interviewed some of our favorite creators, including , creator of (who you might recognize from the pages of Issue 01: The Medievalist).

More soon! 👀

Writer  has experienced a turning of the fan tides. Where once there was a Swiftie, a Taylor stan, there is… not quite t...
10/10/2025

Writer has experienced a turning of the fan tides. Where once there was a Swiftie, a Taylor stan, there is… not quite that.

In today’s she asks: when is it time to un-stan? From Taylor’s most recent album to Eminem to Nicki Minaj’s Barbz, Catherine charts the origins of standom and discusses the validity of un-stanning the artist you once loved when the work — and the person — no longer meet your values or standards.

Link in bio for her full treatise.

10/09/2025

excuse me while I add a skibidi toilet to my trinket collection

did Hyperspecific. More at the 🔗

“In a society telling you that you simply cannot, and should not, feel q***r affection, many of us moved our unyielding ...
10/07/2025

“In a society telling you that you simply cannot, and should not, feel q***r affection, many of us moved our unyielding fascination, our clinginess or preoccupation, with a crush that simply couldn’t be into the only other emotion we’re taught can justify that obsession: hate.”

In this week’s writer explores the blurry lines between love and hate and the long history of q***r-coding archenemies.

Read it in full at the 🔗

***rcoded

10/03/2025

please show us the knee brace

did Hyperspecific! More at the link in bio⭐️🫰

 famously learned how to mosh from the Louis Tomlinson fandom. This gem of a story and so much more in her Hyperspecific...
10/02/2025

famously learned how to mosh from the Louis Tomlinson fandom. This gem of a story and so much more in her Hyperspecific questionnaire! Read the full interview at the 🔗

@ Aquarians, do you agree?!?!
09/26/2025

@ Aquarians, do you agree?!?!

What medieval weapon are you? I’m the double daggers wrote our astrology guide in The Medievalist and it’s the perfect w...
09/26/2025

What medieval weapon are you? I’m the double daggers

wrote our astrology guide in The Medievalist and it’s the perfect way to end our monthlong Medievalist digital takeover.

Stay tuned for pt 2 coming very soon or check out the newsletter (link in bio) for the full list⭐️

PS. There are a few copies left of The Medievalist. Link in bio to buy your physical copy!

UMI has great taste in music, let me tell you. What started as a pastime posting covers to YouTube had blossomed into a ...
09/25/2025

UMI has great taste in music, let me tell you. What started as a pastime posting covers to YouTube had blossomed into a musical career in which the singer-songwriter has brought their R&B-meets-alt-pop sound to dozens of tracks, opened for Jhené Aiko and Conan Gray, collaborated with BTS’ V, and is now back with a new album: ‘people stories’. Their new oeuvre is a collection of songs inspired by the stories of others, ranging from love to heartbreak to taking a break and touching grass.

visited us at the mixed feelings studio to do our Hyperspecific interview. Read it in full at the 🔗

“The first time I wore a full suit, people were stunned,” says Saman Bakayoko. “A Black woman in full armor, walking the...
09/24/2025

“The first time I wore a full suit, people were stunned,” says Saman Bakayoko. “A Black woman in full armor, walking the streets like it’s normal…people gasped, took photos, tried to figure me out. They’d shout ‘Armor Girl’ at me and it does feel good!”

became known for her viral TikTok videos styling suits of armor to attend class at New York’s Fashion Institute of Technology. She joined our panel of judges at our launch of The Medievalist (get your copy now!). This is her story ⭐️⚔️

(Photos courtesy of and )

King Princess collects swords, hates Labubus, and may have that random player on the mic last time you played Call of Du...
09/18/2025

King Princess collects swords, hates Labubus, and may have that random player on the mic last time you played Call of Duty.

In honor of their new album ‘Girl Violence,’ which dropped last week, they popped by the .feelings studio to do Hyperspecific with .

Read their full interview at the 🔗✌️

“One Friday night in August, I stood in a crowd of women and femmes at El Coliseo in San Juan, Puerto Rico,” writes . “W...
09/18/2025

“One Friday night in August, I stood in a crowd of women and femmes at El Coliseo in San Juan, Puerto Rico,” writes . “We arrived in pursuit of Bad Bunny’s historic “No Me Quiero Ir de Aquí” residency, donning crochet dresses and sets inspired by his latest album, DeBÍ TiRAR MáS FOToS. With hours before the show kicked off, we weren’t in our seats. Nor were we waiting in line for merch, or even for a Benito-themed cocktail. This group of concertgoers, singing and dancing to reggaetón classics that blared across El Choli, was having the time of our lives in the bathroom.”

In today’s Tess takes a deep dive into the history of, and connective power of the women’s public restroom. From its status as a main character in songs (Taylor Swift, Pharrell, and more) to its significance as a communal space at Bad Bunny’s residency, where most of the bathrooms at El Choli were decked out to make bathroom camaraderie easy. Read Tess’ full story at the 🔗

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