08/10/2026
๐๐ก๐จ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ก๐โฆ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ฒ?๐ฆ
Hi, Iโm Brendalizโฆ I love Jesus, love coffee โ๏ธ, and Iโm a creative girl at heart. I have a 9โ5, but when Iโm not working, Iโm usually creating something, enjoying the little things, or spending time with the people I love.
But if youโre new here, you may be wonderingโฆ why Be Butterfly?
For a while, I thought self-doubt was the problem. I thought I just needed to be more confident. But through my own journey, I discovered that it went a little deeper than that.
๐๐๐ฅ๐-๐๐จ๐ฎ๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐จ๐ฆ.
The deeper work was learning my worth and becoming rooted in who I am in Christ.
Because when a woman truly knows who she is and who she belongs to. She begins to see herself differently.
๐๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ณ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ฌ๐งโ๐ญ ๐ง๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐ซ๐ง ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก. Sheโs already His daughterโฆloved, chosen and worthy.
And as I became more secure in that truth, something started changing. I started trusting myself again. I stopped shrinking. I started making decisions from a place of strength and not anxiety nor fear. ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐๐๐ง๐๐? ๐๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ญ๐๐ ๐ ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐.
Thatโs when I realized that maybe confidence was never supposed to be the starting pointโฆ. ๐๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ.
And thatโs ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฆ
๐ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ซ๐จ๐จ๐ญ๐๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐, ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ข๐ซ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก, ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐๐จ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฆ.
So if youโve been here for years, thank you for growing with me. And if you just got hereโฆ
๐๐ข, ๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐น๐๐๐ฅ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ฒ!