09/06/2026
AITA for letting my daughter do things that I know will cause her to be in pain?
I (m40) am a dad to a daughter (10). She has a
Health condition that causes her to have pretty severe joint pain. It has always been such a struggle for her to do simple “normal” things most 10 year olds can do with no problems.
Well, earlier last week my daughter informed me about how her best friend’s brother was having a birthday party and she was invited to go as long as it was okay with me. Come to find out the place had all these inflatable slides and climbing and obstacle courses so it would be a lot of physical activity. Because of that and knowing about my daughter's chronic pain I wasn't sure If I wanted my daughter to go. My daughter ended up begging to go because she wanted to do something normal and fun with her best friend. So I caved and let her.
The party was on Saturday and she had so much fun but was extremely tired when I came to pick her up, on Sunday she slept most of the day and when she was up was in pain. Today she was in too much pain to go to...