09/02/2026
Have you ever read something and not remembered a single word? Highlighted a text and still didn’t remember it?
How about sat through an eighty minute lecture and couldn’t tell someone what it was about?Have you ever had a friend (or are you this person) who talks nonstop and doesn’t let you get a word in edgewise?
How do you feel in these situations? You get irritated. You tune out. You can’t wait for it to be over.
I tell my college students that this is the same reason they tune out when they are reading and can’t remember what they have just read.
When information only comes at you in one direction, you’re passively consuming it, not engaging, so you don’t remember. But if you’re actually part of a conversation, or a class discussion, you’re more engaged, because you’re participating too.
The key to reading something once and remembering it is to treat it like a conversation. Imagine the author is talking to you, and your job is to interject, to comment back.
If you’re reading in print, write in the margins, or use sticky notes if you don’t want to mark up the book. If you’re reading digitally, most PDF readers let you highlight and comment. Some Kindle versions let you leave comments too.
You’re not annotating like an AP Literature class, tracking theme or character development. You’re writing down your side of the conversation.
Yes, this takes a little longer. But you’ll remember more of what you read, and it’ll be more engaging. If you’re going to spend the time reading something, you might as well remember it.
So next thing you read, imagine the author is talking to you, and make it a conversation, not a lecture.