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02/14/2025

“Not Like Us?”

We know it’s been a while since you’ve heard from us. Since our last post we’ve released our second book, “African Americans of Central New Jersey: A History of Harmony and Hostility,” worked with school districts and collaborated on projects with the New Jersey Institute for Social Justice and the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation. Every day, as co-founders of the Stoutsburg Sourland African American Museum, we maintain our commitment to tell the story of the unique culture, experiences and contributions of the African American community.

Yes, a lot has happened. Today we want to weigh in on the 2025 Super Bowl half time performance by Kendrick Lamar through the lens of two senior Black women who initially didn’t have a clue of what was happening. And just because we’re Black, we assure you that we do not share some cryptic ability to decipher “Black talk” even when delivered in the form of rap. But what was not lost on us was that something major was happening and that we were witnessing something akin to coded language used years ago in spirituals, storytelling and hair braiding.

What we witnessed was Black people once again tapping into their ingenuity, talent and inventiveness to deliver a message like our ancestors did generations ago. So instead of rejecting the performance of this Pulitzer prize winning artist, let’s start with the significance of Samuel L. Jackson’s portrayal of Uncle Sam. For those familiar with the movie “Django Unchained” Jackson played the role of a house slave who was expressly loyal to his master and shared the belief that Black people were inherently inferior. “Uncle Sam” warned Lamar not to be “too loud, too reckless, too ghetto” and asked “Mr. Lamar, do you really know how to play the game white America expects?”

Now, if you’re confused about “Uncle Sam’s” instruction, let’s talk about what happened next. Kendrick Lamar proceeded to rap about subject matter so inflammatory and sensitive that the current Administration is desperately trying to erase it. No, he did not play the game. “Uncle Sam” told Lamar and his dancers to "stay in their place and not to make white America uncomfortable." Now, what he was describing was code switching which is nothing new to Black people because we have been playing that game since the beginning of time. Our survival depended, and still, depends upon code switching as it requires us to behave accordingly to appear non-threatening. This has been a necessary component of Black life for centuries because the dominant society has not, and will not, accept otherwise. So, instead of acquiescing Lamar unapologetically refused to play the game and presented a non-DEI dance troop dressed in red, white and blue who shaped themselves into the American flag. Lamar’s message crossed all kinds of lines as he dished it out before the largest audience in Super Bowl history. But has all this code-switching has worked for us?

Code switching has been a mechanism for survival and a necessary element of Black life for centuries. African Americans have used their skills to deliver Academy Award performances and still never attain the level of success as whites. Still doubting? Let’s look at Trump’s newly formed cabinet and question if a Black person with the same lack of credibility, unfit character, dubious morals or glaring inexperience like Musk, Hegseth, Gabbard, Kennedy or McMahon (just to name a few) be confirmed overwhelmingly to head major departments in America? Imagine the shock, hysteria and fury if this occurred during the Obama Administration—a man who outraged white America by wearing a tan suit. Just imagine.

Which bring us to Lamar ending with “Not Like Us,” a song created to “diss” his archrival, Drake. But what else can we learn from this we ask you to consider. Re-watch and pay attention because the revolution was televised!

Peace and blessings,
Elaine & Beverly

07/29/2024

Greetings all!
It's been quite a while since we have posted on FB as we have been very busy! In 2022 we were featured in a documentary entitled, "The Price of Silence, the Forgotten Story of New Jersey's Enslaved People (go to Truehart Productions to view) and in 2023 we finished our second book, "African Americans of Central New Jersey: A History of Harmony and Hostility," which launched in September, 2023. Also in 2023 we were humbled to be invited to spearhead the History of Slavery Committee (one of eight committees) on behalf of the NJ Institute for Social Justice. The end result will be a report to be submitted in 2025 requesting NJ legislatures to consider enacting legislation to create a Reparations Task Force. If this succeeds, NJ will be second in the nation to do so after California. Also in 2023 we were asked by the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation to participate on a task force which has been formed to study the effects of structural racism on people of color in New Jersey. Since 2016, we have been co-founders of the Stoutsburg Sourland African American Museum in Skillman and serve on its Advisory Board. For the past eight years the museum has grown and flourished and we couldn't be happier!

So the purpose of this post is to send our thanks and love to all who have supported us throughout the years. We've missed you and will make sure we will check in more frequently. Meanwhile, we wanted to repost a Friday Memory that we posted back in 2019 (we can't believe it's been that long) when Kamala Harris first came on the national scene. She fascinated us then and continues to fascinate us now. We cannot help but think about the countless numbers of African American women throughout our history who have sought change in this country. For many of these women they will forever remain anonymous while others may become well known. So, we decided to repost this Friday memory not only to pay homage to one of our personal heroines (Fannie Lou Hamer) but to also declare our support for Kamala Harris.

We're proud, we're enthused, we're inspired and, most importantly, we're up for the fight!

Harris and Hamer – Women Who Would Not Be Silenced
A Friday Memory by Elaine Buck and Beverly Mills

On Martin Luther King Day Kamala Harris set a CNN viewing record. Poised and impeccably dressed, Senator Harris stood before a crowd of 20,000 supporters at an Oakland rally and declared “We are better than this” as she announced her candidacy for President of the United States. Kamala, a woman of color as she has self-identified, stood before seven large American flags and openly challenged the country’s current political climate vowing to be a president such as Lincoln, “Of the people, by the people, and for all people.”
Now travel back fifty-seven years to 1962 when Fannie Lou Hamer, a forty-five year old uneducated sharecropper from Mississippi, volunteered to go to the courthouse to register to vote. Prior to her involvement with the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee (SNCC), Hamer said she had no idea that Black people could register to vote as first class citizens. She went on to say, “But what was the point of being scared, the only thing the whites could do was kill me and it seemed like they’d been trying to do that a little bit at a time since I could remember.” Fannie Lou along with sixteen others set out to register to vote. She was given a literacy test, which she failed, but told the clerk she would be back. On her way home Fannie was stopped and harassed by the police. What she didn’t know is that she had already been evicted from her home where she sharecropped. And later sixteen bullets were shot through the windows of the home where she was staying after her eviction.
Fifty seven years ago Fannie Lou Hamer challenged an American president by speaking her truth to power. In l964 President Lyndon Johnson was threatened by Fannie Lou in her role as a member of the Mississippi Freedom Democratic Party because he knew she had a story to tell. When Fannie Lou strode onto the stage at the Democratic National Convention in her cotton print dress and white purse she specifically came to challenge the all White delegation from Mississippi which was stocked with ardent segregationists. The Mississippi Freedom Democratic Party came to the convention to demand that they be heard instead of the all white delegation and Fannie Lou was not going to leave until they were recognized. President Johnson, however, knew he had to silence this illiterate woman because he needed the southern democratic vote to win re-election. But Fannie was relentless and elbowed her way through a hostile crowd to the microphone. Fighting back tears as she recounted, without notes, the beatings she and others received in a Mississippi jail all because they dared to sit at lunch counter to be served. The severity of the numerous beatings Fannie Lou received inflicted permanent injury which caused her to walk with a limp and to develop a blood clot behind her eye which plagued her until the day she died. In desperation, President Johnson called an impromptu press conference which he knew would preempt Fannie Lou’s testimony since TV stations would break away from their coverage of the Democratic Convention. He went on air to tell America that it was the nine month anniversary of the assassination of President Kennedy. But Johnson’s maneuver backfired and Fannie Lou’s testimony was later played not once but several times on the evening news and beyond.
In 2019 Kamala Harris has entered the stage in a navy blue power suit and stood before a cheering crowd in Oakland, California as she announced her candidacy. Her announcement was on Martin Luther King holiday – the significance not only to pay homage to King but also because it was forty-seven years ago when Shirley Chisolm launched her presidential campaign as the first African American female to do so.
Today we already have a diverse slate of Democratic hopefuls and we’ll just have to wait and see how things will turn out for Kamala Harris. But what we do know for sure is that Kamala is not shy about speaking out and neither was Fannie Lou. We will also have to wait and see how the President Trump will fare should he be required to come before her as a member of the Select Committee on Intelligence. I’m sure she will not be silenced.

02/25/2022

Hello all: We’re happy to announce our second podcast (a continuation of our discussion about historic African American cemeteries) can be accessed at: https://veil.new pod city.com

In this episode we introduce Dolly Marshall who tells her story about her experience and what led her to a neglected African American burial ground in South Jersey!

02/10/2022
On this show, James Peoples sits down with Elaine Buck and Beverly Mills, the two authors of "If These Stones Could Talk...
12/10/2021

On this show, James Peoples sits down with Elaine Buck and Beverly Mills, the two authors of "If These Stones Could Talk: African American Presence in the Hopewell Valley, Sourland Mountain and Surrounding Regions of New Jersey" for an hour long conversation about history and researching the past and what comes in the future.

Look for an upcoming podcast beginning in January from Beverly and Elaine entitled, “Lifting the Veil.” Stay tuned for further information for this exciting new venture by Beverly and Elaine!

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