Zoe Stoller

Zoe Stoller (they/she/he) creates educational content about LGBTQ+ and mental health topics.

02/04/2026

Somehow I’m turning 30 today!! 🌈

It feels strange to be entering my third decade of life (!!) but I’m so excited to see where the path of my future takes me.

I celebrated my 30th in a very me way by seeing incredible performances in NYC:

❤️ Two Strangers Carry a Cake Across New York
🧡 Oh, Mary!
💛 CHESS
💚 Patti LuPone @ Carnegie Hall
💙 Ragtime

All the shows were SOOOOO good, and I can’t wait to surround myself in the arts in year 30!!! 🎂

💬 When is your birthday? Do you have any favorite ways to celebrate yourself? 💬

12/31/2025

My New Year’s resolution is to be even more gay 🌈

(And also to watch again! And read all the books by !)

💬 Do you have any goals for 2026? 💬

12/23/2025

✨ In case you didn’t know — ✨

If you don’t know what pronouns someone uses, but you want to refer to them using pronouns, a great option is using “they/them” pronouns, until you can ask that person what their pronouns are!

Once you learn their pronouns, you should then use only those correct pronouns to refer to the person — which means if that person doesn’t use they/them pronouns, then you shouldn’t continue to use those.

But, until that point, they/them pronouns are a great gender neutral option to refer to people when you’re unsure of their pronouns —

And I recommend you try using them instead of defaulting to the “typical” she/her and he/him pronouns, which are often indicators of your assumptions about what side of the man/woman binary you’d categorize someone into based on their appearance.

Because anyone of any gender identity and any presentation can use any pronouns that feel most affirming and accurate to them — and it’s lovely to approach people with that awareness and openness that you might not be able to “tell” someone’s identity and pronouns just by looking at them.

💬 Do you have any questions about using they/them pronouns as a gender neutral option — particularly to refer to those whose pronouns you don’t yet know? 💬

💬 If you know a language other than English, are there gender neutral pronoun options in your language? 💬

11/08/2025

Have you heard of these asexual sub-identities? 🖤🩶🤍💜

Asexual is an LGBTQ+ identity that describes a spectrum of experiences where people have little to no sexual attraction, or only experience it in specific circumstances.

Asexual can be an umbrella term containing other labels within this spectrum, as well as an independent label that people use to describe their experiences.

Some of the many, many identities within the asexual spectrum include:

🖤 demisexual
🩶 graysexual
🤍aceflux
💜 aeogosexual
🖤 cupiosexual
🩶 lithosexual
🤍 reciprosexual

Swipe through this post to learn more about asexuality and each of the above sub-identities!

💬 Are you familiar with any of these asexual labels? Do you identify with any of them? 💬

09/28/2025

Here’s how you can support LGBTQIA+ asylum-seeking immigrants in Philadelphia 🌈⬇️

Asylum Pride House () is hosting their second annual Welcome Walk to raise funds and show our physical support of LGBTQIA+ asylum seekers here in Philadelphia PA.

The 5k walk (or run!) will take place on October 18th, 2025 in FDR Park in Philadelphia, PA.

If you want to support but don’t want to register for the walk, you can also bring donations for the supply drive, including:
🔹Any cleaning products
🔹Paper products (toilet paper, paper towels)
🔹Full sized general hygiene supplies (shampoo, conditioner, soap, body wash, tooth paste, tooth brushes, etc.)
🔹Laundry detergent, dish washer detergent, and dish soap
🔹Bed sheets (full bed), pillows, and throw blankets

To learn more about Asylum Pride House and sign up for the Welcome Walk, visit:

🔗 www.bit.ly/asylumpridehousewalk

ABOUT ASYLUM PRIDE HOUSE

Asylum Pride House was founded in 2022 with the mission to provide housing and necessary initial resources to LGBTQ+ asylum seekers in Philadelphia PA. We work closely with local and national organizations to serve the LGBTQIA+ asylum seeking community.

Asylum Pride House’s current program runs out of a five-bedroom apartment in West Philly and offers long term housing solely to LGBTQIA+ asylum seekers.

🏳️‍🌈 Working towards a world where every LGBTQIA+ asylum seeker is welcomed, supported, and affirmed as their most authentic selves. 🏳️‍⚧️

07/19/2025

Here’s your reminder 👇🏻

If you’re LGBTQ, then you are - no questions asked! You don’t have to “prove” it to anyone in any way.

The only person with authority on your identity is YOU! 🌈

💬 What reminders do you need? 💬

06/24/2025

Gay hiking in Montana! 🌈

I visited Montana last week for the first time ever to celebrate the wedding of a friend I’ve had since I was 3 years old (!!)

And while I was there, I took a hike through Glacier National Park - and it genuinely was so beautiful that it felt unreal at times.

My new pride backpack from was the perfect hiking accessory, especially because the pattern is full of affirmations, which I definitely needed during some of the more…upward trekking parts of the hike 😅

In all, we walked about 7 miles through the park, and saw waterfalls, snow-covered mountain peaks, beautiful flowers, and even a marmot!

It feels strange being back home in a city now — I keep looking up and expecting to see mountains. 🏔️ So that must mean I’ll have to visit Montana again soon!

💬 Have you ever been hiking in Montana?

💬 What affirmations would you tell yourself to get through a tough moment?

06/12/2025

✨ Have you ever heard of the label genderqueer?

is an LGBTQ+ gender identity that describes any gender that doesn’t fit neatly into the gender binary of man and woman.

Like every identity, there are many ways to be genderqueer - and there are no “right” or “wrong” ways!

For example…
💜 Some genderqueer people also identify with the labels transgender and/or non-binary, while others don’t. Either way is okay!

🤍 Genderqueer people can use any pronouns they feel comfortable with (including multiple sets!) and express themselves in whatever ways feel best for them, regardless of societal norms.

💚 Each genderqueer person will might use different additional labels - LGBTQ+ or not - to describe their sexuality and other nuances of their identity. Each person is unique!

➡️ Swipe through this post to learn more about the genderqueer identity — including some of the many, many signs you might be genderqueer! 🌈

💬 Do you relate to the label genderqueer, or any of these signs?💬

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