01/10/2026
Sometimes life throws you a moment that makes you believe in something bigger—call it fate, call it grace, call it a higher power. Whatever it is, I felt it tonight.
I had just picked up Jenah from work and was driving her to get her car from the mechanic. As we pulled into the lot, my eyes landed on a young man walking with his family. Something about him stopped me in my tracks. His age, the way he carried himself, even the faint scars—it all lined up.
My heart started pounding. Could it be him? After nearly thirteen years, could this really be the boy?
Back then, he was just four years old. A child who survived what no child should ever have to go through—a car fire in Windsor on Highway 101. I was one of the rescuers who pulled him out. That day changed both of our lives forever.
I hesitated, wondering how in the world you’re supposed to approach someone with a moment like this. How do you even start? But my feet carried me forward.
I walked slowly toward him. When our eyes met, I just let the words spill:
“Is your name Christian?”
He looked at me, a little surprised. “Yeah.”
“You were in a car fire in Windsor on 101 when you were five?”
He nodded again. “Yeah.”
I swallowed hard. “My name’s Chris. I’m one of the people who pulled you out.”
The air seemed to freeze around us. I’m not sure what he was feeling in that moment, and I can’t even fully explain what I felt either—relief, awe, maybe even disbelief. There he was. Alive. The sole survivor of a crash that had left a mark on both our families, a scar we’d carried in silence for more than a decade.
We started talking. He told me a little about his life since that night. He’s grown into a strong young man, someone who’s fought battles I can only imagine, and accomplished things that prove his spirit is unbreakable. He’s a warrior in every sense of the word.
Then I stopped him mid-sentence. I knew I had to do this.
I went back to my Jeep and pulled something out of the glove compartment—a medal I had carried for years. The Gold Medal of Valor. I had been awarded it for that night, for his rescue. But deep down, I had always felt it wasn’t really mine. I had only been holding onto it.
I placed it in his hand and said, “You deserve this more than I ever did. You’re braver than I’ll ever be. This belongs to you.”
He accepted it. And in that moment, I realized what I had always known—that I had just been the keeper, waiting for the right time to give it to its rightful owner.
I don’t know how to explain the weight that lifted off me in that instant. A part of me that had been heavy for years finally came home. Seeing him alive, thriving, and standing before me—it was like closing a circle I didn’t know was still open.
To Christian and his family: you will always be a part of me. That night in Windsor tied us together forever.
And to whatever higher power arranged this crossing of paths, I can only say: thank you. If it wasn’t divine, then maybe it was just life being extraordinary. Either way, I’ll never forget it.