09/03/2026
“Every time I hear you speak, I get something different out of it.”
Someone said this to me on Tuesday after I spoke at the Greater Phoenix Chamber’s Professional Women’s Alliance. It felt like it hit me right between the eyes.
As a speaker, it’s easy to get focused on the measurable outcomes: How many people attended? How many books did I sell? Did another speaking opportunity come from it?
But none of those things are really why I speak.
I speak because I know what it feels like to sit in an audience and hear a story, an idea, or a tool that stays with me for years. Something that changes the way I lead, the way I approach my work, or even the way I see myself.
The speaker almost certainly never knows the impact they had.
Yesterday reminded me that this is the opportunity every time I step onto a stage: to say something that resonates with someone and helps them make their life, their changemaking, or their corner of the world a little better.
That’s the outcome that matters most. And I’m grateful for the reminder.
Thank you to Greater Phoenix Chamber, Carly Kastner, and Keegan Ewing for bringing together such a wonderful group of women, and to Lauren Smith for getting brave and joining me for a little Core Values Discovery along the way!