
09/29/2025
This story is part of the My Unsung Hero series, from the Hidden Brain team. It features stories of people whose kindness left a lasting impression on someone else.
When Tanya Eby was in sixth grade, her friends made a decision that stunned and devastated her.
"The girls that I hung out with for lunch and played with had held a meeting and told me that I was no longer cool enough to hang out with them," Eby recalled.
"They would be ignoring me, and I was no longer part of the group."
Eby's world was unraveling — but the loss of her friends was only part of the story. A few days later, she broke down in tears while in class, and her teacher, Mrs. Welch, pulled her into the teachers' lounge to find out what was wrong.
"And I told her about the girls. But then I told her the rest of the story," Eby said.
"And the rest of the story was, a few months prior to this happening, my mom and my stepdad decided my big brother — my anchor in life — needed to go live with my dad. So, overnight they took him and they dropped him off with my dad. So I woke up one morning and my brother was gone."
Not long after, her stepdad left too. So, when the girls at school decided they weren't going to be friends with her anymore, it was just the latest example of the people she cared about leaving without warning.
"It felt like everywhere I turned, people I loved disappeared," Eby said. "They stopped loving me and they didn't tell me why and I had no control over it."
Eby cried as she told the whole story to Welch.
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