09/11/2026
I am now insecure/unstable aka in danger of losing my housing in three months.
That's hard to look at. In my case, it is due to divorce. We were married 2.5 years and registered for 16. The court sees 2.5 years of marital assets, not18.5. Because of and discrimination built into systems.
I'll leave the marriage with my SSDI and a handful of assets, not enough to afford housing or healthcare. The two core principles of welfare, safety, and security.
I'm 55, disabled, my parents are gone. I'll lose my beloved cats. I have no car. The media ignores me.
Now I'm going to appeal the decree b/c domestic partnerships matter. They are necessary. They build our families. And I'm hoping the judge grants me a stay so I can remain in my home during the appeal, but that's a long shot.
Hopefully, the appeal leaves me with more than scraps so I can live out my days securely if not comfortably.
I'm a MSW so I've done my due diligence. There's no program to catch me except a shelter for a little while. The homeless advocates told me to do what it takes - couches, cots - to stay housed. Beg and borrow.
I'm trying. I'm scared. No one has offered me a spare bedroom. Or a couch. I'm being nagged by a TERF with an axe to grind. A long time stalker has come round b/c I'm vulnerable.
We are way past that.
I need money. To pay the lawyers. To pay for the health insurance I'll lose. To pay for my medication, sundries, sturdy shoes. To keep the blog running. And to win a victory for LGBTQ families - partnerships, unions, what have you.
If marriage falls, we'll once again need these relationships to keep our families safe.
It's been three years I've been dependent on you to get by. It could be three more. I appreciate every kindness. I need more.
Every share of the GoFundMe link generates $13 on average. Not just posting it but sharing directly.
Please help me.
Bit.ly/HelpLGBTQBlogger
Venmo Sue Kerr
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