01/18/2025
Full backstory… Rachel .ak and I met back in 23 at a wedding and before that, had followed each other on Instagram… fun fact, she found me first on the gram in 22 and I remember following her posts in Hawaii that winter.
So we started hanging out and developing our amazing friendship… which built a foundation for later. Each of our marriages ended for their own separate reasons, and we quickly realized our deep friendship was the base for something much more. We’ve each had big fallout from former friends who judged us without knowing the full story. This post isn’t to get into that, but to celebrate what God brought together.
As our relationship grew, we balanced everyday life with the blended fam life (6 kids), juggled finances and legal fees, dealt with drama and opposition, clung to our faith, made time for adventuring, and dreamed together about the future. We truly healed together and became newer versions of ourselves together! 🥹
I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this girl! We both talked about getting married and I actually initially proposed in a simple way at home. Flashback… on an earlier trip to Hawaii that just Rachel went on, she was getting looks from guys and I wanted her to know I loved her… so I had her buy a simple ring from a tourist shop there and I reimbursed her for it. I know, cheesy but hey it’s what I did. 🥹😂 Later that year I asked her to marry me with that simple ring symbolic of her Hawaii trip and my expression of love for her back then. Another little twist… we lost that ring this last summer! 😂 So we together replaced it with another simple ring from an Alaska summer market.
Now here’s the deal guys… I knew that she needed a more proper ring and more of an actual proposal, and that was coming. We’re climbing out of complete poverty and restarting our lives from complete scratch so I wanted to pledge my love in this more simple way first and then COMPLETELY SURPRISE her with an actual proposal later! 😱
Well it took some time to pull off because my plan involved Hawaii (we both LOVE Hawaii) and it seemed the perfect spot…. cont in comments… ⬇️⬇️