12/26/2025
Here's the link to the first post First of all, I did not expect the post to blow up. Thank you to everyone who gave their advice. I tried to read every reply. I have been asked a lot for an update so I'll just give what's happening now: I didnt leave him. Yet, at least. After that post, I had a surge of confidence and really was planning on leaving him. Suddenly though, he woke up one morning and it was like he was a different man. I'm not exaggerating, he was drastically different. He made breakfast for me while I was working out, he helped with making lunch and kept kissing me and sent me off to work with an I love you. I thought for sure it would stop by the time he got home later but it didn't. He went from a man who was angry every morning and angry when he came home from work.. to a sweet and loving man, overnight. It was weird at first but after a full week of being shown affection to, all my plans for leaving crumbled and I was lost. He started working overtime and I started working part time so the issues of house chore divide ceased. Plus, he cleaned the kitchen now while I put the child down which was the main issue. It's been 3 weeks and I feel like I'm living in a dream and I have no idea what to do. I still haven't told him that I planned to leave him. I don't know of I will or not. I can't help but feel suspicious, like there's some hidden motive to this. He even planned a date night and showed me affection after. HE NEVER DOES THAT. I keep expecting for his...