09/20/2026
Thank you Kat Montague | EMDR Therapist for the reminder that I haven’t shared about this yet!
I do this in a couple ways. The first way with supporting the client in building their own resource library. It may include
- POV videos
- Slow BLS
- Bilateral Music
- anything that Gary Brothers has put out
I will also share my own resources. This may include private playlists that I have built around specific things (CPTSD, anxiety, religious trauma, etc.) Let me know if you’re interested in me making some public lists to share!
I also have a couple of YouTube videos that I have recorded just audio of EMDR resources that I will send to clients if they share that my voice is anchoring for them. This is all down on a YouTube channel that is linked with my business, not personal. I also review confidentiality with them before hand.
One of my FAVORITES. I love sitting with clients who have aphantasia finding a POV video that brings a sense of calm. This may be a hike in the woods, a walk on the beach, a stroll in a Christmas village. Together, we will practice describing what they see and imagine other senses. This is perfect for clients who struggle with building a calm or peaceful place.
If there is rumination, obsession, difficulty in vetting material, etc. I will teach clients how to reset their algorithm and support them in beginning to build it based on their own values.
This may be something I discuss with clients if there is a lot of comparison, unrealistic expectations, and negative self worth. Generally speaking, I generally focus on more influencers/people they don’t know. I find that when they start with folks they down know, it becomes clearer if there are folks in their own life that they may want to mute.
A question I ask a lot of clients is “are there people on your feed that look like you?” If not? It’s time to find some folks that do.
This can be such a fun way to continue to build on values after a values sort. Often this will look like identifying a value that they want to strengthen or align with more. This is a chance to identify and highlight what that can look like.
1000/10 my favorite way to use social media in session. This will look like iden