09/22/2026
We prove our love for God by how we treat the people He loves.
And, inconveniently, God loves all the people we don’t.
People we disagree with.
People who frustrate us.
People we don’t understand.
People we might even consider enemies.
“Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.” — 1 John 4:21
And Jesus didn’t stop with brothers and sisters.
He said:
“Love your enemies.”
— Matthew 5:44
There goes the loophole.
Because God didn’t wait until you were lovable before loving you.
Grace wasn’t given to you as a reward for getting everything right.
And Jesus didn’t say:
Love people when they deserve it.
Love people when they agree with you.
Love people when they vote correctly.
Love people only when it's easy.
He said:
“Love one another as I have loved you.” — John 13:34
As I have loved you.
That’s the standard.
And no, love doesn’t mean agreement.
It doesn’t mean pretending harmful behavior is harmless.
It doesn’t require abandoning wisdom, truth, boundaries, or accountability.
But it does mean the person standing across from you never stops being someone made in the image of God.
Jesus said the world would recognize His disciples by love.
Not our cross necklaces.
Not our voting record.
Not our church attendance.
Not how loudly we hate others' sin.
“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
— John 13:35
So maybe the question isn’t simply:
Do I believe the right things about God?
Maybe it’s also:
Can people see what I believe about God by the way I treat them?
Because Scripture doesn’t merely say God has love.
It says:
“God is love.”
— 1 John 4:8
And if our Christianity makes us better at identifying enemies than loving them, we should probably ask whether Jesus is still the One teaching us how to be a Christian.
We may have enemies.
But Jesus never gave us permission to stop loving them.
After all, God has loved us through some pretty unlovable moments.
Following Jesus means learning to do the same.