09/23/2025
The bedrock of Comanche community life was the woman. The strength as well as the industriousness of Comanche women allowed the needs of the village to be met. Daily tasks, taking care of the children, the preparation of food, the making of clothing, and the building of shelter were wonderfully done for her family.Of marriage in her tribe, the Kwahada Comanche Rhoda Asenap shared that Comanche women liked to marry a warrior for his name and for his wealth of horses. In her case, her father's name of Pahdopony was a popular one. The English translation of the name is "See How Deep the Water Is". The well-known warrior Pahdopony had around four wives. Rhoda was born from the last wife of her father. With regard to the many capabilities of Comanche women, Rhoda added that the women even went on raids but not on the most strenuous ones. And that the women could shoot bows and arrows.
A splendid portrait of the Wife of Cheevers, c. 1872. Taken by Alexander Gardner, Washington DC. The trip to Washington in 1872 included the famed Yamparika Comanche Chief Ten Bears, grandson Cheevers and his wife, the Comanche named Timber Bluff, Chewing Elk, Esahabit and his wife, Onawia and his daughter, Tosawa, a man named Jim, and an individual called Buffalo Hump. Photograph courtesy of the National Anthropological Archives, Smithsonian Institution, Washington DC. Additional information from Comanche Ethnography, Field Notes of E. Adamson Hoebel, Waldo R. Wedel, Gustav G. Carlson, and Robert H. Lowie. Edited by Thomas W. Kavanagh.