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10/15/2026

At 6 weeks postpartum,

I was "cleared."

I was not okay.

I said:
"I'm good. Just tired."

I meant:
I can do everything I need to do. That does not mean I'm okay.

I said:
"I'm sleeping when I can."

I meant:
The baby sleeps. My brain doesn't.

I said:
"Feeding is going okay."

I meant:
Every feed feels like another test of whether I'm doing this right.

I said:
"My boyfriend is really helpful."

I meant:
He is. And I still feel like everything lives in my head.

I said:
"No, I don't think I'm depressed."

I meant:
I'm getting dressed.
I'm taking care of the baby.
I'm answering texts.
I just don't feel like myself.
How bad am I allowed to feel before this counts?

I said:
"Everything is okay."

I meant:
The baby is okay.
I'm not sure anyone has really asked if I am.

Maybe I didn't need someone to ask:
"Are you depressed?"

Maybe I needed someone to ask:
"Do you feel like yourself?"

What did you say was "fine" because you didn't know how to explain what was actually happening?
Tell me!!

I have a feeling another mom is going to read it and think: me too.

10/15/2026

How Long Do Y'all Stay At The Park With Y'all Kids???? I'm Trying To See If Ima Bad Parent 😩😭

10/15/2026

You can be the most responsible parent ever.... That baby gon fall off that bed.

Fall has my heart, but THIS kind of cozy autumn home? 😩🍂🧡 The warm lights, the pumpkins, the candles, the rainy window… ...
10/15/2026

Fall has my heart, but THIS kind of cozy autumn home? 😩🍂🧡 The warm lights, the pumpkins, the candles, the rainy window… somebody let me live in a Hallmark movie PLEASE! 😭🤎 This is exactly the kind of cozy fall home that inspires me. One day, I want my home to feel just like this. 🏡🍁

10/14/2026

Chipotle lover 4L 😭🌯❤️‍🔥 because at this point, I should have a loyalty card AND a reserved seat! 😂🤎

10/14/2026

IDC, I will ALWAYS flex on the kind of mother I am. 🥹❤️‍🩹 I could’ve used my childhood trauma as an excuse, but instead, I chose to heal, do better, and break generational curses. My babies deserve the love, patience, and childhood I once needed. 🫶🏽❤️

Suffering from an identity crisis after having a baby is one of the worst feelings ever. 💔 You love your baby more than ...
10/14/2026

Suffering from an identity crisis after having a baby is one of the worst feelings ever. 💔 You love your baby more than anything in this world, but somewhere along the way, you start wondering where you went. You’re so busy being somebody’s mama that you forget you’re still a person outside of motherhood, too. You miss the old you, but you also know you could never go back to being the person you were before because motherhood changed you in so many ways.

And the hardest part? You can be grateful for your babies and still grieve the parts of yourself you feel like you’ve lost. You can love being a mom and still struggle to recognize the woman staring back at you in the mirror. Both feelings can exist at the same time.

Sometimes, you’re not just adjusting to a new life as a mother. You’re trying to figure out who you are all over again. And I think more moms need to know that it’s okay to admit that. You haven’t lost yourself forever, mama. You’re still in there, and you deserve the time and space to find yourself again. 🤍🫶🏽

10/14/2026

WHEN THE CLOCK STRIKES 5 PM AND ME & MY TODDLER ARE BEEFIN 😭💀😂

Like girl, we’ve been together ALL DAY. Why are we acting like we have personal beef?! 😭😂 Somebody come get your grandbaby because mama is officially off the clock. 💀🤣

10/14/2026

When he came into my life, he loved me AND my child, and on top of that, we created another little human to love together. 🥹🤍 I didn’t just find a man who loved me; I found someone to build a family with. Watching him love me and our babies is a blessing I’ll never take for granted. My heart is so full. 🫶🏽

10/14/2026

Sometimes I miss the version of me that carried you. 🥹🤍 The little kicks, the growing belly, the excitement of knowing I was about to meet the tiny human who would change my entire world. If I could go back and relive it just one more time, I would. Pregnancy was such a beautiful chapter, but getting to be your mama is the greatest blessing of all. 🫶🏽🤰🏽

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