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05/30/2026
05/30/2026

05/30/2026

My therapist once told me:
‘When your trauma gets triggered, you don’t respond as the person you are today — you respond as the version of you that was hurt.’

And in that moment, every reaction I couldn’t explain suddenly made sense.

05/30/2026

I am the Woman
Your mother never thought of
A Frankenstein monster
Stitched together with trauma & tears
Holding a Darkness; my greatest strength
The one who'll take a bullet
And annihilate the shooter
In one fell sweep
I am the Woman
Who bleeds in truthful ink
Who found her voice
After nights spent drowned in blood
Who clawed her way back to life
When there wasn't much worth living for
Who cries each night
Over the graves inside my soul
I am the Woman who holds on
When everyone lets go
A Woman your mother wouldn't know
I'm the Woman who survives.
~Mandy Kocsis©️2019~

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Image quote by . Warren Welch

05/30/2026

I can’t say that I always understood why some things work out and some things don’t, I just try to remember that life happens the way it’s meant to.
Why some relationships make it and others don’t..and no amount of hoping or fighting can change what’s destined to be.
What I do know that out of some of my life’s greatest pain has arisen some of my best triumphs.
The lessons I learned through struggle are the things that have stuck with me and while it was tough, I wouldn’t change it for the world.
I think back to all the times wanting something to work out the way I wanted only to have it fall apart in front of my face.
It was devastating at the time, but later, I was rewarded with something much better.
It’s hard to be patient, to try to have vision and see the bigger picture when you want something so badly that it’s all you can think of.
It’s mysterious and wonderfully amazing how life works if you truly step back and embrace the knowledge that what’s meant to be will always find a way..
And to always see the opportunities in closed doors, no matter how much it hurts.
I’ve had to fall to be able to rise again.
I had to lose people to find better ones.
I had to see the open doors that closed paths forced me to see.
I may not have always gotten what I’ve wanted, but I’ve always gotten what I’ve needed.
It’s hard to open your eyes to the truth when you’re hurting and try to understand the why of something, but it’s always there,
Waiting to be understood.
I’ll never quite know why some things change while others stay the same, but I’ve realized that I don’t have to know everything to be happy..
I just have to know that no matter what happens and why, I’ll always find my way through to a better place.
In the end, I choose to be happy for the pain that taught me, the lessons that showed me and the love that blessed me..
Cause in the end, they’re all part of this beautiful circle of life..
Always remembering that in every end, there is a new beginning..we just have to look for it.
I, for one, wouldn’t change a thing about it..
Except maybe for chocolate.
I could always have more of that.
Life, love and chocolate..
Doesn’t get much better than that.
|ravenwolf

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