Leslie At The LooM Life

Leslie At The LooM Life Serving women ready to stop surviving love and start feeling safe in it. Divorce can unravel everything—but it can also remake you.

Divorce coach | Divorce recovery | Relationship clarity
Private coaching & community
👇 Start here With both a JD and MSW, I guide women through the emotional, logistical, and legal overwhelm of divorce. Through The LooM Life, I offer strategy, support, and soul as you untangle what was and reweave what’s next.
👉 Book a free consult to learn how we can work together. Strategic & soulful coaching by a lawyer-turned-therapist.

09/19/2026

You can feel calmer in your own home and still watch your child struggle with having two of them.

They may miss the old routine, ask questions you can’t answer neatly, or have a hard time with transitions between parents.

Parenting after divorce can hold a lot of contradiction. You may know life needed to change while still grieving what that change asks of your children.

Their difficulty adjusting doesn’t automatically tell you whether the decision was right or wrong. It tells you they’re adjusting to a major change too.

If you’re working through divorce, co-parenting, and the guilt that can come with watching your children adapt, Mindful Untangling offers support and practical resources for this season.

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09/18/2026

You may hear the words “I want a divorce” and realize you didn’t absorb anything that came after them.

You’re asking questions, but barely hearing the answers. You’re lying awake replaying the conversation. You’re looking at the person you’ve built a life with and wondering how they seem so certain while you can barely think past tomorrow.

When your husband suddenly wants a divorce after years together, shock can make even ordinary decisions feel enormous.

You may feel pressure to understand what happened, respond correctly, make plans, call an attorney, tell the kids, figure out the house, and somehow keep functioning at the same time.

You don’t have to solve the entire future in the first few days.

Give yourself enough room to understand what’s happening, gather the information you need, and make decisions from a steadier place.

If you’re in that first disorienting stretch and don’t know where to begin, a discovery call can give us space to talk through what you’re facing and what kind of support may make sense.

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09/17/2026

There’s a particular kind of heartbreak in realizing someone is leaving while you’re still trying to become easier to love.

You explain less, ask for less, forgive faster, pretend something didn’t hurt, offer another version of yourself and hope this one will be enough.

After a while, the breakup isn’t the only loss you’re dealing with. You may also have to find your way back to the parts of yourself you kept setting aside to protect the relationship.

That’s where rebuilding self-trust after a breakup can begin.

Notice what you stopped saying.
What you stopped asking for.
Who you stopped seeing.
What you kept accepting because losing them felt unbearable.

There’s a lot to grieve there, and a lot of yourself to come home to.

If you’re moving through heartbreak, separation, or divorce and trying to rebuild after losing yourself inside the relationship, THROUGH was created to support that work.

Comment THROUGH and I’ll send you the details.

09/16/2026

You can know a marriage needs to end and still stare at the numbers wondering how your life is supposed to work afterward.

Divorce after 50 can bring a particular kind of financial fear.

There may be decades of shared decisions behind you. A home you expected to grow older in. Retirement plans built around two people. A picture of the future that suddenly has to be reconsidered.

And while everyone wants to know whether you’re “doing okay,” you may be quietly wondering:

Can I afford my own home?
What happens to retirement?
Will I ever feel financially settled again?
Did I wait too long to start over?

Those questions carry more than numbers. They can affect how safe you feel making any decision at all.

You deserve space to sort through the emotional and practical pieces without being rushed toward an answer. I don’t provide legal or financial advice, but I can help you get clearer about what you’re facing, what questions you need answered, and where the right professional support may be needed.

If financial fear is making it harder to see your next step, comment CLARITY and I’ll send you the details for a discovery call.

09/15/2026

The breakup is hard enough.

Then Friday night comes and you realize you have no plans.

Your weekends used to revolve around the relationship. Some friendships faded while you were in it. The coffee shop, the restaurants, even the grocery store can feel attached to a life you no longer have.

Breakup recovery can be especially lonely when you’re grieving the person and realizing how small your own world became along the way.

Rebuilding can start quietly.

Texting the friend you haven’t talked to in months. Going somewhere alone even though you feel awkward. Returning to something you used to enjoy before the relationship took up so much space.

There may be days when creating a life of your own feels harder than missing the person who left.

If you’re moving through heartbreak, separation, or divorce and wondering how to begin rebuilding from here, THROUGH was created to support this part too.

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