08/26/2026
This photo was taken at a very different time in my life. I remember the day.
At the time, I was working in admissions at an audio engineering school. I had taken the job because, for most of my life, all I ever wanted was to somehow build a career in music. First as a musician, and later as an audio engineer and record producer. So naturally, I thought working at a place like that might bring me closer to what I really wanted.
In some ways, it did. In other ways, it really didnât.
But during that short period, I happened to hit it off with the studio manager at the schoolâs actual recording studio. During one of our conversations, he mentioned that Dolly Parton was coming into the studio and asked if I had ever met her.
Of course, I said no.
He thoughtfully invited me to come over.
Now, in my head, Iâm thinking, âThere is absolutely no way my boss is going to let me leave work to go hang out with Dolly Parton.â
My boss had already given our tiny admissions team a talk about being there to do admissions, not to build a music career. There were only three of us, but the message was pretty clearly directed at me. Unfortunately.
But when the day came, I decided to risk it.
I walked over to the studio.
And what did I see?
My bossâs car.
The same boss who had warned me about leaving.
I called my brother and asked him what I should do. He said, âMan, youâre there for a reason. Youâve got to take these shots.â
So I walked in.
Almost immediately, I saw my boss talking to the studio manager. When she asked, âWhat are you doing here?â I simply said, âI was invited.â
She didnât exactly seem thrilled that I was there.
But when Dolly arrived at the studio in a white Cadillac sedan, I was the first person to notice her. I extended my hand, welcomed her, and walked inside with her.
From there, it was kind of bizarre watching how everyone acted around her. It was almost as if a female Jesus had walked into the room.
But the coolest thing was that Dolly didnât act like that at all.
She was human.
She was funny. She was warm. She cared about her husband, checking with her team to make sure he was alright. And even though I probably wasnât supposed to be there, she happily took a photo with me.
I wish Iâd gotten the chance to talk with her more.
Since that day, my path has taken a lot of turns, some I could never have imagined at the time. And honestly, the direction my life is going now is one I certainly couldnât have seen coming back then.
But looking at this photo reminds me of something I think Iâve forgotten at times:
Dream.
Take the shot.
You never know where it might lead.
And Iâm pretty sure Dolly would approve.