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08/13/2026

Trying to put kids to sleep is another big task for me .

08/13/2026

Dear mama, you are allowed to rest!

You don’t have to suffer yourself into an award winning woman, mother or wife. Nobody is coming to give you a trophy because you cooked while tired, cleaned while angry and still smiled like everything was fine.

Please, sit down. Drink water. Take a nap. Ignore that laundry for 30 minutes. Let the children watch something if you need to breathe.

Because this thing called motherhood is already doing overtime. You don’t need to add suffering to the job description.

Rest, mama. The children will survive. The house will still be there.

And please, nobody should come and tell you “our mothers did it.”
Our mothers also deserved rest. They just didn’t have us shouting it on Facebook.

Breathe please.

08/13/2026

The way we glorify suffering in womanhood needs to be studied.

You’re a woman, not a machine.
You’re a mum, not a 24-hour customer service agent.

Please rest sometimes. Leave the dishes, ignore the laundry and breathe.

There’s no award for Best Mum, Best Wife or Best Woman That Never Sat Down.

Rest, mama. You deserve to enjoy life too.

My favorite fruit that has healed me of many things ❤️Goodnight darlings. see you all tomorrow ❤️
08/12/2026

My favorite fruit that has healed me of many things ❤️

Goodnight darlings. see you all tomorrow ❤️

Always stand up for your kids, even if it means standing alone.There will be times when everyone thinks your child is wr...
08/12/2026

Always stand up for your kids, even if it means standing alone.

There will be times when everyone thinks your child is wrong. Times when you will be told, “They are just children,” “Leave it,” or “You are overreacting.”

But as a mother, you have to learn when to speak up.

Standing up for your child doesn’t mean teaching them that they are always right. It means making sure they know they are not alone.

Correct your child when they are wrong. Teach them accountability. But when someone hurts, humiliates, bullies or treats your child unfairly, don’t expect your child to fight that battle alone just because you want to avoid being called a difficult mother.

Your child needs to know that home is a safe place.

Sometimes, you may have to stand alone.

Stand anyway.

Because one day, your child may not remember exactly what you said, but they will remember that when the world made them feel small, their mother stood beside them.

08/12/2026

Can you relate as a mum?

The mother nobody asks aboutEverybody is always askingIs the baby okay?Has she eaten?Did he sleep?Why is the child cryin...
08/12/2026

The mother nobody asks about

Everybody is always asking

Is the baby okay?
Has she eaten?
Did he sleep?
Why is the child crying?

But who is asking Mum if she has eaten? 😂

Who is asking if she slept well?
Who is asking why she has been quiet?
Who is checking on the woman who has been checking on everybody since morning?

Sometimes Mum is not okay too. She is just too busy making sure everybody else is okay. And the funny part is, if you ask her what she needs, she will probably say “nothing” because even resting has become something she has to feel guilty about.

Mummy needs checking on too.

Please ask your mother, your wife, your sister or that mum friend you always see online “how are you really doing?”

You might be surprised by how much she needs to hear it.

08/12/2026

May we never die young as a parent after carrying the burden of our kids❤️❤️

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08/12/2026

What do you do by 4 A.M as a mum?

Me: sleeping and you?

Being a mother does not mean you have to stop being a woman.You can love your children with every bone in your body and ...
08/12/2026

Being a mother does not mean you have to stop being a woman.

You can love your children with every bone in your body and still miss the woman you were before them. The woman who could sleep when she wanted, take a bath without someone shouting Mummy, eat her food while it was still hot and leave the house without packing half the house inside her bag.

Sometimes you look at old pictures and think, ah ah, who is this fine girl and where exactly did she go? 😂

But she is still there.

She may just be buried under school runs, laundry, feeding, cartoons, dirty plates and somebody shouting Mummy for the 47th time before 10am.

Motherhood changed you, but it should not erase you.

Please find your way back to yourself, little by little. Buy the thing you like. Rest when you can. Dress up. Laugh. Go out. Do something that reminds you that you are more than just somebody’s mother.

Your children need you, but they also need to see that Mummy is a whole human being too.

And please, if you find that old version of yourself hiding somewhere, tell her to come home. We miss her too.

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