
08/02/2025
They often called me “the hardest working royal.” I never asked for that title. I just believed that when you’re given a responsibility, you do it — not for applause, not for legacy, but because someone needs to show up.
I’ve never cared much for headlines.
Or flattery.
Or being the center of attention.
But I’ve always cared about showing respect.
To farmers who work the same land their grandparents did.
To nurses in quiet wards, who hold a stranger’s hand through the night.
To young girls who don’t need a fairy tale — just a good example.
The older I get, the less I feel the need to explain myself.
I don’t mind being misunderstood.
I don’t mind being called blunt.
Blunt is just another word for honest, if you ask me.
I never wanted to be adored.
I wanted to be useful.
That’s something my mother taught me — not through speeches, but by how she lived. She didn’t tell me to be dutiful. She showed me how dignity is built, one small action at a time. Often unnoticed. Often uncelebrated.
And in a world that keeps changing — sometimes too fast for its own good — I still believe in constancy. In not walking away when things get difficult. In keeping your word, especially when no one is watching.
Now, at 75, I don’t pretend to have all the answers.
But I do know this:
There is a quiet kind of strength in not needing to be the loudest voice in the room.
You can live a full life without fanfare.
You can lead without spotlight.
You can love without needing to be praised for it.
So if you’re reading this, wondering if what you’ve done has mattered — let me tell you, it has. Every steady hand. Every silent effort. Every time you chose to do the right thing when it was inconvenient.
That’s what leaves a mark.
Let these years ahead be your grounded years.
Not fading — but deepening.
Not ending — but settling into something more solid, more certain.
More you.
With respect, and without fuss,
— Anne
The Princess Royal