09/10/2026
Really struggling - 8 days pp
I am 8 days pp, had an unplanned c-section and my girl spent 5 days in NICU for sugar issues. She was born 37+4. During the time in NICU, she was getting donor milk and doing great. I was pumping every 3 hours and started to get my colostrum (more than just drops) on day 3-4. We got discharged home on day 5, and she’s been doing great as I have donor breast milk.
She feeds every 2-3 hours, and we’re triple feeding as I’m trying to get my milk in. But it’s just not coming in. I did have a pp hemorrhage during my section, and am taking iron, but know that can affect milk coming in and supply.
On top of my milk not in, she’s really not great at the breast. She will suckle and I can hear audible swallowing, feel my letdown in my other breast and if I use a collector on the other side, I’ll get around an ounce. But, after the breast, she’ll chug a 2oz bottle so I know she isn’t satiated from the breast alone. I’m sure it’s a combo of her not being efficient , not wanting to work for it and that there’s just no milk there.
I’m pumping every 3 hours to tell my body to hurry up, we need milk, but it’s just not doing much of anything. I’ll get maybe 1/5-1oz per side if I pump, lots of time
less.
I’m at a total loss, feeling extremely discouraged and upset and not sure what to do. I do have lactation coming today for a visit, where I know she doesn’t transfer much at the breast but I just don’t know what to do. I never had this issue with my son.
Looking for words of encouragement, advice, people in similar situations or anything. I REALLY don’t want to give up, but not sure what else I can be doing.
Pic of my girl so I don’t get lost!