Deep Minds Anonymous

Deep Minds Anonymous We are the blessed ones who dare to feel everything so deeply. It's more of a blessing than a curse. When all you want is to be seen, to be understood.

This page, it's a community for all of you who are so often misunderstood.

09/03/2025

Some of us weren't taught stability. We were taught unpredictability. Love one day, cold silence the next. Attention followed by distance. Affection mixed with rejection.
So we learned to walk on eggshells. To anticipate moods. To fix what wasn't ours to fix. To make ourselves smaller, quieter, easier— just to keep someone from leaving.
Now we're adults... and relationships still feel unsafe. We cling too tightly, or we push people away before they can abandon us. We apologize for existing. We call ourselves "too sensitive" or "too clingy" when all we really wanted was to feel secure.
And when someone pulls away, our nervous system goes into chaos. We spiral. We tell ourselves: "See? No one stays. I'm not worth keeping."
But you were always worth keeping. You were just taught that love disappears-and now you're learning that real love doesn't vanish when you have needs.

09/03/2025

A real man cuts off any female threatening his relationship with his woman-no hesitation, no confusion, no half-truths.

He knows loyalty isn't just about private actions; it's the boundaries he holds when no one's watching, the respect he shows even in conversations she'll never hear.

He doesn't entertain overstepping attention, flirt with crossed lines, or risk his relationship's peace for fleeting ego boosts.

A man protects his home, his woman's heart. No excuses-just decisions.

09/02/2025

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. 8Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

09/02/2025

Why does no one talk about how hard it is to force yourself to walk away from someone you adore because no matter how badly you want them in your life, they just keep hurting you and leaving your emotional needs unmet. How confusing it is when the person who makes you so happy is also the same person who makes you so miserable?

09/02/2025

Want to know the real secret behind why some people are so blessed?
Because they give. They support. They’re the ones who always say “yes.”
They give their time. Offer a ride. Pay for someone’s meal. Love on other people’s children. Provide a shoulder to cry on and an ear to truly listen.
They’re always there encouraging, uplifting, helping. They’d give the shirt off their back or even their last dollar. Open their homes, cover bills, help find jobs, forgive debts, and stay loyal no matter what.
And while these good hearts often go unnoticed, misjudged, mistreated, or taken for granted… remember this: GOD always has them covered.

09/02/2025

Never invite someone into your life if you aren't ready to make space for them. Love requires more than attraction; it demands commitment, time, and a willingness to share your world. If you are still figuring yourself out, don't bring someone else into that uncertainty.
A relationship is not a distraction or a temporary fix. If you're not finished being single, honor that season. Don't open the door to someone else's heart if you aren't prepared to stay, as carelessness causes damage that can't be undone.
You awaken a profound vulnerability when you invite love in never take that lightly. If you have no intention of catching them, don't push them to the edge or ignite a hope you're not ready to hold.
Genuine people who crave healthy, stable love deserve more than half-efforts and mixed signals. They deserve honesty and clarity.
If you aren't ready to step up, don't step into someone's future. You risk wasting their trust, their faith in love, and their ability to open up again. Love is too sacred to be a pastime. Wait until you can honor it fully.

08/30/2025

INSANE Things About Narcissists

They get mad at you for getting angry at them.

Respond to criticism like you threw acid on their face.

Believe they are always right, even when they are wrong.

They are crazy enough to believe they are perfect and superior.

Think they can say and do whatever they want and you can't.

Have tantrums like a two-year-old.

Believe vengeance is their right.

They are delusional to the core.

Don't believe moral codes apply to them but they do apply to you.

Feel everyone's boundaries can be penetrated and overlooked except their own.

08/30/2025

In Bed, What She Really Wants (But Never Says):

1. She wants to feel safe, not just touched, but held like her heart matters.

2. She wants you to look at her like time stopped, so she knows she's more than a body.

3. She wants you to notice the way she trembles-not from fear, but from finally letting go.

4. She wants to hear words that kiss deeper than lips-because pleasure starts in the mind.

5. She wants you to slow down-linger like her soul is a place worth exploring.

6. She wants to feel chosen in every touch every breath, like she's the only one in the world.

7. She wants to know you see her-the real her, beyond the flaws she hides, beyond the walls she built.

08/30/2025

This is how Empaths and narcissists are born.

Both come from childhoods where love felt unsafe, inconsistent, or conditional.

Both are children of trauma.

Both found a way to survive.

The empath survived by feeling more: scanning the room, reading emotions, anticipating needs hoping that if they could keep everyone happy, they'd finally be safe.

The narcissist survived by feeling less: shutting down their vulnerability, building walls, deciding that if they only cared about themselves, no one could ever hurt them again.

Neither is weak. Neither is strong. Both are adaptations. Both are wounds.

But survival is not the same as healing. And if we don't heal, those childhood strategies can follow us into adulthood - shaping the way we love, the way we connect, and the way we see ourselves.

08/30/2025

How a man treats you when he's angry says more about his character than anything else. If he truly loves and respects you, he will never let his emotions turn into cruelty. Even in frustration, he will speak to you with care because his love doesn't waver based on his mood.

On the other hand, if anger makes him disrespectful, dismissive, or even hateful, that's not just a "bad moment" - it's a red flag.

Real love doesn't come with insults, manipulation, or emotional abuse. A man who values you will never risk damaging your heart just because he's upset. He will take a step back, communicate, and handle disagreements with maturity. If you find yourself constantly excusing toxic behavior with "he was just mad," take a step back. Respect and love should remain constant, no matter the emotions involved

08/30/2025

Some of us weren't taught how to receive love. We were taught how to earn it. So we became the "easy ones." Supportive. Quiet. Low-maintenance. Never asked for too much. Never made a fuss. Not because we didn't have needs but because we learned that having needs made us a burden. Now we're adults and love still feels like something we must perform for. Something we have to deserve. We over-give. We apologise for our emotions. We shrink ourselves to keep the peace. And when we finally speak up-when we ask to be held, to be seen, to be chosen-we panic. We spiral. We tell ourselves: "I knew it. I'm too much."

But you were never too much. You were just trying to survive a world that made you believe.

08/29/2025

A man is meant to be a provider. No matter how much this generation tries to twist or water down that truth, it remains a foundation of what real masculinity is about. Somewhere along the way, the lines blurred and the bare minimum started being celebrated as enough. Suddenly, women who asked for stability, consistency, or leadership were accused of being “too demanding” or “gold-diggers.” But the reality is wanting a man who provides isn’t about greed. It’s about security, respect, and mindset.

Being a provider has little to do with just money. A man’s role is bigger than paying bills. A provider is someone who shows up, who takes responsibility, and who makes his woman feel safe, supported, and cherished. He doesn’t just hold her hand in public; he stands by her side through life. He knows that his role is not simply romantic... it is foundational. Without that, a relationship can’t stand firm.

A true provider takes pride in protecting, leading, and building. He doesn’t just cover financial needs - he provides emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. He makes it clear through his actions that she doesn’t have to carry everything alone. And while she may be strong, capable, and independent, he doesn’t sit back and watch her drain herself to prove it. He steps in, because real men understand that love is about partnership, not burden.

It’s not about control, nor about silencing her strength. It’s about balance. A real man doesn’t want to see the woman he loves overextending herself just to feel secure. He provides not because she can’t, but because she shouldn’t have to do it all alone. It’s a choice rooted in care, respect, and responsibility. That’s the difference between talking about love and actually building it.

Too many men hide behind words, potential, or half hearted effort. But effort without results, promises without actions, and dreams without direction are empty. A man who truly loves won’t leave his woman drowning in stress while he coasts in comfort. He doesn’t just talk about what he wants to do... he gets up and does it. That’s what separates a boy from a man.

So no, women aren’t wrong for wanting more. They’re not lowering the standard by expecting provision, protection, and presence. Being independent doesn’t mean they don’t deserve support. Being strong doesn’t mean they don’t crave peace. At the end of the day, no matter what this generation normalizes - one thing will always remain true. A man who truly loves his woman will provide for her. Not just with money, but with protection, with presence, and most importantly with peace.

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