11/09/2025
Meet the performative male. In a white tee and baggy jeans, adorned with wired earbuds and a colorful Labubu, he walks confidently, matcha latte in one hand and his latest light reading — a feminist book — in the other. His unique appearance begs the question: is this genuine self-expression or manufactured compassion?
Over the summer, social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram exploded with references to the “performative male,” a stereotype coined for men who engage in “feminine” activities, from liking artists like Laufey’s music and enjoying matcha. They usually present themselves in a less dominant, softer light to attract the female gaze. On TikTok, videos about the topic have gained over 28 million views. The trend has even inspired “performative male” contests at colleges like Columbia and NYU.
Full article: https://harkeraquila.com/92376/arts-entertainment-lifestyle/supportive-or-performative-how-the-performative-male-impacts-gender-dynamics/
Reporting by Lily Peng and Saria Lum
Illustration by Lily Peng