The Recalibration

The Recalibration You’ve mastered the how. Now recalibrate the who. When identity is aligned, life finally feels as good as it looks.

For high-capacity humans who’ve built impressive lives yet feel the quiet tension between who they are and who they’ve had to be.

How do you end the year? This isn’t a vision board workshop or another goal-setting session.It’s a guided Recalibration ...
12/09/2025

How do you end the year?

This isn’t a vision board workshop or another goal-setting session.

It’s a guided Recalibration — 10 soul-anchored questions designed to help you end the year in alignment, not exhaustion.

Whether this year stretched you, surprised you, or left you standing in the middle of both gratitude and grief, this space is for you.

Come ready to slow down, listen deeply, and leave with clarity that lasts beyond December.

Finish the year at peace and enter the next one already aligned.

What to Expect

+Ten guided reflection prompts that move you from reflection to realignment

+A fresh perspective on how to close this year with peace and direction

+Space to realign vertically, regain clarity, and remember who you were created to be.

Tonight 5:00-6:00 PM PT
We start and end on time.
Registration Link in Bio

12/09/2025

“Why can’t I slow down — even when I want to?”

If stillness feels like threat and motion feels like oxygen, that isn’t personality.
That’s wiring.

Burnout doesn’t show up as collapse.
It shows up as, “I can’t keep going… but I also can’t stop.”

This week on The Recalibration Podcast, we’re retraining that system at the root
so safety stops sounding like pressure, and starts feeling like peace.

🎙️ Listen daily to The Recalibration Podcast.
⏱️ 10 minutes.
🍥 1 Micro-Recalibration.
🔥 Your whole system will feel the shift
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If you've ever questioned your alcohol use, if you've been one of those who Googled "Am I an alcoholic?" and then immedi...
12/03/2025

If you've ever questioned your alcohol use, if you've been one of those who Googled "Am I an alcoholic?" and then immediately deleted your search history so know one would know-

THIS IS FOR YOU.

I didn't have a "rock bottom" moment.

I didn't get a DUI.

But something about my relationship with alcohol felt "off".

I didn't feel safe talking about it because I didn't want to be labeled.

I wish I had an opportunity like this a few years ago...

A chance to have a safe container to be a fly on the wall and listen to the questions and answers or to find my 10 seconds of courage and ask questions that require radical vulnerability.

Tomorrow evening I'm hosting a live Q & A with best selling author Jon Seidl.

This is a small container setting and NO REPLAY WILL BE SENT OUT.

Jon's recent best seller, Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic (and companion podcast), massively helped me see and name my misordered relationship with alcohol- and so much more.

If this piques your curiosity slightly, then I highly encourage you to join us tomorrow evening live.

This is an off-the-record space where you can be curious without fear, ask any question, and receive honest, grace-filled guidance.

If you’ve wondered about your own relationship with alcohol or if you simply want clarity without judgment I’d love to have you there.

The registration link is in the comments and/or my bio.

You don't have to be an "alcoholic" to have a drinking problem....Because I’ve been open about my own story, I’ve found ...
11/30/2025

You don't have to be an "alcoholic" to have a drinking problem....

Because I’ve been open about my own story, I’ve found myself in conversations I never would’ve had otherwise and the common thread is this:

Most people still believe that unless you’re an “alcoholic,” you don’t have a drinking problem.

That black and white mindset created years of confusion for me.

I felt embarrassed.

Ashamed.

Afraid to speak honestly because I didn’t want anyone slapping a label on me simply for being curious about my own patterns.

But God is kind and in that season, He crossed my path with bestselling author Jon Seidl, who had just begun writing Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic (an immediate best seller in multiple categories).

Jon was the first person I heard explain that the DSM-5 doesn’t treat alcohol use as a binary. It’s a spectrum — mild, moderate, severe — not a yes or no.

It was the first time anything made sense. I also learned there’s a difference between alcohol abuse and alcohol dependence. That clarity was extremely helpful in understanding myself.

If this piques your curiosity slightly, then I highly encourage you to join us this Wednesday evening.

I’m hosting a live Q&A with Jon.

This is an off-the-record space where you can be curious without fear, ask any question, and receive honest, grace-filled guidance.

If you’ve wondered about your own relationship with alcohol — or if you simply want clarity without judgment — I’d love to have you there.

Register in advance and come live with curiosity and question-
NO REPLAY WILL BE AVAILABLE. https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/XY3MJo1aRVKuSua0gs31mA

Most high-capacity humans don’t realize this…The pressure they feel isn’t coming from the outside.It’s coming from the p...
11/26/2025

Most high-capacity humans don’t realize this…

The pressure they feel isn’t coming from the outside.
It’s coming from the places inside where they’ve learned to override themselves in the name of being capable, steady, reliable, the one who can hold it all.

Your nervous system will call it normal.
Your calendar will call it responsibility.
But your soul knows the difference between pressure and purpose.

This week inside The Recalibration, we’ve been walking through the weight of untended potential — the kind you carry because people saw strength in you long before you had the chance to choose where that strength should go.

And if you’ve been feeling something stirring, this carousel is for you.

Two simple identity-level strategies to help you see the pressure you’ve absorbed:

• The Pressure Audit: Where did you override yourself this week?
• The Alignment Test: Would I choose this if no one expected it?

These questions reveal what your body has been trying to tell you for years:
Not everything you can carry is meant to be carried.

Your potential is sacred.
Your peace is sacred.
Your identity was never meant to live under someone else’s expectations.

If this landed in your chest or softened something inside you, come join me in The Recalibration Live. It’s where we take these truths from understanding into embodiment — gently, powerfully, together.

You don’t have to carry your potential alone anymore.

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You’ve been told your strength is the reason people trust you.But somewhere along the way, strength became performance.P...
11/18/2025

You’ve been told your strength is the reason people trust you.

But somewhere along the way, strength became performance.

Power became proving.
Excellence became obligation.
And now the very identity that once protected you is the one quietly draining you.

You don’t need to collapse to rest.
You don’t need to scale back your vision to breathe.
You don’t have to choose between your power and your peace.

The shift is internal:

Lead from who you are — not from who you had to be to survive.
Your life doesn’t need you to perform anymore.

It needs you to be home in yourself.

Listen to Episode 195: How to Stop Performing and Still Succeed.
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Most high-capacity humans aren’t running out of time.They’re running out of themselves.You’ve built the life, the busine...
11/12/2025

Most high-capacity humans aren’t running out of time.
They’re running out of themselves.

You’ve built the life, the business, the credibility.
You’ve mastered momentum.

But if peace feels like something you have to earn, you’re no longer leading — you’re performing.

Stillness doesn’t steal your edge.
It sharpens it.

Ambition isn’t the problem.
Misalignment is.

You were never meant to trade momentum for peace.
You were designed to hold both.

These are the truths most high-capacity humans never say out loud.
The reminders that keep your soul in the work and your work in alignment with the One who called you.

Save this for when success starts to feel heavy.

And if you’re ready to move from pressure to peace — this week’s episode of The Recalibration Podcast will meet you there.
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If you’ve spent most of your life holding things together,the projects, the people, the peace,you probably didn’t choose...
11/04/2025

If you’ve spent most of your life holding things together,
the projects, the people, the peace,
you probably didn’t choose pressure.

You adapted to it.
Somewhere along the way, your nervous system learned that success meant safety.

That if you stayed steady, produced results, kept showing up,
everything and everyone would be okay.

It wasn’t ambition. It was protection.
And for a while, it worked.

Until the very thing that once gave you stability
started draining the life out of you.

Because the truth is, your brain doesn’t crave success.
It craves safety.
And if your safety has always depended on performance,
stillness will feel unsafe until your body learns otherwise.

That’s what recalibration does.
It teaches your system that peace can protect you better than pressure ever did.

You don’t have to stop being excellent.
You just have to stop proving you are.
Your nervous system mistook achievement for safety.
Your identity fused with performance.

And the recalibration is learning to live from peace, not for it.

When peace becomes your protection,
you can finally lead, love, and create without the weight.

🎧 Listen to this week’s episodes of The Recalibration
The Gift and the Grip of Excellence
where we unpack how to stay excellent without losing yourself.
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💫 Join me Friday for a Free Live Recalibration Session
A space to breathe, reflect, and reset your rhythm.

Because you’re safe to pause.
And stillness is where strength resets.

**LIVE IN ONE HOUR** While the world puts masks on, we’ll be taking ours off.In one hour, we go live for the very first ...
10/31/2025

**LIVE IN ONE HOUR**

While the world puts masks on, we’ll be taking ours off.

In one hour, we go live for the very first Recalibration Live — where this week’s podcast becomes practice.

If life looks full but doesn’t feel full, this is your invitation to return to the place success can’t touch — your true self.

This isn’t another training. It’s an experience of what happens when you stop performing for peace and start living from it.

One hour of alignment that will shift how you move through everything else.

Join me live and come home to yourself again. 💛

"Live Recalibration Training" link to join in bio

See you soon!

Why doesn’t “doing your best” feel like it used to?You’ve built the life, hit the milestones, and kept the pace.From the...
10/30/2025

Why doesn’t “doing your best” feel like it used to?

You’ve built the life, hit the milestones, and kept the pace.

From the outside, everything looks good but inside, it doesn’t feel like it should.

That quiet misalignment is what we’re recalibrating this Friday.

The Gift and the Grip of Excellence
When devotion turns into depletion, excellence starts to feel like survival instead of strength.

But when you learn to shift what’s fueling your pace, peace and power finally move in the same direction.

In this free Live Recalibration Session, I’ll guide you through the same process I use with my private clients so you can experience what identity-level alignment actually feels like.

You’ll walk away with:
• Clarity on why approval and belonging often drive exhaustion
• A felt understanding of how to practice without proving
• A new rhythm that lets you move fast from peace, not pressure

The Live Recalibration Session
🕙 Friday | 10.31.25 @10 AM PST
🎧 Free through the end of 2025
📩 DM LIVE to get the link (and the replay if you can’t join live)

You don’t need to abandon excellence.
You just need to recalibrate the identity beneath it.

Because when identity aligns, success finally feels like it should.

Reading quality books that expanded and challenged my perceptions was powerful. Reading and discussing in community? 10x...
10/29/2025

Reading quality books that expanded and challenged my perceptions was powerful.

Reading and discussing in community?
10x

The 5 Week Book & Networking Club was paused for two years because I needed to recalibrate.

I didn't have words for it then, but now I have a full lexicon to explain my journey from high performer to high capacity human.

Let me be clear, my high performance drive and determination didn't disappear.

What I know now is that high performance is a tool I use- not who I am.

I refuse to build a life from pressure, proving, and dysregulation and my capabilities and capacity are no longer wielded against myself.

I believed I needed more hacks, habits, and strategies...turns out accumulating those over years was weighing me down.

Free things you can do to recalibrate:

🌟 Read good books.
🌟 Have meaningful conversation about them.
🌟 Join the 5 Week Book & Networking Club.
🌟 Come to my live Recalibration trainings Fridays 10 AM through the end of 2025. (Registration link in comments.)

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