02/02/2025
Want to finally get over them? Stop romanticizing a version of them that never really existed.
Your brain is keeping them on a pedestal—not because they were actually perfect, but because of the story you’ve built around them. Was it really love, or was it familiarity? Was it about them, or was it about the fears they triggered in you—scarcity, self-worth, rejection?
No one said moving on is easy, but the first step is seeing them clearly. Take the shine off. Get real about what was actually there. That’s where real healing begins.
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