Dearly Beloved Enneagram Training

Dearly Beloved Enneagram Training My name is Heath Davis Havlick, and I’m on a mission to help people find their true selves so that Have you ever felt like maybe there is more to life? Welcome.

That there might be some grand design for your time here on Earth – and that you're missing out on it? You love Jesus, you’re doing all the “right” stuff and trying your best, but you just have that gnawing sense that it’s not enough. Or it’s all just left you feeling really unsatisfied, even empty. Ever wondered why certain parts of your life just don't work, despite your best efforts, or why you

have the same three arguments with your spouse over and over? Or—gulp—you know in theory that God loves everyone but wonder why He doesn't much care for you in particular? If any or all of this applies to you, then you have found your tribe! I’m Heath, and I care about your destiny. Both the one on this Earth and the eternal one. So, I’m dedicated to helping you discover your true self so that you can be who you were created to be. Once you’re clear on who you really are, your life overflows with joy and peace. That unsettling, nagging feeling subsides. You have amazing compassion for yourself and for others. I’m not talking about a spiritual gifts assessment here, or what color your parachute is. I spent a lot of years operating at the surface level, the level of personality, and they were years of frustration, guilt and striving. But over the last 10 years, God in His kindness has shown me some truths and given me some tools to really cut through the noise and get to the core of human behavior – how different it is from what God intended, the ways that it robs us of our destiny and how to begin the journey back to our true selves. The Enneagram is one of those tools, and you’ll see me writing about it a lot, but there are other tools as well. I hope you’ll join me on this journey, because I really do care about your destiny. Just imagine what the world would be like if it were full of Christians living out their true purpose with love and joy! You can go to https://dearly-beloved-personal-discovery-programs.myshopify.com/products/know-yourself-to-know-god-audio-program-30-day-journal for information on my audio program, “Know Yourself to Know God.” You can join the online community by liking this page. And you can read my (semi)weekly blog posts here: http://uncoverydiscovery.com/. About me: I’ve been following Jesus for more than 40 years, and I love him like nobody’s business. He is better than I could make up. He’s everything. I’ve been a writer since I could hold a pencil, and I’ve won awards in three genres (poetry, journalism, screenwriting). I teach, write and speak on how people can find their true selves so they can live out their destiny and give God maximum glory. I’m married to one of the best humans ever, Tom Havlick, and together we are shunned by yet continue to spoil Pixie the Wonder Cat. You can reach me at [email protected].

11/26/2025

It’s here - my annual Black Friday – Cyber Monday sale! Almost 300 items to choose from, many of which can be personalized. All proceeds further, my Enneagram work! Check the link in my bio to get to my Etsy store. Happy shopping!

11/25/2025

This Thursday through Monday, get that Christmas list DONE! Ornaments, mugs, shirts, tote bags, cell phone cases and more! Many can be personalized. All purchases further my Enneagram work: https://wordcraftgoods.etsy.co

Are you a writer? Or do you have one or more writers in your life?I've assembled a writer's gift guide because 'tis the ...
11/15/2025

Are you a writer? Or do you have one or more writers in your life?

I've assembled a writer's gift guide because 'tis the season!

Many of the items in the guide are from my Etsy shop, and all purchases help me to keep writing, teaching, speaking, paying website bills etc. Your support is appreciated!

Link's in the comments.

11/13/2025

I've created a gift guide for the Enneagram fans in your life. Check the comments for the link! And maybe pick up something for yourself...

Remember, all proceeds go to help me spread the word about the Enneagram!

11/01/2025
09/24/2025

This is a poem from one of my favorite poets. Even if you're not into poetry, I hope you'll take a minute, because this is powerful.

Chorus by Seamus Heaney from The Cure at Troy

Human beings suffer,
They torture one another.
They get hurt and get hard,
Can fully right a wrong
Inflicted and endured.

History says, Don’t hope
On this side of the grave,
But then, once in a lifetime
The longed-for tidal wave
Of justice can rise up
And hope and history rhyme.

So hope for a great sea-change
On the far side of revenge.
Believe that the farther shore
Is reachable from here.
Believe in miracles
And cures and healing wells.

Call miracle self-healing,
The utter self-revealing
Double-take of feeling.
If there’s fire on the mountain
And lightning and storm
And a god speaks from the sky

That means someone is hearing
The outcry and birth-cry
Or new life at its term.
It means once in a lifetime
That justice can rise up
And hope and history rhyme.

Another hot take on a trend!Again, the original on the left is clever, but I wanted to give it a kinder spin.The shirt o...
08/16/2025

Another hot take on a trend!

Again, the original on the left is clever, but I wanted to give it a kinder spin.

The shirt on the right is what I came up with.

If you want to get a sweet shirt and also support my Enneagram work, check the comments for how to do that.

Ever feel like your relationship patterns have a mind of their own?The Enneagram can tell you what you do.Object Relatio...
08/11/2025

Ever feel like your relationship patterns have a mind of their own?

The Enneagram can tell you what you do.
Object Relations Theory can tell you why you do it.

Put them together, and you have a roadmap for understanding the unconscious patterns that shape your connections at work, at home and everywhere in between.

In my latest blog post, I break down:

Each Enneagram type’s core object relation

How it plays out in real life

Subtle ways to spot these patterns in yourself and others

If you want deeper self-awareness and better relationships, this is worth the read.

Hot take on a trend!The shirt on the left is trending, and I gotta admit - it's funny.But I wanted to make my own versio...
07/26/2025

Hot take on a trend!

The shirt on the left is trending, and I gotta admit - it's funny.

But I wanted to make my own version, so here's mine on the right.

It's hard to see in this image, but the scripture is Zeph. 3:17: "He will take great delight in you."

It's available at my Etsy shop in five colors; see below for deets! And remember, all proceeds go towards my Enneagram work.

What’s your relationship with food: healthy, unhealthy, somewhere in between? Are you afraid of certain foods? Is food s...
07/13/2025

What’s your relationship with food: healthy, unhealthy, somewhere in between? Are you afraid of certain foods? Is food something you barely think about (eat to live) or obsess over (live to eat)? And what in the world does it have to do with the Enneagram?

As it turns out, your personality type may significantly influence how you view and ingest food.

I was approached recently by the editor of a new journal, The Practical Enneagram, and asked to contribute an article on this topic.

It's just been published, so look in the comments for the link!

And if you read it, please let me know your thoughts on it. Did it resonate? Did I get something wrong? I'd love to get your feedback.

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