Dearly Beloved Enneagram Training

Dearly Beloved Enneagram Training My name is Heath Davis Havlick, and I’m on a mission to help people find their true selves so that Have you ever felt like maybe there is more to life? Welcome.

That there might be some grand design for your time here on Earth – and that you're missing out on it? You love Jesus, you’re doing all the “right” stuff and trying your best, but you just have that gnawing sense that it’s not enough. Or it’s all just left you feeling really unsatisfied, even empty. Ever wondered why certain parts of your life just don't work, despite your best efforts, or why you

have the same three arguments with your spouse over and over? Or—gulp—you know in theory that God loves everyone but wonder why He doesn't much care for you in particular? If any or all of this applies to you, then you have found your tribe! I’m Heath, and I care about your destiny. Both the one on this Earth and the eternal one. So, I’m dedicated to helping you discover your true self so that you can be who you were created to be. Once you’re clear on who you really are, your life overflows with joy and peace. That unsettling, nagging feeling subsides. You have amazing compassion for yourself and for others. I’m not talking about a spiritual gifts assessment here, or what color your parachute is. I spent a lot of years operating at the surface level, the level of personality, and they were years of frustration, guilt and striving. But over the last 10 years, God in His kindness has shown me some truths and given me some tools to really cut through the noise and get to the core of human behavior – how different it is from what God intended, the ways that it robs us of our destiny and how to begin the journey back to our true selves. The Enneagram is one of those tools, and you’ll see me writing about it a lot, but there are other tools as well. I hope you’ll join me on this journey, because I really do care about your destiny. Just imagine what the world would be like if it were full of Christians living out their true purpose with love and joy! You can go to https://dearly-beloved-personal-discovery-programs.myshopify.com/products/know-yourself-to-know-god-audio-program-30-day-journal for information on my audio program, “Know Yourself to Know God.” You can join the online community by liking this page. And you can read my (semi)weekly blog posts here: http://uncoverydiscovery.com/. About me: I’ve been following Jesus for more than 40 years, and I love him like nobody’s business. He is better than I could make up. He’s everything. I’ve been a writer since I could hold a pencil, and I’ve won awards in three genres (poetry, journalism, screenwriting). I teach, write and speak on how people can find their true selves so they can live out their destiny and give God maximum glory. I’m married to one of the best humans ever, Tom Havlick, and together we are shunned by yet continue to spoil Pixie the Wonder Cat. You can reach me at [email protected].

Another hot take on a trend!Again, the original on the left is clever, but I wanted to give it a kinder spin.The shirt o...
08/16/2025

Another hot take on a trend!

Again, the original on the left is clever, but I wanted to give it a kinder spin.

The shirt on the right is what I came up with.

If you want to get a sweet shirt and also support my Enneagram work, check the comments for how to do that.

Ever feel like your relationship patterns have a mind of their own?The Enneagram can tell you what you do.Object Relatio...
08/11/2025

Ever feel like your relationship patterns have a mind of their own?

The Enneagram can tell you what you do.
Object Relations Theory can tell you why you do it.

Put them together, and you have a roadmap for understanding the unconscious patterns that shape your connections at work, at home and everywhere in between.

In my latest blog post, I break down:

Each Enneagram type’s core object relation

How it plays out in real life

Subtle ways to spot these patterns in yourself and others

If you want deeper self-awareness and better relationships, this is worth the read.

Hot take on a trend!The shirt on the left is trending, and I gotta admit - it's funny.But I wanted to make my own versio...
07/26/2025

Hot take on a trend!

The shirt on the left is trending, and I gotta admit - it's funny.

But I wanted to make my own version, so here's mine on the right.

It's hard to see in this image, but the scripture is Zeph. 3:17: "He will take great delight in you."

It's available at my Etsy shop in five colors; see below for deets! And remember, all proceeds go towards my Enneagram work.

What’s your relationship with food: healthy, unhealthy, somewhere in between? Are you afraid of certain foods? Is food s...
07/13/2025

What’s your relationship with food: healthy, unhealthy, somewhere in between? Are you afraid of certain foods? Is food something you barely think about (eat to live) or obsess over (live to eat)? And what in the world does it have to do with the Enneagram?

As it turns out, your personality type may significantly influence how you view and ingest food.

I was approached recently by the editor of a new journal, The Practical Enneagram, and asked to contribute an article on this topic.

It's just been published, so look in the comments for the link!

And if you read it, please let me know your thoughts on it. Did it resonate? Did I get something wrong? I'd love to get your feedback.

How is it that two Type Sixes with the same wing can seem so different? Why does your Three friend sometimes go from pos...
06/23/2025

How is it that two Type Sixes with the same wing can seem so different?

Why does your Three friend sometimes go from positive and capable to stressed and overworked?

It’s all about the Levels of Development.

Explore this important aspect of the Enneagram in my new blog post!

How is it that two Type Sixes with the same wing can seem so different? Why does your Three friend sometimes go from positive and capable to stressed and overworked? It’s all about the Levels of Development. Let’s explore this important aspect of the Enneagram. The Levs of Dev, as I like to call...

New podcast guest spot!
06/16/2025

New podcast guest spot!

Episode #031, The Art of Paying Attention

New YouTube video - finally!Did you know that Enneagram Types Four and Seven, which some would think are opposites, actu...
06/11/2025

New YouTube video - finally!

Did you know that Enneagram Types Four and Seven, which some would think are opposites, actually have a lot in common?

Take a look at my new video for the deets! (See link in first comment.)

This is beyond frustrating! The below is a review on Goodreads for my new book, "Know Yourself to Know God." What's so f...
06/06/2025

This is beyond frustrating!

The below is a review on Goodreads for my new book, "Know Yourself to Know God." What's so frustrating is that people have been lied to. There's NOTHING unbiblical about understanding how your brain works!

Fortunately, the two ladies who responded actually did read the book, and the second one left a lovely review about how the book helped her. But that first "reviewer"s mindset is one I've come up against before. Some Christians think it's wrong to know yourself, seeing it as being self-focused instead of other-focused. But it's a false dichotomy.

You can - and, I feel, should - do both. It's a two-way street, and interactive relationship. As you come to understand yourself better, you can let go of what hinders you from knowing God and serving others more fully. So, I'll keep trying to educate and help whoever will let me.

New podcast guest spot!I spoke with Wanako Oberhuber, host of possibly the best-named podcast ever: "The Holy Spirit's C...
05/13/2025

New podcast guest spot!

I spoke with Wanako Oberhuber, host of possibly the best-named podcast ever: "The Holy Spirit's Curriculum of Joy."

We had a good conversation & a listener even asked some great questions at the end. I enjoy speaking with people whose theology doesn't exactly match my own; we've got to get out of the church walls once in a while, right? 😉

I hope you'll take a listen!

In this conversation we explore her life, faith and the eneagram with many sprinkles from A Course In Miracles.Such a depth is available to explore the love ...

05/11/2025

First, Happy Mother's Day for all my mom followers!

I'm a cat mom, so that sort of counts. 😉

Second, I'll be talking to Wanako Oberhuber at 11:30 a.m. PT on Monday about the Enneagram & spiritual formation. Hope you can join us live!

05/03/2025

Enneagram Types Seven and Four are polar opposites - right?

Well, there's a bit more to it than that. It may seem like they don't have much in common at first, which will make these connections I discuss in my new blog post all the more surprising.

See the comment for the link!

It's Great Poetry Reading Day!Some of you know that I have a degree in poetry, so that makes me a little biased, but for...
04/28/2025

It's Great Poetry Reading Day!

Some of you know that I have a degree in poetry, so that makes me a little biased, but for me, poets enrich my experience of being human.

The best poets articulate the human struggle, along with its joys, in ways that are both new and instantly familiar.

I hope to get my first poetry collection out this year; we'll see how that goes. Meanwhile, here's my favorite poem of all time, by my favorite poet.

We cannot know his legendary head

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