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Jenny White, 725 California Avenue, Santa Monica, CA (2026)

01/03/2026

I get this for my unforgivable mistake of saying “mhm” instead of yes

12/31/2025

Is this becoming a regular thing for GrubHub drivers? I already tipped and they text me asking for more

12/31/2025

AIO for not wanting to continue dating after our first date and night together?

I (29M) matched with a guy (36M) on Tinder. We quickly moved to WhatsApp, exchanged photos, and got to know each other. From the start he mentioned his drinking problem, depression (going on 9 years), and weight issues. Whenever I complimented him, he dismissed it with “They all say that” or “No, I’m fat.” I reassured him that I didn’t mind as long as he was healthy.

By the second day of chatting he was already saying “love you” and using romantic emojis. I’m a hopeless romantic myself, but this felt way too fast. I tried to be kind and understanding, especially when he shared his struggles. But when I mentioned that I enjoy w**d occasionally (I don’t think I’m addicted, it helps with anxiety and creativity since I’m an artist), he called me an addict and used slurs. I assumed it was a misunderstanding over text and agreed to meet in person.

The date itself was fine at first. But later he insisted on coming to my place. I had already told him I didn’t want to “go all in” on the first date, but I’m a people pleaser and said yes. At my place, he drank more and kept dismissing me in small ways — like when I said I felt cold, he replied “no, it’s warm.” He also never let me play my music, cut me off when I spoke, and called me “lucky” to have my apartment (rented) and job, even after I explained that I’ve gone through a lot to get here.

He started saying things like “Are you all in or all out?”, “You need a husband in this home,” and “We’ll live together” — all after one date. He also got jealous about my friends, saying “they’re not real friends” or “he must be in love with you if he gives you gifts.”

Later that night he tried several times to initiate intimacy until I gave in. We slept together, and the next morning I walked him to the train station. Afterward, I sent him an honest message saying I didn’t think we were compatible in the long run but that I enjoyed parts of the night. At first he seemed to accept it, but later he blew up in messages, calling me disgusting, a liar, a drug addict, and even saying I’m a w***e who doesn’t deserve a decent man.

Now I feel guilty and confused. I tried to be kind, honest, and respectful, but his reaction was so extreme that I’m questioning myself.

He thinks I am a s*x-boy who has great self confidence and very social. Which is the opposite. I have self esteem issues and usually very concerned about others opinions on me, which made me feel kinda hurt hearing all these messages. I am attaching texts happened after I left him to train station.

12/31/2025

Am I the A**hole?

I'll totally admit that I very well could've said nothing (my apt is close to the exterior or my building so I went out and got my order and didn't ask for a refund...but the bag got yeeted cuz the driver put it directly in front of a door that opened outwards) but I left a solid tip and I felt that if I pay for a service it should be done correctly. I also did GrubHub back in the day and I delivered to units all the time...if I felt uncomfy once I saw the address I'd call support and ask to unassign.

So who's the bigger a hole here? Me or driver?

12/31/2025

I’m not even trans, I just support trans rights.

12/31/2025

AIO - my ex won’t give back my phone

okay so almost a year ago now my ex was being stupid and reckless with his phone and broke it, so i offered him my old one to use as a temporary fix until he gets a new one, but we broke up around the end of sept/start of oct. the only reason i kept this phone after i got my new one was so that i could use it as an emergency fund and sell it if financial times ever got tough - as a broke uni student it seemed like a good idea and i was under the impression that he’d be using it for a month or two months max before returning it to me, which is why i was willing to lend it to him. i made these terms explicit when i agreed to this, and he knows the instability of my financial situation and that it was my emergency fund. the breakup i thought was civil, and i thought we were on amicable terms - not friends but like hypothetically we wouldn’t get into a fight if we ran into each other on the street yk? i broke things off with him, but i didn’t think to ask about the phone in the moment of the breakup.

in december, i didn’t have enough money to buy groceries, pay my bills, or pay my rent so i reached out to him asking if i could find a way to get my phone back because it’s ultimately mine. that’s where the instagram dms are from - u can see how that went - and he just stopped replying all together after mid december. he also ignored my friend messaging her about it despite him still watching her stories, and has since soft blocked me on ig.

the feb messages are from when i tried calling him abt it because again my financial situation wasn’t good and he STILL wouldn’t pick up or respond, which is when i sent the long message. the messages after that were sent after i called on no caller id and he finally picked up, but when i said hello? he didn’t say a word and immediately hung up. i’ve threatened him w small claims court after following my friends’ advice, but my mum says i’m taking it too far. am i overreacting? i feel like it’s pretty fu***ng audacious to ignore me on MY OWN phone. i know it’s not worth much now but as a broke student that money can feed me for a few weeks!!! i’m struggling paycheck to paycheck as i can’t work full time so every little helps and i feel like he’s not giving me much choice. advice would be appreciated 🥲

12/30/2025

Update: Am I overreacting, grad school professor accused me of using AI to write my final report

Thank you all so much for your support, kind words, and suggestions. I tried to upvote or respond to as many comments as possible. You really helped put my anxiety at ease last night and I'm glad I found the courage to say something! It was also interesting to hear other teachers'/professors' opinions on this matter. Here is the rather anti-climatic email response from my professor, which many of you have asked for!

(and despite what her email says, no, my final grade in the course is not yet posted so I don't know if she adjusted my paper's grade or not...)

A couple of things I should've addressed in my original post but didn't because I was too overwhelmed with anxiety/frustration at the time:

This professor is kind and intelligent. She was never out to get me and she was (mostly) a pleasure during the semester. I did well in her class due to my participation/attendance/assignments so I'm not worried about my overall grade. I sent that email in my previous post purely on principle, because I don't think it's fair for a student's hard work to be diminished/disregarded with baseless accusations. I am frustrated with her for using an unreliable detection tool, but I also have sympathy. I can't imagine how challenging it is to distinguish authentic work from AI-generated work as a professor these days. Until better detection tools are developed, she's working with what she's got -- for better or for worse.

Regardless, I wholeheartedly agree that if a professor suspects a student is using AI, they shouldn't have a lukewarm response like this (i.e. deducting petty points). That is a serious issue and warrants either an immediate zero on the assignment/exam or escalation for academic dishonesty, especially in the sciences. You gotta shut that s**t down before it can gain momentum, you know? Based on what many of you have said, AI can be useful up to a certain point. I think society at large is still learning what that "point" is.

With that being said, I'm still on the fence about whether I need to push this issue far enough to involve department heads, deans, etc. A LOT of you started picking up your pitchforks and torches on my behalf, and although I sincerely appreciate the outrage/disbelief, I don't feel the need to sue the university over this. If I was facing expulsion, suspension, or permanent record damages, then absolutely. But for a course that I'll still have a B+/A in at the end of the day? Not so much. I'm glad I wrote an email instead of calling for a meeting, as I now have a paper trail in case anything does come from this. I do understand that this is an issue that reaches beyond my current situation, but I also have reason to believe that if I *do* try to escalate things, they'll just wave me off and return the deducted points without argument because the stakes are not high enough in this particular scenario.

Last but not least, I'm flattered by those of you who still think I used AI in both my essay AND my email. Lol. It's not perfect, but I'm not afraid to take pride in my writing skills/style, as I've been doing creative and scientific/technical writing for as long as I can remember. It's my main hobby and my biggest escape from reality -- the confidence that I lack in face-to-face communication is saved by my strengths in written communication! But yeah, it would've been really funny if I did use AI in my email (and even funnier if she called me out on it) lol

Thank you all once again for your support and advice; you made me feel like less of an as***le! Some of you honestly made me tear up from your kindness. If you're a student/teacher, best of luck with the end of the semester! And please, for the love of god, do not use AI for assignments or grading :)

12/30/2025

Found my phone 2 months later, is this a scam?

reposting because i forgot to censor his number My husband is 100% convinced this is some scam, and thinks it's where they record your voice to get to your family/bank account, etc. since he wants to talk on the phone. I'm more hopeful this is a good Samaritan but hes making me paranoid it is a scam. When I lost the phone originally I went through and logged out/changed passwords on everything I could think of so hoping that's not an issue.

What do you think?

12/30/2025

Am I overreacting that my (31F) boyfriend (31M) didn’t take the day off for me

Last night, I got the news that a family member of mine is in hospice. It was very unexpected. They are states away and I’m planning on flying out for day this weekend. This family member still has their faculties, and I will be visiting with them and saying goodbyes, and I’m really struggling to process this and everything. I’ve never gone through anything like that before. I told my boyfriend who I’ve been with for over 10 years and have a small business with. I’ve kind of been in a daze, off and on crying. Last night he asked me about today and what I wanted to do, for context I’m in school remotely currently as well, I just said I didn’t wanna be alone. I didn’t go to sleep till 6 AM this morning, we both woke up at noon. I had weird fever dreams, and didn’t sleep well, so I just feel out of it. He got dressed for work, and then sat next to me, asking me what he should do, his way of asking if he should go to work, but it’s not really a question, that’s why he got dressed. I asked him not to seek validation from me right now. We both knew that he wanted to go to work, but felt bad about it, so he was like asking for permission from me. To be honest, I just didn’t want to deal with it, I didn’t want to talk about it, or think about it. He went to work of course, and now, of course, I’m thinking about it. We have a history where I feel everything is on me all the time, like I’m the only adult in the room. But I could’ve just saved us the stress, and said stay home, but then I would’ve felt bad, and I feel bad enough already, and I wanted him to make the decision, so I just made a mess of things. Am I overreacting? I feel out of it, between everything. I don’t know. It’s a lot, you guys, sorry.

12/30/2025

Am I overreacting for thinking my bf cheated on me during his shore leave because he accidentally sent me a photo of a pr******te he visited at the request of a colleague?

My boyfriend (32) and I (F32) have been dating for about five months. We used to date back when we 18/19 years old, but reconnected last year and started dating in late December. For context, he is a deck officer working on cargo ships. He was on vacation when we started dating, but in late January, I came to the UK to do my postgraduate degree. So, we have been in a long-distance relationship for the past 4.5 months. He went back to work in early May.

The ship on which he's working is now anchored in Colombia, and during his shore leave on Wednesday (he told me that he had only four hours to be outside), he went outside to buy some snacks and liquor bottles. He texted me when he was going out. That was around 16:00 COT (22:00 BST). We texted for about three hours after he until I fell asleep around 01:00. He had replied to my last text somewhere around 02:00. On Thursday morning, he accidentally sent me a photo of a pr******te that he had taken from his photo (he's using a Galaxy S23 ultra, and has the time and date watermark on them). When I asked about it, he said he visited this woman at the request of the second officer, who apparently wanted to see the woman before getting her services and that he was supposed to send it to him. I don't know whether I should believe him. The photo was taken around 20:00 COT, which means that he was outside for more than four hours.

Initially I did have some trust issues because my ex cheated on me twice. So, after I started dating my current boyfriend, we had some arguments in the first two months of our relationship because of my trust issues. But at some point, I started to trust him completely and I didn't have an ounce of doubt about him, and we both had this understanding that the other person would not cross the boundary with the opposite s*x. We are a very laid-back couple. Even when we argue, we don't let it escalate and we both apologise and make peace. But in this situation, I'm unsure about what to do. He also hasn't tried to reach out after that last text, and neither have I. Part of me wants to believe him, but what if choosing to believe him means that I am being blissfully ignorant of the fact that he is cheating on me like I was in my previous relationship?

So am I overreacting? How should I handle this situation?

(He later deleted the photo from the chat but it was still in my gallery)

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