07/18/2025
I told my husband I couldn’t handle doing housework, raising the children, and going back to work again just to help his mother — and what he said left me in shock. 😢😢
“You know very well that we’re barely getting by. If you want to help your mother — find a side job. But I won’t allow us to support her at the expense of our kids.”
“Yes, she helped us in the past, and I appreciate that. But let’s be honest — she’s not homeless, she has a place to live, a pension. Why are we now supposed to carry this burden for the rest of her life?”
“But she’s not asking for much…” Lucas said uncertainly. “She’s getting older. We should take care of her. Maybe you should consider going back to work? It’s too much for me to support a wife, three children, and now my mom…”
“Why should you be the one to support her?” I snapped. “She has a pension! There’s no law saying you must financially support your adult mother.”
“This isn’t about law, Emma. It’s about conscience. Just like there’s no law saying a husband must support his wife after the kids turn three…”
“Oh, I see! So now we’re living by the law? I’m not staying home out of laziness. We have three kids — they need to be raised, educated, and fed!”
“Fine. I’ll go back to work. But let me make one thing clear — I’ll be a working mom of three. And with a living husband, I refuse to be the only one grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, doing homework, scrubbing floors on weekends, and doing laundry for the whole family.”
We’ll split the responsibilities — fairly. You’re used to coming home from work, turning on the TV, and sitting down to a hot meal. Well, forget that! If I’m working, you’ll be peeling potatoes while I do the laundry.
We’ll divide everything 50/50. Then let’s see how convenient my employment really is for you...
And then he said something… that made me drop the plate in my hands. It shattered loudly on the floor, and I stood there, stunned.
👉 Continued in the first comment.