06/15/2025
I don’t usually post much about my family, but in honor of Father’s Day, I want to share a bit about my dad.
He came to the U.S. from Laos when he was just 14, and he’s taught me so many things - what it means to work hard, speak up, express yourself, and to always help others when you can.
He’s been a USPS mail carrier since he was 18, working long hours through freezing cold and scorching heat (it was over 105°F last week), and he NEVER complains. When I came home for a doctor’s appointment last week, he was outside waiting, helped carry my bags in, and had food ready for me. When he got off work the next day, he saw that I was cleaning and washing my car, and he immediately came over to help, still in his work clothes.
Growing up with multiple disabilities, I often felt like an outsider. I worried about things I couldn’t control: my height, the way I talked, or bumping into people because I don’t always walk in a straight line lol. But my dad would always wear punny t-shirts and fluffy beanies with pride. He didn’t care what others thought, and he taught me to do the same. To accept yourself and to embrace every part that makes you YOU.
Thanks to that mindset, I accomplished my goals of becoming a Registered Nurse, co-authoring an article in an academic journal, moved to Seattle on my own, etc, because I didn’t let the critics or doubts stop me.
Nowadays, I strive to focus on what really matters - learning new skills, building genuine connections and relationships, being an advocate, and to not be afraid to challenge the status quo.
Happy Father’s Day, Dad!!!