07/16/2025
My boyfriend spent three months building this gaming loft for my ten-year-old son, who still won't look him in the eye when he says good morning.
Ever since Jake moved in with us last year, my son has made it clear that he's not interested in having a "replacement dad." He's polite enough when I'm around, but the cold shoulder treatment is real. Jake's been trying everything - offering to help with homework, suggesting video game sessions, even learning about Pokemon just to have something to talk about. Nothing worked.
Then Jake disappeared into the garage most weekends, claiming he was "working on a project." I figured he was just giving my son space, maybe building something for his own apartment that he'd been putting off.
Turns out he'd been watching woodworking tutorials and getting advice from DIY communities on the Tedooo app, learning how to build furniture from scratch. He'd never built anything more complicated than IKEA shelves, but he was determined to create something special.
When he finally revealed this gaming setup - complete with built-in storage, TV mount, and a cozy loft bed that feels like a treehouse - my son's jaw dropped. For the first time in months, he was speechless in a good way.
He's been camping out in there every evening since, and yesterday I caught him showing Jake how his favorite game works. Not exactly a warm hug, but it's progress. Jake just smiled and asked genuine questions about the characters and storylines.
Sometimes love isn't about grand gestures or forcing connections. Sometimes it's about quietly building something beautiful and then stepping back to let it work its magic.
The fact that my son finally said "thank you" without me prompting him feels like the biggest victory yet.