06/09/2026
Here's what most people miss when they start the home search.
The first call shouldn't be to a listing agent. It shouldn't even be to a lender, though that's close. It should be a real conversation about what this move actually looks like for your life over the next 5 to 10 years.
When I sit down with buyers, we talk through three things before we ever pull up a single property:
1. The non-negotiables vs. the nice-to-haves (these are almost never what people think they are walking in).
2. The full cost of ownership, not just the mortgage payment. Taxes, insurance, maintenance, the realistic emergency fund.
3. The timeline. Are we buying for the next chapter, or the next decade? That answer changes the entire strategy.
The homes come after. The neighborhoods come after. The offer strategy comes after.
A good agent slows you down before they speed you up. That's the whole job.
If you're thinking about buying in the next 6 to 12 months, this is the conversation worth having now. Not when you've already fallen in love with a listing online.
Double the perspective, double the care. Always.