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01/01/2024

To my all friends and family Have a WONDERFUL snd Happy New year!

12/25/2022

To All my Friends and Families, have a very Mary Christmas and a Wonderful new years. Be Safe and Enjoy!

10/13/2020

There is a time, when we face with the most deficult decision and make a choice between the softness of hours heart, and Truth as it is! We always want to follow our heart, but sometimes we have to, break down and make that heart ranching decision, for our own shake, and others who might be involved, if our decision doesn't make much of a sense to others, because they are in a DEFERENT position, specialty if they are in the recovering end, most likely it will be our mistake and we will always make the wrong decision, in their eyes, if they do not want to search a common ground and solve the DEFERENCES, only and the best things for ourself in our best interest and RELATIONSHIP with with other party might not be how we thought, in THAT case following THEIR leads could be the best ckoices everyone involved, ONCE A CARRIER CREMENAI IS ACCUSED OF ANY CRIME, IN THEIR EYES THEY NEVER DID ANYTHING WRONG, BECAUSE TJEY BELIEVE IN THEIR WAYS, UNFORTUNATELY WHEN A CRIME IS COMMITTED AGAINST A CARRIER CREMENAI, USING THEIR WAY IF LIFE, THATS WHEN THE NO LONGER BELIEVE IN THEIR OWN WAYS, WILL THEY EXCEPT DEFFIT ON THE CHARGES WERE MADE AGAINST THEM, probably never, instead they will be starting the blame game, and pull of lies and deseptision to trducule and degrade themselves without a simple remove or sorrow, AND THATS WHAT MAKES THEM SOCIOPATHIC CARRIER CREMINLS.

06/09/2020

Attachment is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another across time and space (Ainsworth, 1973; Bowlby, 1969). Attachment does not have to be reciprocal. One person may have an attachment to an individual which is not shared, ....
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04/01/2019

JELLASY IS THE ULTIMATE LOVE! OR IS IT!

Few days ago I ran into a person I used to know simply because we lived in the same place, as we ware talking we came talking about his sister who recently commitment su***de, and she was only 29 mother of three kids, and I was really surprised that he was happy about that, " He said she is in a better place, past few years had been living in the real hell" I kind of knew, about her situation, but, ever since I moved way, didn't keep in touch.
When I moved in that nabourhod, she was around 25 have some odd jobs, always broke, most I knew about her was she will come by or when ever see me bomb chegerate this was the unique part, she will always want two, it's like she will almost start crying if I would say no, so, eventually I started avoiding her and everyone in that area.
Few months later at late night, looked like no one was around, hot inside so I decided to come outside, to smoke, and here this deep voice, Have seen my girl? It kinda stratled me, but asked him, Who are you and who is your girl? He said her name and she is my girl, and you must be the cegaret guy, yei know she said you always gave one for me too!
I suprisezed said I did? I

01/28/2019

Thanks for all of your,ninterterest about " Arnie's Friendship House" no this will not be a tepycal long or short time shelter programs.
The primary parpourse and logic behind, this program, is basically changing the system, how if demands everyone to be in their best to be allowed to be in it, And igloiing the the very first reason someone fails out of the typical productive social gread us the super tight control and demanding, fast social structure, we create and put, the So -called Selfreachinesd Hamster Wheels , right in the middle of it, to survive as a speedo Meater Of our rather unmeaning ull boring, dead ended lifestyle, That is a very first reason, some of the people, rebail against the " The So-called Normal Life" In fact lot of therse people are highly amvesious, ctreative, educated, extremely motevatuve indevedual, who wants more out of this life, than what they were made to believe they can, and that frustration, along with, social and personal high yelled overly exorbitant demand of what we don't want, becomes primary cause of some of our addictions. And I fined this is absolutely assanite that, that same very principal which causes the problems, we use it a solution o the problems, Even worse we expect it to be the best way toseave it's purpous. And those whom it didn't work, ' Nothing wrong with the Brain washing, process, it was the best brain with thproblems. And that's where I disagree, with the current system. Everyone should be given an equal opportunity to to be what they want to do be, and should be given a reasonable time period, of their own ablity, No one can be pushed into a secucation, which they can't be on their comfort and interest, which motivates to the their achievement, not just a servical, AND THAT THE TRUE NATURE OF THE MOST INTEOAGENT SPECIES OF THIS UNIVERS, MAKE THE CHARGE, THAT NEEDED, WITH THE CHOICE AND IN THE RIGHT SPEED OF THE INDEVIDUAL ABELITY, NOT BY THE HEPROCATICE SOCIETY.
And that's what ganarates the true drive, for someone to be all they can be, not what others want them to be.
With my personal life experience, I know for a fact, I never once in my life felt like, I need to sevive, it was a always a choice,, How can I Thrive, and that naid all deferante, in my life, where u was able to ororitise my responsibility, fulfeal, them as I was able to comfort and care myself through all the heardship and unexpectedly unfortunat event's, without luseing the control, simply because, I had the choice, to set my own distantly. And I want that to be the way of everyone's life. Not just hand full of lucky ones And I will build a house for my friends and their families and friends to come, feel safe and secure r.enough, where they will have an opportunity to set their path, in a reasonable nanner and all the assistance we can provide, specially when the don't have worry about their loved ones been cared for, they can all be the Patt of the solution, as they all with their choices and opportunity, that searvs indevedual poourpous,

01/19/2019

Secret - Lies - Deception

All of us have a choice to decide, what we share about ourselves with others, THATS OUR BIRTH RIGHT! Even our spouses, are not entitled to that. Now if we, come out about the, SECRET, by LIEING, becomes DECEPTION! Now for some people- it doesn't matter what others thinks, it's okay, for them portray themselves lieing, Cheatting Deceptive people!
But those who care about their image, and have people they care about, should express themself as the fact is, "That something I don't want to share, for my own reasons" as simple as that, SECRET STAY'S - NO LIES -NO DECEPTION.

01/19/2019

Choices Of colors!

In this world we still have people, choose certain color to make others HAPPY, Even though they like the deferent color, they like to keep a secret from certain people, as a youngster it's OK, but as a grown up person, should make a decision about their choices, or that secret become a lie, and as the world turns, days of their life become a big pile of LIES AND KAIOTIC, and for those who become the part of SWITCHING COLOR! WHEN NOTHING ELSE OF IMPORTANCE OF OTHERS MATTER, TO THESE PEOPLE, WHY DOES THE COLOR?

12/02/2018

Food For Thought!

In the world of addiction, people are put into two catagory "The Adict " and " The Recovering Adict" , if we take it, in conceradtion that, for some of the addics have a leazatemate reason, EVEN THOUGHT, EVERY ADICT'S HAS A ABSOLUTELY REAL REASON, WHY THEY DO, WHAT THEY DO Few actually have, true physical, and physiological / emotional conditions, which, is so untooarable, that only way to cope with life is to suppress it.
I understand there are legal madecation, and treatment options, but for certain people, they don't work, whatever the reason is Financial or Simply a Matter Of Choice, Fact remains those people go through, a regular relapsing, and getting clean, " The Revolving Door Factor" throughout their life.
I personally have been part of the life of such people, as close friends and family, it's so unbelivele horrible, for everyone involved, The Addict and everyone who are part of their life, Father, Mother, Brothers, Sisters, Children Friends, all and all, goes through a painful emmotional roller coaster, ride of Hope, Expection, and The heart break, The Adict has their addiction to save them, for rest of the people, its tough luck, very little comfort, and that's why we see more of the children of an Adict, become one! , In the end, everyone gives up copmletly, I have seen a parents of a young girl, puts their daughter out, and closes the door, knowing what waits out their for her, And comfort themselves by saying "She brought it on herself". Some of these people in and out of the treatment centers 19 to 25 times in 15 years of their addiction, with every failed attempt, goes part of the hope! For everyone involved. Not to maintaion the legal nightmare this people goes through.
This is somethingno one should go through through! All we need is " THE THIRD OPTION, " THE FUNCTIONAL ADDICS" Living with addiction yet be functional and productive.
This is lot harder than, being an addict or recovering addict, because this takes what every addict don't want in their life , Discipline and Control" but with right mind set, little guidance, it can be done! I have seen this many times, have been a part of it. Even though I am not a perfect example, I know people who are so perfect, being functional, and maintaining their addiction, These are some very well established, and well achieved, in every aspect, of their persona,l and professional life. People who known then all their life, part of their dally life, had no idea.
We should put more emphasis on this. To better some of our friends and family, who simpply fade away, from our memories, our world, leaving the loved ones more questions than answer, may what ifs, yet a sense of relief!

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