10/25/2025
I'm really embarrassed to share this, but I desperately need your advice. I only have one real friend, and after today I'm not sure she's even that. I took her to see my wedding dress and she couldn't stop making faces before finally telling me it's "too tight and doesn't flatter my body."
I've been dreaming about this dress for months - the lace detail, the way it hugs my curves, that gorgeous open back. When I put it on, I felt like the most beautiful version of myself. But now all I can hear is her voice saying "it's just not flattering."
The thing is, I've struggled with my weight my whole life and finally learned to love my body. This dress celebrates my figure instead of hiding it, which felt revolutionary after decades of wearing shapeless clothes to avoid judgment. But maybe she's right? Maybe I'm deluding myself?
I found this boutique from a recommendation by one of the crafters I follow on the Tedooo app - I ordered most of my wedding decor from her shop. The staff there made me feel gorgeous, but now I'm wondering if they were just being nice to make a sale.
My fiancé hasn't seen it yet, and I'm terrified he'll have the same reaction. Should I trust how I looked and felt in this dress, or listen to the one person whose opinion I thought I could count on?
I need honest feedback from strangers. Does this dress really look bad, or should I trust my instincts and wear what makes me feel beautiful on my wedding day?