11/25/2025
This topic, as morbid and uncomfortable as it is, is not discussed enough. It's good to see some more of it in the news.
End-of-life planning already requires a lot of tough considerations. AI is adding a new dilemma, Kate Lindsay reported in 2024: Do you want to live forever as a chatbot? https://theatln.tc/4omBNuMu
“Instead of grieving a loved one by listening to their voicemails on repeat, you can now upload them to an AI audio program and create a convincing voice clone,” Lindsay writes. “Train a chatbot off a dead person’s emails or texts, and you can forever message a digital approximation of them.”
Potential pitfalls with this kind of technology abound. A voice clone can be made to say whatever its creator wants it to, while a chatbot is essentially improvising on what the deceased said in life, “including, potentially, ideas they’d abandoned or biases they’d overcome,” Lindsay writes. “Grief, too, gets complicated. Deathbots can be an unhealthy coping mechanism for the bereaved—a way to never have to fully acknowledge the death of a loved one.”
“What makes all of this especially fraught is that the dead person may not have given consent,” Lindsay writes. Some existing AI companies that specialize in deathbots are “designed for you to submit your data before your death, which allows for some agency in the process. But these policies are not standard across the digital-afterlife industry,” Lindsay continues. “Just like other apps that pester you with push notifications, a deathbot could keep sending reminders to message the AI replica of your mom. Or a company could threaten to discontinue access to a deathbot unless you fork up more money.” And with current artificial-intelligence laws, there’s not much legal recourse for the harmful ways in which someone could interact with a deathbot.
“Older people who are getting their affairs in order today are caught in the tricky position of having to make decisions based on deathbot technology as it exists in the present, even though the ramifications might play out in a very different world,” Lindsay continues. “Even if they manage to account for all of their possessions and plan out every end-of-life decision—a monumental task in its own right—their digital remains still might linger forever.”
🎨: Daniel Zender