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01/07/2026

I (F27) was having a casual conversation with a coworker (M50s) and he brought up that the enrollment period for our company insurance was coming to an end and asked me if I had finished signing up yet. I responded by saying "Oh, I use my husband's insurance. Our company is opposed to reproductive rights and only covers birth control when mandated by law". He said something along the lines of "I guess you need some type of control" and we moved on to talking about the technical work that we were doing. Later in the afternoon I got an email from my boss (M26) and he said that I shouldn't talk about details of my personal life with my co-worker and it made people uncomfortable. My thought is that equal rights only happen when people are willing to make it a part of mainstream conversation. AITA for responding truthfully, but possibly with a bit TMI to a conversation started by my co worker, or should I have just kept it at "Oh, I use my husband's insurance" and not finished the sentence? Edit: There was one other person in the room when I made the comment (also M50s). My boss didn't say who, but my belief is that it is the other person in the room who made the complaint, not the one I was actually talking to. Edit 2: Wow, a lot more attention than I thought. First, a lot of questions about my work. I work for a hospital owned by a catholic conglomerate that employs about 125k people. I accepted the job when it was my only career related option for work, and it can be hard to leave. I wish I could work for someone with all the same ideals as I have, but then I would probably just be self employed. There are several people in my department who are openly non christian religions, and LGBTQ+. Just because it is a catholic organization does not mean it directly reflects the views of many of the employees. I spoke with my boss today. He was promoted from being my co-worker about a month ago and is still semi transitioning into his first management job. He apologized for his email without discussing with me and I apologized for my combative tone in the work place. He mentioned that our company policy includes harassments to include conversations that make people uncomfortable when they are within ear shot even if they are not directed at them (which confirmed my suspicion) but also conceded that what I said would not be considered harassment. I apologized for taking such a combative stance and said I will try to be more cognizant of my tone and audience in the future. He said that he never made an official statement to HR and was addressing this as a disagreement between coworkers. I also believe my other coworker's statement was a sort of "clumsy agreement" with me as I saw in the comments, not an attack at me, so I did not mention it. I have a summary of our conversation in email and saved. I doubt he handled it the best or most officially, but in the interest of an amicable work place, I have left it at that, have my documentation, and don't intend to follow it any further on my end.

01/07/2026

So basically every year my family and I drive a few hours East to visit our grandparents and extended family for Thanksgiving. This year it was decided that since most of my siblings now had SO's (including me) that we would need to take separate cars to drive or we would need to get plane tickets. My sister (26F) and my girlfriend (20F) and me (20M) all decided that we would take my car and would switch drivers if I got tired. Now I have a very strong relationship with my sister. We are very close and always have been. So this is what actually happened. We were on our way back from thanksgiving dinner and going to where we were staying for the night. I turn around and notice that my sister was not wearing her seatbelt. Now due to getting in an accident 2 years ago and browsing r/idiotsincars I am very strict about safety while driving. Especially when it is my car and I am who am driving. So I ask her to put on her seatbelt. She laughs it off and just looks at her phone and ignores me. so me and my dramatic self decided to make an ordeal out of it. I pull over on the side of the road, flip on my hazards, and turn around with a joking smile. I playfully announce that I will not be moving the car until she puts on her seatbelt. She replies with "don't be a d__k". Now see that's what got me, my sister and I NEVER have cussed at each other in a non-joking or derogatory way. It caught me off guard. So I replied with "well stop being an a__hole". Turned around and restated that I will not be moving the car until she puts on her seatbelt. I pull out my phone, click on some Disney+, and wait for her to comply. Well she gets really smug and pops in her ear buds to do the same. My girlfriend, who has been in the passenger seat, started "arguing" over which dish was our favorites". She makes the comment "why can't you just agree with me" and then my sister interjects from the backseat with "because he's a little b__ch with control issues". Okay so now I'm piping hot. I turn around with "well you have other siblings you can ride back with. You are no longer welcome in this f__king car. So once we get back get all your s__t out of here" so after that she said "with f__king pleasure". I pulled back onto the road and went back to where we were sleeping and it was a completely silent trip. Once we parked she slammed my door shut and stormed off. Once we got inside I Venmo her back all the gas money she had paid me with the caption ":)". She sends me a Snapchat that basically said this "you would have reacted the same way had the situation been reversed" to which I replied with basically "I would never have started the name calling". TL;DR sister doesn't put on seatbelt, I kick her out of my car. EDIT: I just wanted to let everyone know that my sister came back and we bashed it out. We talked it over and she apologized for being not following my car rules and the name calling. I apologized for the name calling as well. We are now loading the car back up and preparing to head back to Florida tonight.

01/07/2026

Hello everyone! I’m 27F. My friend, “Jessica” (28F) was supposed to get married over the summer. She asked me and a few of our other friends to be her bridesmaids by giving us gift boxes with things for the bachelorette party, which is going to be a long weekend in Mexico (3 of us are nurses, two are teachers, we’re all vaccinated). The box had sunglasses, a bathing suit, shoes, some jewelry, a water bottle, and a tote bag in it-they were really nice. Well, Jessica’s fiancé got a call from her boyfriend and the wedding was called off (neither one of them knew about the other). We were all just as blindsided as he was, we had no idea. Jessica recently contacted me to tell me that since the trip isn’t happening, she wants the bridesmaids gifts back! I guess some of the girls hadn’t taken any of their stuff out of them so they just gave them back but I took the stuff out, I used the tote bag and the sunglasses already, and after I had tried on the bathing suit I cut the tags off. When i told Jessica that I had assumed this stuff was a gift, so I had already used some of it, she got really mad and said that I should’ve saved it for the trip, and that I had to reimburse her for the price of all of the stuff. I was going to do it just to get her off my back but then I found out when I was hanging out with her ex one day that she wasn’t the one who bought the things in the boxes-he was. So I asked him if he wanted me to reimburse him, and he said no, and that it’s just a drop in the bucket of all the money he’s down from the wedding and the extra $275 won’t really make any difference. I’m not really worried about losing my friendship with Jessica- I think what she did to her fiancé says a lot about her character but I know her and the maid of honor-her sister-are talking a lot of s__t in the group chat that I’m “stealing” from Jessica. AITA?

01/07/2026

I (21f) and my partner (21m) are first time parents. He works around 8 hours a day in construction while I’m a SAHM. We each have our own “jobs” and so far it’s been working 85% of the time. We decided early in the pregnancy that this was the plan because of how expensive and nerve-wracking childcare can be. But like all first time parents, we’d had no idea what to expect with a baby and how postpartum would affect me. Our son is 3 weeks old and has a pretty good schedule at the moment. He wakes up every 3ish hours for a bottle and diaper change, and my body is finally adjusting so I’m handling it well-until a surprise “rough night” happens. This is when our baby is more fussy than usual and scream-cries, fights sleep, eats WAY more than normal, and just rebels against his usual routine. This is when my postpartum anger sets in. I get so angry because I’m tired, can’t figure out what the baby needs from me, and I’m going through the motions. Meanwhile, my partner sleeps through EVERYTHING. I wake him up numerous times saying “please tag me out”, “I’m getting too angry to think straight”, “I need help, I don’t know what’s wrong”, and he wakes for a second but goes back to sleep. However, the last bad night we had I lost it and yelled at my partner. I was so angry I couldn’t think and my partner wouldn’t wake up to help so I yelled at him and woke him up out of a dead sleep. I instantly regretted it because he looked frightened and after I said “I’ve been asking you for help and you won’t. I can’t do this, I’m tagging out.” He got angry. He called me a rude-ass for yelling at him, said “I’ll just get up then” with an attitude, and yelled at me because I went to go cry in the bathroom saying “oh god, don’t be like that.” I’m not asking a lot, just help on the bad nights and the moments that I need to tag out for safety. However, I feel guilty I got angry with him. I know we each have things we do for “jobs” and his isn’t easy either. So, AITA for getting angry and lashing out about the lack of help during bad nights?

01/07/2026

My (20m) girlfriend (22F) always complains and literally cries sometimes about her job which hasn't been a problem until recently. My brother who I was extremely close to passed away unexpectedly about 2 weeks ago. I've barely been holding it together and have been a complete mess. So about a week ago he had his funeral and my girlfriend can't make it because her boss won't let her take the day off of work which is totally fine and I understand. She meets up with me after work like an hour after the funeral, and starts crying almost immediately. She starts venting to me about how much she hates her boss and her schedule and how bad of a day she had at work. Meanwhile my whole world feels like its completely falling apart and a peice of my heart was ripped out of my chest. After she's done rambling about work I asked her "why does everything have to be about you? I permanently lost one of the closest people in my life and you're so selfish that you can't even spare me one day of your trivial problems". She stops crying gets mad and drives home and texts me "you're an a__hole" So reddit AITA for calling my girlfriend selfish for crying after my brother's funeral? Edit: definitely won't be able to respond to everyone was only expecting a couple replies. Common question is if this is reoccurring behavior which it is and extends beyond her work but it doesn't really bother me on the day to day basis, I don't think her problems are actually trivial, I just felt like it was a total lack of awareness of the relativity of our 2 situations

01/07/2026

So, my mom and I have a historically strained relationship. That aside, she's been working near my house lately and we've gone to breakfast on a few weekends lately. She tends be kind of a "karen" at restaurants. For example, she often sends food back saying it's cold or if there's an unexpected ingredient in it and tips embarassingly bad, never over 15% and kinda shamelessly presses "no tip" at Square registers. Pretty routinely asks for changes to items on a menu. At this restaurant, she's repeatedly asked for a sandwich but without lettuce, onion, tomato and avocado. At some point, either she asked for a discount for removing these ingredients or it was rung up in such a way that it's three dollars cheaper. On this occasion, she placed this order and it was rung up for the normal price, not with the three dollar discount. She told the cashier "Oh, they always do it for me such and such and it's three dollars less". The manager interceded and kinda curtly said something to the effect of "That was a mistake, and we're not doing that". (whole time I'm feeling pretty embarassed and wanting to leave!), she continued to argue, and the manager told her "You've been rude to each and everyone one of my staff, so if you can't order off the menu, you can go somewhere else!". Anyway, she thinks I should have stood up for her somehow. I think this should be a wake-up call that her behavior is inappropriate.

01/07/2026

So we have 3 kids, 17, 15, and 10. I’m only a quarter Japanese but spent ~7 years in Japan when I was a teenager living with my parents there. I’m pretty fluent as my job requires a lot of Japanese as well. My wife doesn’t speak Japanese at all and only speaks English. A few years ago my oldest and second oldest wanted to learn Japanese in school which she initially encouraged. Recently they’ve gotten to the point where they can understand great but still struggle to have the confidence to speak out loud. So sometimes at home I’ll practice with them for short periods of time. Like “how was your day, what did you have for lunch, etc.” They’re not advanced enough to hold long deep convos. This has increasingly bothered my wife because she doesn’t understand and always assume we are talking about her (we’re not, it’s all very basic stuff). It has gotten to the point where she has instituted a house-wide ban on all Japanese because she thinks its exclusionary to her and our youngest and bad for family unity. Ive tried to calm her fears but I also don’t think having 5-10 minutes of Japanese conversation every day is bad for the whole family. She told me that in the US it’s universally rude to have conversations of any length that not everyone can understand. However when she’s not around I’ll still speak to my kids in Japanese now and then. Recently our youngest heard us speaking Japanese very briefly in the backyard and told mom. My wife came home that night apoplectic and threatened to cut off our kids tuition if they insist on disrupting our family harmony. Then we had a massive fight between the two of us where she accused me...

01/07/2026

Title is pretty self explanatory. He works with men 90% of the time, but sometimes their wives come out to the property, and then he has a social worker that visits 1-2x a week, as it is an inpatient facility he works at- and she comes to do work ups on some of the patients. Anyway- several months ago I asked about the SW. His words were “she’s fat and not attractive at all. You have nothing to worry about.” Lo and behold, we run into this gal at the store a couple of weeks ago. She’s drop dead gorgeous, her body is a 10, and she has an infectious smile. Does he introduce me? Nope. So after I throw a pregnant b__ch fit, I finally shut up. He tells me that they’re never in his office alone, people are always around, blah blah blah. So here we are- and he has another broad hitting him up with “time flies when you’re having fun” messages online, kissy winky faces, you name it. Once again- I ask about her. “Oh- she’s XYZ’s wife. Nothing to worry about.” I am firm in the belief that if you don’t set boundaries with someone- that they will try to push the line, more times than not. It’s been 2 days, and I’m still upset. I’m pregnant, and getting bigger by the day. He blames it on my hormones, and I blame it on the fact that he won’t set any f__king boundaries in his work life, which in my mind will eventually lead to an affair- emotional or physical. That being said- AITA for wanting him to set boundaries with these women and remind them that he is in fact- very married? Edit for some questions: I’m not the jealous type. He has several female friends, and I really don’t care. We’re mutual friends, or I’ve at least met them. The issue is when he rushes me out at his work because SW is coming in, or because someone’s wife is coming in. I’m not a stay at home parent. I work full time as a nurse, and deal with geriatric patients, 99.9% of who have dementia or Alzheimer‘s, so it’s not like there’s anything exciting at my work. I’m more irritated that he refuses to set boundaries with these women. If it was a one time meeting, cool. I don’t expect him to say “hey BTW I’m married.” However- when it’s hours a week and you’re always together or texting? Yeah. I would expect boundaries to be set. I’ve brought it up in a calm manner, and all he says is “well it’s weird to tell them that.” B__ch please. It’s weird that you refuse to draw a line for them, and you’re more worried about coming off weird than to keep your pregnant wife and two other children in the picture.

01/07/2026

My sister 'Becky' and some friends were out shopping. She vented about being in a roommate phase with her husband and said the last thing she did to work on it was ask him to send her an example of a dress that he found sexy with the intention of her buying it and wearing it for him on a date nite. She showed us the dress to mixed reactions. She obviously hated the dress. It was a very 'club wear' type of dress, tight and short with thin straps and a plunging neckline, a slit up the thigh, etc. Like if you googled 'generic sexy dress' I bet it would come up. Her friends jumped in about how it was gross and sexist and says a lot about who he is and what he values. A lot of 'this is how he expects you to dress' and 'you're just a trophy for him' type of stuff. I thought this was a huge overreaction. Like... it's definitely not her style but I didn't think it was THAT bad. So I told her to just get the dress and stop overthinking it. They tore into me saying I'm a pick me and how he should love her how she is instead of trying to get her to change into something she's not. I said I don't think that's what he's trying to do but they told me that I don't get it. I am so worried that me saying to just get the dress was the wrong thing to do. I do have trouble knowing when people want support and encouragement versus solutions. Did I misread the situation and this was a 'support, not solutions' type of thing?

01/07/2026

Sorry I suck at writing. Please to forgive in advance. My brother starting dating "Big Shirl" when he was in 6th grade. He's 25 now to show how long this has been going on. To say that he and Big Shirl were toxic together is an understatement. We have they have well over a decade of torturing the f__k out of each other. To say they have broken up and gotten back together well over 1000 times is another understatement. My entire family would go through the roller coaster ride with him and we'd always see him date a really nice girl, then Big Shirl would get in touch with promises of p***o s__ and he'd dump the nice girl and be right back into the Big Shirl's arms. It has been about 2 years since their last breakup and he met a girl named Karli who is literally a peach. We all love everything about her. My brother finally went no contact with Big Shirl at the time he met Karli and has had 2 years of relationship bliss. They got married on Saturday. My brother says he blocked Big Shirl on everything and I am inclined to believe him since it's been 2 years since her stench has darkened our doors. We had a very low key bachelor party on Friday in that we played poker and smoked ci**rs. At about 11:30 Big Shirl texted me and asked if the wedding was really taking place. I said yes and to not bother him. She said to please let him know her heart was breaking but she'd be his personal bachelor party if he was so inclined. I didn't say anything to my brother that night but on the way from the ceremony to the reception I made a...

01/07/2026

So, myself (27M) and my fiancé (28F) have been together close to a year, engaged for half of that. We are planning a wedding in the fall of ‘24 and have started a guest list. She comes from a big family and I am an only child. We are close with one of her sisters in particular, and often went to visit her and play board games and such. This sister has a fiancé and is pregnant. Recently, my fiancé told me that her sister was having a shotgun wedding before the baby arrived in order to keep with their traditional values and appease familial religious desires. Back up a bit. I’ve done a lot for her sister and soon-to-be husband. I planned a birthday party for his son-from-another-marriage, I’ve given her rides, always brought small gifts when I would visit. I’ve gone as far as to stop everything I was doing to help her during a health scare while she was pregnant. I really felt like a part of the family. Fast forward. In a text to my fiancé upon announcing her wedding, her sister made it a point to say, “It’s a small wedding, no plus ones. OP can come to the dinner afterwards.” All fine by me. I honestly don’t really mind, as ceremonies can be dull and I understood why she would only want to have immediate family at her small wedding. I woke up on the day of the wedding to help my fiancé get ready and drive her over to her sisters house. I planned on driving my fiancé, her sister, and her sisters soon-to-be husband to the venue and bringing them to the dinner afterwards. My fiancé told me, “It’s okay, just drop me off at my sisters and we will get a ride over.” A little odd, but I was fine with that too. I arrived over there and as my fiancé got out of the car I asked if I could come in and congratulate them. She seemed hesitant and said, “Uhh, ok. Let me just text my sister to make sure.” I was dressed in plainclothes, and was hesitantly invited to come inside. We walked up to the house. Inside was a party of her siblings, and their friends and significant others all dressed up. They all looked at me and didn’t say much. I saw another one of her sisters, and her new boyfriend was in a suit. Everyone was invited. The “no plus 1’s” only applied to me. I immediately left, and in a text told my fiancé they were off the guest list for our wedding. My fiancé is upset at that, because her sister is her close friend. She said maybe I did something to upset them which is why I wasn’t invited, but I’ve been nothing but kind and caring to her entire family. I’ve spent hundreds of dollars and gone above and beyond for everyone. Now we are fighting over this. AITA? So, myself (27M) and my fiancé (28F) have been together close to a year, engaged for half of that. We are planning a wedding in the fall of ‘24 and have started a guest list. She comes from a big family and I am an only child. We are close with one of her sisters in particular, and often went to visit her and play board games and such. This sister has a fiancé and is pregnant. Recently, my fiancé told me that her sister was having a shotgun wedding before the baby arrived in order to keep with their traditional values and appease familial religious desires. Back up a bit. I’ve done a lot for her sister and soon-to-be husband. I planned a birthday party for his son-from-another-marriage, I’ve given her rides, always brought small gifts when I would visit. I’ve gone as far as to stop everything I was doing...

01/06/2026

I (18F) recently had a tough interaction with my mom (44F) that's been weighing on me, and I'm wondering if I handled it poorly. For context, I've always been a sensitive and non-confrontational person. My mom, on the other hand, naturally has a more aggressive way of speaking, which I often find overwhelming. Here's what happened: I came home tired after work, cooked dinner for the family, and started serving food for myself. My sister (who was preoccupied) eats larger portions than I do, so I was carefully serving her plate when my mom commented on my portion size, saying, *'Why're you eating as if you're on a budget?'* For context, I eat small portions naturally it's just how I've always been. I replied, *'I don't know, I'm tired. I just want to eat and go to sleep,'* and finished serving the food. I was so exhausted that I fell asleep while eating. My mom woke me up pretty aggressively to tell me to wash my plate, which I did before going back to bed. The next day, we were out running errands, and I tried to make small talk, but she brushed me off. When we got home, I mentioned that I hadn't been sleeping well. Her response was, *'Yeah, it's obvious with the ignorant way you were talking yesterday,'* mimicking me with an exaggerated tone like I was a bratty teenager. She also accused me of serving my sister's plate as if I didn't want to share. This felt unfair because I'd been checking with my sister to make sure I was serving enough. I got upset and started tearing up as I tried to explain myself, but my mom dismissed it, saying she was *'just joking'* and that I'm *'too thin-skinned.'* She added that this is why she can't say anything to me because I get upset and 'act out' (for context, the most I do is cry and excuse myself). I told her that I *am* sensitive and that I don't like being spoken to in a raised or aggressive tone. I also said that the way she speaks to me makes me feel like I can't talk to her about how I'm feeling, and that some of her comments about my appearance or actions feel insulting. She denied ever insulting me, said she doesn't understand why I feel that way, and then listed all the things she's done for me to show she cares. I acknowledged that I see her care through her actions, but her words make me feel otherwise. She ended the conversation by saying she just wouldn't talk to me anymore because she doesn't know how to without me getting 'too sensitive.' She then asked my sister to grab her phone and started singing church music while I was still trying to explain my feelings. I feel like her behavior was dismissive and immature, but I also wonder if I'm being unreasonable or overly sensitive. AITA?

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