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09/10/2026

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Piecing Ourselves Back Together

We do not piece ourselves back together
all at once.

There is no single morning
when we wake
and find all the missing pieces restored,
back where they once belonged.

Instead, we gather them slowly,
a flicker of warmth,
a moment when the ache softens,
the quiet stirrings of an emotion
we thought grief had taken away.

We learn that grief
has its own seasons.
Some days we are almost whole,
and some days we are shattered again
by a song, a photograph,
a wave of longing
that arrives without warning.

Healing is not forgetting.
It is learning to carry
what we cannot undo.

So we sit quietly with what remains,
touching the broken edges with tenderness.
Some wounds have become openings
through which compassion enters.

Some absences have carved deeper places within us,
where memory quietly lives.

And slowly, life begins to take shape again.

Piece by piece, breath by breath,
we discover that what has been broken
can still be beautiful.

Perhaps healing is not becoming whole
as we once were,
but learning to live with all that has happened,
holding the loss,
holding the love,
holding the memory,

and becoming someone
who can carry both
the sorrow
and the light.

~ 'Piecing Ourselves Back Together' by Spirit of a Hippie

✍️ Mary Anne Byrne

~ Art by GoldenChiArt

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09/10/2026

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Let our Scars
Fall in Love

- Galway Kinnell

Scared. Scarred. Sacred.

Three words that hold so much of what it means to be human.

We live in a world that needs more space to embrace shadow, shame, pain and vulnerability. Space to speak about death and grief. Space for the wounds we carry and the experiences that have marked us. Space that does not rush toward fixing, reframing or turning every difficult passage into a lesson.

To be dedicated to depth is to make room for all of this.

Our scars are part of the story.

The work is not to erase them, but to discover how they might become places of greater compassion, connection and love.

When we can sit beside what has frightened us, wounded us or changed us, something begins to shift. The scar can become a threshold. Pain can open into healing. Shame can loosen its hold. Vulnerability can become a place where we meet one another with greater humanity.

Scared. Scarred. Sacred.

Perhaps becoming whole is not about leaving our scars behind.
Perhaps it is learning how to let them become part of the love we bring into the world.

This is the kind of depth we make space for in the Creative Depth Program, where we are still welcoming women into the year ahead.

xo, Cat





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09/08/2026

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♍ Kali sulph: The Purifier. The Cell-Renewer. The Virgo Salt.

Virgo governs purification.
Kali sulph supports the processes through which purification is completed.
Most people think of Virgo as the analyst. The organiser, the perfectionist, the meticulous keeper of order.

Yet before order can be restored, something essential must occur:
β–ͺ Nourishment must be separated from waste.
β–ͺ Useful material must be distinguished from the spent.
β–ͺ Old cells must be released before new tissue can take their place.
β–ͺ Inflammation must resolve after the initial reaction has passed.

Virgo sorts, refines and completes. Kali sulph clears the way for renewal.

Dr. George W. Carey wrote:
β€œVirgo is represented in the human body by the solar plexus and bowels… while the bowels complete the chemicalization of the food products ready to be assimilated by the blood.”

πŸ”¬ Core Biochemic Functions
Biochemic literature assigns Kali sulph a particular affinity for:
β–ͺ The skin and scalp
β–ͺ Respiratory mucous membranes
β–ͺ The lining of the stomach and intestines
β–ͺ The liver, spleen and digestive organs
β–ͺ Yellow or yellow-green secretions
β–ͺ The later stages of inflammation

It is associated with:
β–ͺ Metabolic activity
β–ͺ Epithelial renewal / The shedding of worn surface cells
β–ͺ The clearing of lingering secretions
β–ͺ Perspiration and heat distribution
β–ͺ Later-stage inflammatory resolution
β–ͺ Recuperation and rebuilding after illness
β–ͺ Cellular oxygen use in partnership with Ferr phos

Kali sulph belongs to the stage in which the body has reacted, but has not yet finished the work.

♍ Virgo and Purification
Virgo rules:
β–ͺ The bowels
β–ͺ Digestion and assimilation
β–ͺ Discernment
β–ͺ Classification
β–ͺ Purification
β–ͺ Health and daily care
β–ͺ The harvest
β–ͺ Service and practical refinement
Virgo separates the useful from the unusable.

Kali sulph performs the same symbolic role within the biochemic system.
The body does not remain clean by avoiding contact with the world.
It must breathe, eat, encounter microorganisms, process foreign substances, shed old cells and remove the products of its own metabolism.

Purification is not one dramatic cleanse. It is the continuous work of receiving, sorting, transforming and releasing.
Virgo expresses this principle symbolically, Kali sulph expresses it biochemically.

The Maiden and the Wheat
Virgo is traditionally depicted as the Maiden holding an ear of wheat.

The grain represents the completed work of the earth:
Soil, minerals, water and sunlight gathered into a form capable of sustaining life.

Yet wheat cannot nourish the body simply because it has been harvested.
The grain must be separated from the chaff, It must be prepared, eaten and broken down.
Its useful components must be absorbed, while what cannot be used continues towards elimination.

The harvest and the digestive system tell the same story:
What can nourish is retained, what has completed its purpose is released.

Virgo is mutable earth, not matter lying still, but matter being harvested, sorted, refined and transformed.

Virgo is matter undergoing intelligent change.

The Maiden and the Living Boundary
Kali sulph is commonly called a skin remedy, but epithelium is not limited to the skin we can see.
Epithelial tissue covers the body and lines the respiratory and digestive passages. These surfaces form living boundaries between the internal body and the outside world.
They must protect without becoming completely closed, they must regulate what enters, what remains and what moves out.

These tissues also depend upon continual renewal.
Cells are produced, mature, perform their work and are eventually shed. The visible surface remains intact because old cells continually give way to new ones.

The boundary remains because its cells do not.
This gives the youthful Maiden another layer of meaning. Youthful skin is not skin that remains unchanged, It is skin capable of orderly renewal.

Purity is not the absence of change, It is change occurring without the loss of order.

The Architecture of Purification

Many traditional Kali sulph indications may appear unrelated:
β–ͺ Yellow or yellow-green mucus
β–ͺ Lingering respiratory catarrh
β–ͺ Yellow, sticky or oily dandruff
β–ͺ Dry, harsh or scaling skin
β–ͺ Persistent or recurring eruptions
β–ͺ Hair shedding with scalp disturbance
β–ͺ A slimy yellow coating towards the back of the tongue
β–ͺ Gastric pressure or fullness
β–ͺ Abdominal bloating and heaviness
β–ͺ Yellow, slimy diarrhoea
β–ͺ Weariness after illness
β–ͺ Slow or incomplete recovery

Yet they share a common biochemic pattern.
The initial reaction has occurred, but resolution is incomplete...
Secretions linger, the skin continues to scale, congestion remains after the acute stage has passed.
The person feels heavy, stagnant or slow to return to normal.

Something has been broken down, but not carried onwards.
Traditional biochemic teaching therefore describes Kali sulph as a principal purification or detoxification mineral.

This does not mean it single-handedly β€œdetoxes” the entire body, or that it forcefully causes a purge. The liver, kidneys, bowel, lungs, skin, immune system and numerous enzymes all participate in processing and eliminating unwanted material.

The traditional Kali sulph picture belongs particularly to the epithelial and later-stage side of this work:
β–ͺ Clearing secretions.
β–ͺ Shedding spent cells.
β–ͺ Resolving lingering inflammation.
β–ͺ Restoring healthy surface tissue.
β–ͺ Making room for the next cycle to begin.

All of these are vital for the detoxification process.

πŸ‘ Facial and Tongue Signs
β–ͺ Ochre or brownish-yellow colouring to the facial skin
β–ͺ Yellow colouring beneath the lower lip
β–ͺ Yellow-brown colour at the inner corners of the eyes
β–ͺ Dry, harsh or unevenly flaking skin
β–ͺ Scaling around the hairline, eyebrows or nose
β–ͺ Yellow, sticky or oily dandruff
β–ͺ Hair shedding alongside scalp disturbance
β–ͺ A slimy yellow tongue coating, often towards the rear

Reaction and Timing

Aggravated by:
β–ͺ Warm, close or stuffy rooms
β–ͺ Late afternoon and evening
β–ͺ Stagnant surroundings

Relieved by:
β–ͺ Cool, fresh air
β–ͺ Open windows and ventilation
β–ͺ Gentle movement

The Kali sulph person often wants fresh air around what has become hot, heavy or stagnant.

Purification–Emotional Parallels
Symbolically, the Virgo–Kali sulph pattern may appear as:
β–ͺ Perfectionism
β–ͺ Internalised criticism
β–ͺ Irritable and Impatient
β–ͺ Vague feelings of anxiety and sadness
β–ͺ Difficulty releasing mistakes or unfinished responsibilities
β–ͺ Service becoming self-sacrifice
β–ͺ Discernment becoming relentless fault-finding

Virgo’s challenge is knowing when refinement has served its purpose.
The same principle appears in the traditional Kali sulph picture.
A reaction that was once useful must eventually resolve, a surface cell that has completed its work must be shed.

A thought that has delivered its lesson must be released. There is a time to analyse, and a time to assimilate. A time to improve, and a time to declare the work complete.

♍ Kali Sulph - The Purification of Virgo

Virgo separates the essential from the spent.
Kali sulph supports the biochemic processes of clearing and renewal.

When the Kali sulph pattern is disturbed:
β–ͺ Secretions linger
β–ͺ Skin becomes congested or flaky
β–ͺ Surface renewal appears sluggish
β–ͺ Heat and heaviness accumulate
β–ͺ Recovery remains unfinished

When the process moves correctly:
β–ͺ Secretions clear
β–ͺ Worn cells are shed
β–ͺ Healthy surfaces are restored
β–ͺ The inflammatory cycle resolves
β–ͺ The body proceeds into its next stage

This is the true purity of Virgo.
Not sterility, not perfection.
Not a body sealed away from the world.
It is the ability to meet the world, transform what is received and release what has completed its purpose.

The Maiden holds the wheat because she understands the intelligence hidden within matter.

Virgo gathers the grain.
Kali sulph clears the chaff.

Together, they preserve what can nourish, and prepare the living ground to begin again. ♍

Archangel Rafael Divine Healing Guardian
09/04/2026

Archangel Rafael
Divine Healing Guardian

A test post to see how far this reaches! FB doing some weird things for me lately! I'd love if you could give it a like or a comment if you see this!

This painting is of Archangel Raphael and I hope it brings you a calm and healing energy.

Love learning the wisdom of all cultures.πŸ™
09/04/2026

Love learning the wisdom of all cultures.
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09/02/2026

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πŸ‚Meet this moment...

September brings us toward the season of gathering.

Fruits ripen. Seeds fall. Leaves begin their turning.

We notice what has grown, what has been gathered and what we might want to carry forward.

There are many ways to honor...and make an offering.

A handful of autumn fruit.

Fallen petals gathered from the garden.

Scraps of cloth carrying color and story.

Something found. Something made. Something given.

Art as ritual lives here, in the ordinary moments of our lives.

Gathered with purpose and offered with intention.

XO, Cat

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09/01/2026

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She is not the loud one.

She is not the golden queen who will come next month with her arms full of pumpkins and her hair full of wind. She is not the harvest sovereign in her crimson cloak, blazing at the edges of every wood. That one is her younger sister β€” the theatrical one, the one everyone remembers, the one who arrives with trumpets and a procession of geese.

September is the older sister.

She comes quietly.

She wears a soft grey shawl the color of the mist that lies over the field in the early morning. It has been folded in her cedar chest all summer, and it still smells faintly of the woodsmoke of last October, and of the beeswax candle her mother kept lit on the last night of every year.

The shawl has been mended in three places. She has been wearing it for a very long time.

Her dress underneath is the color of oat straw β€” the pale gold of a field that has already been cut but has not yet been ploughed. Soft. Dry. Warm. The kind of gold that does not shine at you but sits quietly with you, the way an older woman's gold sits, patient and unshowy.

Her hair is pinned up loosely at the back of her neck, and there are small dried flowers tucked into it β€” the very last of the meadow's yarrow, and a sprig of Queen Anne's lace gone to seed. She does not wear a crown. She has never needed one.

Her pockets are deep.

She keeps apples in them.

Small ones. Green-and-red and slightly tart, the first of the year, the kind that fall from the tree not because anyone picks them but because they are ready. She reaches into her pocket sometimes and hands one, without a word, to a woman who looks tired. That is her small quiet gift, the one she is known for among those who know her.

She carries other things too.

A single beeswax candle, wrapped in a scrap of linen, in case a woman needs a light for something she has not yet learned how to name. A small folded square of woodsmoke, saved from a fire that was banked last April. A handful of the softest wool, in case a woman needs something warm laid across her shoulders when the first cool evening arrives. A wooden matchbox. A curl of oat straw. A single acorn.

Behind her, always, she trails long amber shadows.

They are her oldest companions. They walk a few paces behind her wherever she goes. They lie across kitchen tables in the late afternoon. They stretch themselves along the yellow grass at four o'clock. They are the shadows a woman notices for the first time on the second day of the ninth month, when the light comes lower through the window than it did last week and she looks up from what she is doing and thinks: oh. She is here.

September walks slowly.

That is the first thing to know about her. She has never once been in a hurry. She has thirty long days ahead of her, and she plans to use every one of them. She does not rush the leaves. She does not rush the light. She does not rush the woman who is still trying to close August in her heart. She only walks β€” slowly, in her soft grey shawl, with her apples in her pockets and her amber shadows following β€” through the small towns and the wide fields and the quiet kitchens of the world.

She stops sometimes.

She stops at the doorstep of a woman who is grieving something small and unnameable, and she lays a hand β€” cool, dry, quiet β€” on that woman's shoulder for a moment, and then she moves on.

She stops at the window of a child who is beginning school for the first time, and she blesses the child's shoes.

She stops at the field of a farmer who has been up since four, and she lets her long amber shadow lie down across his tractor for a moment, so he knows he is not alone.

She stops at the edge of the wood, where the first leaf has already turned, and she nods to it β€” one small nod of recognition β€” the way a woman nods to another woman who has begun a piece of work she herself will not finish for weeks.

And then she keeps walking.

If you see her this month β€” and you will, though you may not know at first that it is her β€” do not startle. Do not try to hurry her. Do not ask her what she has come for.

She has come only to walk with you.

For thirty long slow days.

In her soft grey shawl, with her apples in her pockets, and her long amber shadows trailing quietly behind.

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07/29/2026

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