We Understand You

We Understand You The Healing Experience. A place to understand trauma, experience nervous system healing, find connection & discover what healing can feel like.

We understand you because we were you.

09/15/2026

We are NOT canceling the Healing Experience but we are postponing it.

God showed a different vision and different direction for the event.

Since it was His vision for me to carry out, I will be obedient to His direction.

This isn't see you later, it's see you in March

Winter can feel especially harsh when you’re already carrying seasonal depression, anxiety, depression, or the aftereffe...
09/14/2026

Winter can feel especially harsh when you’re already carrying seasonal depression, anxiety, depression, or the aftereffects of trauma.

Put them together, and winter can feel very, very long.

Why?

Because we are built for connection.

We are built to experience other people. Conversation. Laughter. Movement. Sunlight. Fresh air. Belonging. Safe relationships.

And winter can quietly take a lot of that away.

The days get shorter.
The nights get longer.
The temperature drops, so we stay inside more.
We cancel plans because we don’t want to go out in the cold.
We see fewer people.
We move less.
And even when the sun is shining, sometimes it feels so distant that we can barely feel its warmth.

For someone already struggling with trauma aftereffects, anxiety, or depression, that isolation can become heavy.

Your world starts getting smaller without you even realizing it.

Home.
Work.
Home.
Darkness.
Cold.
Repeat.

And when your nervous system has spent years learning to survive, connection matters.

Safe connection can remind the body:

I’m not alone.
I belong somewhere.
Someone sees me.
I am safe enough to come out of survival mode for a moment.

And THIS is one of the reasons we are doing the We Understand You Healing Experience.

We don't want you walking into another difficult season with nothing but the advice to “just get through it.”

We want to equip you before winter gets here.

With education that helps you understand what is happening in your mind and body.

With practical tools you can actually use when anxiety rises, your mood drops, or your nervous system feels overwhelmed.

With resources you can take home and continue using long after the Healing Experience is over.

And with something many of us desperately need:

Connection with people who understand.

This isn't about pretending winter won't be hard.

It's about helping you become better equipped for it.

So THIS winter, instead of simply surviving until spring…

you can come out ahead.

Come learn.
Come connect.
Come experience.
Come discover what healing can feel like.

We Understand You — The Healing Experience
October 2–3, 2026 • Lima, Ohio

Where Trauma Ends, Healing Begins.

09/13/2026

5 signs of emotional abuse that never look like abuse.

01

Punished for speaking up

Bringing up something that hurt you turns into a fight, and somehow you are the one apologising at the end of it.

02

Your memory gets rewritten

"I never said that." "That is not what happened." "You are being dramatic." Over time you stop trusting what you remember.

03 Affection gets switched off

Warmth, conversation, and attention disappear whenever you do not behave the way they want.

04

Your openness gets used

The things you shared when you felt safe come back as ammunition the next time there is an argument.

05

You monitor yourself

Your tone, your words, your face, what you bring up and what you leave out. Everything gets managed to prevent the next reaction.

THE REAL PATTERN

Emotional abuse is not only what someone does to you. It is what the relationship slowly trains you to do to yourself.

THE CLEAREST SIGN

Sometimes the clearest sign is not their behaviour. It is how much you had to change yours to stay.

Self care matters...Natural sunlight boosts our Vitamin D and  immunity levels. Get outside or sit in your window where ...
09/13/2026

Self care matters...

Natural sunlight boosts our Vitamin D and immunity levels.

Get outside or sit in your window where the sun permeates through.

09/11/2026
09/11/2026

We Understand You: The Healing Experience can help

A place for survivors to come be seen and heard. A place of belonging. A place of safety. A place of healing. A place of transformation. A place where you are not the outcast. A place where you are accepted for you. A place where your heart can heal and your nervous system can regulate. A place where you dont have to pretend. A place you have been longing for.

We understand you...because we were you...

www.youreunderstoodhere.com

09/10/2026

Meet Laura...

She will be doing two sessions at the 2026 We Understand You on Oct 2-3, Lima OH

Pick your session at www.youreunderstoodhere.com

09/09/2026

What the Healing Experience means for you.

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Spencerville, OH

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