03/16/2025
On our trip from Texas to New Mexico, we had to shift plans due to high winds and dust storms. The neat part? We discovered a couple of amazing Harvest Hosts. The tough part? Hunkering down in 50-60mph winds with no protection from the non-existent trees—slides pulled in, all of us crammed into some very tight living quarters.
By the time we arrived in NM, my husband and I made plans to clean the camper, inside and out, since it was coated in a thick layer of dust and sand. We didn’t expect the kids to want to help.
Normally, they’d head straight to the playground, but this time, they were adamant about being of service.
At first, I said no. I defaulted to what I’ve done many times before—just handling things myself because:
✔️ It would take longer to teach them.
✔️ They wouldn’t do it as well as I could.
✔️ I already had enough on my plate.
But something amazing happened…
By the end of the day, we cleaned far more than I could have on my own. The more I showed them, encouraged them, and praised their efforts, the harder they worked. And they wanted more to do! (For a solid 1.5 hours, which is a lot for a 7- and 10-year-old.)
And then it hit me—I do this in my professional life, too.
For years, I’ve taken things on myself because it’s “easier” than delegating, training, or trusting someone else to do it. When my husband and I started our company back in 2017, I was juggling my own accounting business, a toddler, a pregnancy, and a husband who traveled two weeks out of every month. I didn’t have the mental bandwidth to train or even figure out what I could delegate.
But yesterday, as we wrapped up our day with a big plate of spaghetti and planned our sand-sledding adventures for today, I was reminded what a blessing it is to have people who want to help.
I’m much better at delegating now and much more intentional about developing my current business, but old habits still creep in from time to time. So today, I’m making a vow—both personally and professionally—to break free from doing it all myself or letting those old habits sneak up and in.
Because together, we’ll always achieve so much more.
*Photo courtesy of one of our new 'friends' from the Licon Dairy Inc. in San Elizario, TX which is a Harvest Host where we rode out one of our days in the sand storm. If you love cheese or your kids love animals - this is a great place to stop over.